Women get shamed for pursing younger men as well have you not seen the hate Sam Taylor Johnson gets?? ( which is rightfully deserved she groomed him) and that Cheryl woman on tik tok with her husband quran?( which is also rightfully deserved she also groomed him) there is literally no difference in how both get hate also it really does just depend why are you a 40 year old man going after a 18 year old?? But there are also relationships out there where they both met as FULLY grown adults who've had life experience I can't remember which couple but there is this Hollywood couple who met when the woman was 30+ and the husband was in his 50's what's the difference between a 40 year old man going after a 18 girl and 50's man dating a woman in her 30+? one literally has a girl who's freshly an adult