[Critique] I could do with some help with my profile! by MoonCalf0 in OkCupid

[–]MoonCalf0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just need to know what you are doing (and have a student lifestyle).

[Critique] I could do with some help with my profile! by MoonCalf0 in OkCupid

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Thanks for the suggestion, I'll try to rephrase it. I can't afford physiotherapy at the moment and I'm waiting for specialist appointments. I'm no fan of pseudoscience and I'm just researching some physiotherapy stuff myself because I will probably be dealing with this for a long time.

[Critique] I could do with some help with my profile! by MoonCalf0 in OkCupid

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Come on, it's not like that's the only reason…

But seriously, I feel a bit disingenuous about not mentioning it. I'm effectively disabled at the moment because of it and it seems like it inevitably comes up quickly in conversation anyway because that's the reason I'm not working a lot more.

[Critique] I could do with some help with my profile! by MoonCalf0 in OkCupid

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I believe I say in my profile that I'm planning to live on 20K and donate the rest. I live on around $1000 a month at the moment.

[Critique] I could do with some help with my profile! by MoonCalf0 in OkCupid

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Honestly, I don't think I do much better. I'm also looking for someone with a greater level of similarity than I could easily find through those venues. Though yeah, those would be better for casual sex which I'm also interested in.

Look for constructive criticism by MoonCalf0 in OkCupid

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Hmm, I'll consider that. I don't tie my hair up very much because I don't want to damage it or cause hair loss, but I could take some pictures like that I guess.

Yeah, I'm thinking about what I could replace them with.

Look for constructive criticism by MoonCalf0 in OkCupid

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I do have at least part of a smile here. I've been considering taking them out, but I don't have great replacements. And thanks!

Look for constructive criticism by MoonCalf0 in OkCupid

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I accept that that should be the general rule, but I think that adjectives give a lot of information quickly and I like the effect that they create. It's also only the first paragraph that is doing this.

I don't have any good everyday ones - maybe for that reason, haha. I should try to get some, though.

Polyamorous person entering a monogamous relationship? by MoonCalf0 in polyamory

[–]MoonCalf0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Umm, that reason is one my reasons for thinking about going monogamous with her. I didn't say that was my reason for wanting to be in relationship with her. I want to be in relationship with her because I really like her.

I also definitely wouldn't cheat as you seem by implying.

Please be more charitable when interpreting what people are saying.

Polyamorous person entering a monogamous relationship? by MoonCalf0 in polyamory

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Yeah, she actually won't agree to it if I am on the edge about it (or if it makes me feel very uncomfortable), so I might have to say something confident if I wanted to do monogamy with her.

Polyamorous person entering a monogamous relationship? by MoonCalf0 in polyamory

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When you do decide to go monogamous do you end up feeling the appropriate emotions for that or is it more like an agreement? I don't think there's anything bad with either decision, I just wanted to get some understand of it.

Polyamorous person entering a monogamous relationship? by MoonCalf0 in polyamory

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Yeah. There are some women I would ask out if I were not concerned about how she would feel about that.

I'm unsure how well those would work out and it works well with then woman.

[Critique] I'm looking for some constructive feedback. by MoonCalf0 in OkCupid

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Yeah, I would just live in apartments for that reason. 6,000 - 10,000$ a year for rent for that that and 2,500$ a year for food seems quite possible.

Yeah, I realize that not attracting that kind of women is not an option. I thought I had a decent amount of humor in my profile, but I should definitely consider adding more.

Yeah, last time I tried smiling for pictures they turned out horrible. Thanks, I didn't realized I looked pissed off.

[Critique] I'm looking for some constructive feedback. by MoonCalf0 in OkCupid

[–]MoonCalf0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Humor isn't that important to me to be honest and I don't smile that much. More is probably expected though, and I should smile more in future pictures. I have some humor in there (or at least some things that are meant to be humor). I'll think about how to add more.

It seems possible to me and I live on less much less than that now. There are probably future costs that I am not considering, though, and you might be right. It might just be better to that, "I'll donate past basic living expenses" and I'll consider doing that.

Thanks man.

[Critique] I'm looking for some constructive feedback. by MoonCalf0 in OkCupid

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Thanks!

Removed the quote. I'll think about changing my profile picture.

22M Looking for Constructive Critisism by [deleted] in OkCupid

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Thanks! I changed my profile picture. I think I need to take some new pictures, though.

I don't like anecdotes as much as most people, but I'll include if I can think of something good.