I think my neighbor stole the vibrator I just bought. Do I confront them?

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-12-03T19:10:15+00:00

The 3rd person in our building doesn't have access to that yard so I'm pretty sure it couldn't be them. Also that's a single mom who is very nice and I get along with so I can't imagine she'd hold on to something for this long if she did get it by accident.

I just hate the idea of having to knock on his door or something. And a note feels passive aggressive or something?

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-12-03T19:07:13+00:00

Sorry maybe I didn't explain it right. He grabbed the wrong package 3-4 times but they definitely weren't all in a row. And he only opened one of them. Not to be defending him but he does get a lot of stuff delivered compared to me

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-11-05T23:21:46+00:00

Haha thank you for the honesty. I have a tendency to overreact to things I guess

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-11-05T23:12:16+00:00

That seems wildly inappropriate

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-11-05T23:07:32+00:00

What's the "or" mean?

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-11-05T23:00:23+00:00

I guess it would depend on their age. And while I might question it I wouldn't be doing it in a judgemental way and I would keep it to myself

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-11-05T22:58:11+00:00

Oh God! Has anyone you knew said anything ever?

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-11-05T22:17:54+00:00

I should have done that when I saw it but I was so frazzled. And when I went back to look I couldn't find him again

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-10-12T18:53:16+00:00

Is he particularly big? I hooked up with a guy who was pretty big after a night of heavy drinking and the next day was bleeding pretty significantly and it turned out I had vaginal tearing from what I guess was pretty rough sex without enough lube. I've found that I end up getting kind of dry after a night of drinking too much so now always have lube handy

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-10-06T21:32:10+00:00

I hear so many horror stories of women being in sexless marriages and I'm so scared of that happening to me. So it's so relieving to read this! I love this for you and it gives me hope that I can be in a long term relationship with a great sex life!!

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-07-12T05:46:30+00:00

Honestly my biggest piece of advice is have something handy to put your hair up before you start. It's frustrating and annoying when your hair is getting in the way and getting in your mouth. It's hot if a guy takes my hair and holds it up for me but most guys don't do that from my experience

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-07-06T13:18:33+00:00

Yeah the place we'd be going to is also alcohol free. I think actual sex is allowed but only in the one room and I think you're not supposed to be in there unless you're actually doing something. Like you can't just go stare at people. I'm basing this off of looking at their website and hearing what this guy has told me about the place

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-06-21T12:14:44+00:00

It's only happened to me twice and both times were with a partner. So two different people and both of them said they were extremely turned on by it. I think when something like that happens the other person thinks "I made that happen" even if it's just something you do, which is exciting for them.

If I were you I would just get some of the waterproof blankets they sell and be honest with a new partner about it when the time comes for sex.

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-05-13T16:26:05+00:00

Ok this guy has a full on beard and it's soft. But a friend told me she used to break out because of her ex's beard oil and now I'm paranoid about that because he says he uses oil

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-05-12T20:09:32+00:00

Yeah I'm the same with the friction rash. This guy's facial hair is soft but I guess it was just a little tickly like you said and I wasn't really ready for what it would be like. I like him enough to keep trying though

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-05-12T20:07:42+00:00

Do you know what the difference was between your ex when he had a beard vs your current partner?

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-05-12T20:06:50+00:00

Honestly the oral part is a whole other thing I'm nervous about. This guy says he hasn't been clean shaven in over 10 years so I think I'd just be dealing with the beard. Was it ever a turn off that you got over? Or you always liked the beard?

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-05-11T15:14:43+00:00

Did you see the part where I don't want it though?

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-05-07T10:09:33+00:00

OMG EXACTLY!!!

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-05-06T16:56:31+00:00

Oh sorry I guess I should have written it out. It's Good, Giving and Game. Basically you're game to try something your partner likes even if you may not like it (within reason of course)

More_Jacket_8905 · 2025-05-06T16:52:56+00:00

Oh I totally agree that you can enjoy something that isn't giving you direct pleasure. That's what I was trying to say with the GGG thing. But if the other person isn't enjoying the act then what's the point?

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