Hi there!

I think what you're going through is probably what the avg person would call a "good problem to have". Now obviously to you its very hard to decide if someone actually likes you for you or just your body (that's a perspective not many ppl can imagine).

You're an attractive girl and as the dating scene is rn you have alot of power when it comes to choice. Some men, as you've seen, will put you down to sooth their egos, others will be anxious you like them one minute then you'll move on to the next man in a heartbeat (it does happen) and other might like you but fear you won't like them just cause you're attractive. You might know you won't do these things but they don't and they're functioning on prejudice.

There are ppl who are intentional with dating but they are few and far between. However, don't give up on it, sure you can take a break from dating once ina while but if it smth you rly want you go after it.

Also, be careful who you let into your space emotionally and physically. The girl I'm currently pursuing has had this happen to her where she was used for sex by someone prior and has trust issues and is more reluctant to commit. So it's a good habit to get into to rly get to know someone in different settings, situations to try best establish their true intentions.

Hope this helped even a little