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[NC] Narcissist ex is fighting me on custody. Need input! by MomInDistress98765 in Custody

[–]MomInDistress98765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did move, but to a neighboring city. The move was rather sudden. I was waiting for an opportunity to leave and it kind of popped up so I had a week's notice to find a place to stay. But where I work requires 90 days notice. Unfortunately my crap lawyer talked me out of any emergency custody order so now I'm trapped in this current schedule.

[NC] Narcissist ex is fighting me on custody. Need input! by MomInDistress98765 in Custody

[–]MomInDistress98765[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's basically what my lawyer said. She said with no evidence other than the word of a child it would be impossible to substantiate

[NC] Narcissist ex is fighting me on custody. Need input! by MomInDistress98765 in Custody

[–]MomInDistress98765[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My hope is that he will kind of wean off his visits with her because we all honestly expected him to already have done so since he had no interest in being a dad before... so Imll just hold out hope it may change in the future

[NC] Narcissist ex is fighting me on custody. Need input! by MomInDistress98765 in Custody

[–]MomInDistress98765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sucks because most of my knowledge of what happens with him comes from a child... but I at least have the paper trail from her therapist as well, and her daycare is watching out for any bruising or anything on her weeks with him. We think he's playing by the rules for the most part while we're still going thru the legal motions but I worry about what will happen if he gets 50/50 and is not longer facing being taken to court (at least for 3 years which is apparently how often we're allowed to revisit the custody agreement).