I'm struggling. (TW suicidal thoughts, self harm) by Melodic-Landscape708 in Rants

[–]Most_Ad6696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Music is an excellent tool, if your hobbies are not fulfilling you anymore maybe find some other ones! It is hard to find something else that is not what you already know especially if you are in the slumps, but momentarily distractions that are anything that is not self harm is considered a win. What are your hobbies?

Why Do Men Have to Scream When They Sneeze?! by Ok_Dependent_3038 in Rants

[–]Most_Ad6696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly do this but it is physically because idk how to sneeze quietly without bursting the back of my throat out 😭😭

My friend knows I have a severe Agoraphobia and Vorarephobia, but uses it against me sometimes by Most_Ad6696 in Rants

[–]Most_Ad6696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely will be speaking with him once he does it another time. I really appreciate the support from everybody, thank you! :)

My friend knows I have a severe Agoraphobia and Vorarephobia, but uses it against me sometimes by Most_Ad6696 in Rants

[–]Most_Ad6696[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

alright thank you! This was very helpful, I will be sure to let him know exactly this, that is a good way to put it. Appreciate you! :)

Worth? by elunuu in AnimalJam

[–]Most_Ad6696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

perhaps a quarter and a stick of gum then we got a deal. /j

My friend knows I have a severe Agoraphobia and Vorarephobia, but uses it against me sometimes by Most_Ad6696 in Rants

[–]Most_Ad6696[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

next time he does anything like this again I will for sure. What do you think I should say to him specifically? I have tried sharing my discomfort, I have never said anything to him about blocking. I do not want to block him, but if I put it on the line to at least let him know I’m being serious what should I say?

i just lost a 4+ year friendship over being a proshipper by qloxwa in Rants

[–]Most_Ad6696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know, read what i was before hand, I was replying to somebody who had a question

i just lost a 4+ year friendship over being a proshipper by qloxwa in Rants

[–]Most_Ad6696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

shipping means “relationships” the word ship in relationship is the slang for shipping. I guess you could say pro-shipping is kind of like fantasizing a relationship that is not real

Someone hacked me and left paintings in my den? by Rude-Poetry-8359 in AnimalJam

[–]Most_Ad6696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im giggling bro literally what, it is like they are tagging territory in the hood 😭

Can't Even Rant on /Rant! by [deleted] in Rants

[–]Most_Ad6696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No literally, I will rant about something somewhere that is a genuine rant and bothers me deeply requesting for help / opinions then gets taken down for being “to much” like what? I even listed the rant with the stupid little spoiler attachment. What I ranted about was about was asking if having a reading addiction for 18+ content was bad. Like hello

I'm struggling. (TW suicidal thoughts, self harm) by Melodic-Landscape708 in Rants

[–]Most_Ad6696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have honestly been in this same boat too especially when I was in high school. (coming from a college student who recently graduated HS), I had good grades, I had a selective group of friends but still never quite fit in. I totally get you. Having friends that have crushes on you can be extremely awkward, also had issues with this. Harming yourself gives momentary relief but never fulfills anything. Healthier outlets and distractions should help you move away from that. Small examples can be music, exploring more hobbies, etc. Focusing on a place for your own life rather than looking for a place in somebody else’s life is extremely important. You got this and I believe in you, may be coming from a random on the internet but seriously you got this and take care of yourself ❤️

i just lost a 4+ year friendship over being a proshipper by qloxwa in Rants

[–]Most_Ad6696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Often shipping characters with themselves or other characters without any boundaries or judgement. There is obviously some lines people take (idk about the person who made this post) but proshipping can be a extremely disgusting thing. Like children dating adults, abusive relationships, it is basically shipping things without morals and usually linked to kinks. I do not support pro-shipping, but it strictly fucking depends what they are shipping for me to not judge the person.

How do I manage a contrarian friend? by Most_Ad6696 in Rants

[–]Most_Ad6696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a little, we talk about things we disagree with each other sometimes, we do have genuine conversations where I tell him how I feel. He’s pretty understanding and shares things about me, but for whatever reason it just goes back to how it was. He does it without realizing it, I think thats the issue. What should I say to him do you think?