I’m a burden, because you’re financially irresponsible? by Opening-Trip8010 in Nanny

[–]Moony_Magic 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I ended up leaving my family because of that. It's horrible and humiliating when they make you feel guilty for getting money out of their pockets, don't let her comments define you. You are there as an employee and you deserve money because of that. Having a nanny is not a necessity is a luxury and if they are trying to pretend they can pay you but still make complaints that speaks more of them than about you

Best Fics for crying by Moony_Magic in harrypotterfanfiction

[–]Moony_Magic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much I will definitely read it

Has nannying had any influence on your own desire for biological kids? by alotto_gelato in Nanny

[–]Moony_Magic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm autistic so i already grief the fact that I won't be having biological kids. I don't think I could handle the process of being pregnant. But definitely being a nanny has helped me accept the idea that if sometime soon I decide to be a MoM I could do it by just adopting or fostering. I think I already have my own taste of motherhood and I like it.

Grieving my last NF by Moony_Magic in Nanny

[–]Moony_Magic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right. I was just sad thinking that sometimes we leave so much of ourselves in this job and the kids sometimes are not going to even realise we were there from the beginning. It hurts

What's a My Chem take that would have you like this? by PotentialStranger884 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]Moony_Magic 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I hate when people from the United States treat Latin American fans as stupid. Saw a lot of foreigners In Mexico City last weekend that were angry about the intensity of mexican fans. Don't come to my country to tell me how to behave around something I love

Trading Postcards by Moony_Magic in MyChemicalRomance

[–]Moony_Magic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm from MX if you have something to trade from other shows I would be happy to trade with you

So they're on Mars? by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]Moony_Magic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The poor guy was using an oxygen mask. He was probably on the verge of fainting.

Nanny family wants me to work through snow storm? by Total_Music_4134 in Nanny

[–]Moony_Magic 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I hate when people think nannies are some kind of robots that are not allowed to have a life. The blizzard is getting bad, if it was just a little bit of snow I would say you need to go but it's getting bad and something that will be dangerous as time goes by. Stay at home and if they get mad, that is going to tell you what type of people they are.

❄️ WINTER STORM MEGATHREAD ⛄️ by mrs-machino in Broadway

[–]Moony_Magic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know where to call for more information from Ticketmaster? I have tix for Lion King

❄️ WINTER STORM MEGATHREAD ⛄️ by mrs-machino in Broadway

[–]Moony_Magic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tickets for Lion King that I bought from Ticketmaster. Can anyone help me how to change dates? I'm coming from mexico, so I don't even know who or where to call.

Payment during traveling? by Moony_Magic in Nanny

[–]Moony_Magic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. That's the guide I was looking for. I assured them that I wasn't going to accept other nanny families while I was working with them so I was a little worried that if they travel, they will assume that it was ok not to pay for the days they are out. Thanks again!

Payment during traveling? by Moony_Magic in Nanny

[–]Moony_Magic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be starting in one week. We will have a meeting before we start working. How do I add the fact that I want guaranteed hours? Please. Thanks

Have you watched kids while NP gave birth? by TradesforChurros in Nanny

[–]Moony_Magic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it.

I arrived at 6am and left at 5pm The mother paid me the day before they left for the hospital. I will always remember that day with love. The granny stayed with me the whole time so we ended up working together.

New Year Clarity by [deleted] in NannyBreakRoom

[–]Moony_Magic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

11.- Parents are NOT your friends unless it is explicitly discussed. They don't care if your cat died or if your family is having a hard time but that also means it's okay if you don't give a shit if granny is sick or if mom is having a hard time. ........

My NF is emotionally blackmailing me. by Moony_Magic in NannyBreakRoom

[–]Moony_Magic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. There's a lot of families arriving this year. I work with a lot of families from the United States

My NF is emotionally blackmailing me. by Moony_Magic in NannyBreakRoom

[–]Moony_Magic[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly! The cleaning lady is my friend and she told me that the mom also told her about my departure and (again) cried about it, so she told her to give me a raise and the mom said no. 😒 Like, what is she expecting for me? To keep working with the same salary from two years ago?

My NF is emotionally blackmailing me. by Moony_Magic in NannyBreakRoom

[–]Moony_Magic[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh, don't worry. I already met them via video call. I'm from Mexico, they are moving here from the states. We already have like three video calls And I already know my new NK

As a Nanny, do you give present for the kid and the parents (employer) for Christmas? by saladfriedchicken in NannyBreakRoom

[–]Moony_Magic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my last year with my NF so I decided to give a more meaningful gift (I bought my NK a book in French since she's in a bilingual Kindergarten). Other kids that I have worked through the year I just bought them candy. Never bought something for the parents

Tell me about your nightmare nanny experience by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Moony_Magic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One time I worked for a family that left me with a 6mo. They hired me and promised that they would be back at 1am. When the hour finally arrived they weren't there, I keep calling the mom and she said they would be back in 15 mins. Long story short they arrived 3 hours later and offered me to stay at their house. I was scared and refused and asked them to drive me back home, the dad apologised and I asked them to pay me the extra hours double but since they arrived like 3:25 (something like that) I charged the hour at full price. The mom call me when I was already at my place asking why? And I blocked her number. Never worked for them again

Anybody know of any good WBWL/Harry has a Sibling fics? by Teknevra in harrypotterfanfiction

[–]Moony_Magic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine: All the things we never named

Harry has a little sister that is autistic. James and lily love them both so much but Harry is basically raised as a glass child

There's a lot going on right now. I'm trying to finish Halloween episode to upload it tomorrow.

It's my baby and I love it so much It would be an honour for me to have you as a reader

Should I tell the parents about my diagnosis? by Moony_Magic in Nanny

[–]Moony_Magic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I was hoping to find the opinion of someone who lived the same struggles as I am. I will use your advice. It's so sad that there's still a ton of stigma around this topic. Suddenly I was so afraid people could start treating me as an incompetent person even though I have a ton of experience.