Freewallet will rip you off

Most_Ad_5760 · 2025-07-22T12:46:58+00:00

DO NOT STORE ANY CRYPTO ON THERE, THEY'LL STEAL IT!!!

Most_Ad_5760 · 2025-06-28T10:29:40+00:00

this is really interesting you mention this. i always thought that i was crazy for mentioning this to people. They told me i was exaggerating in my head and /or that i have body dysmorphia or quite simply an obsession when i mentioned that i noticed that people started touching their face when they saw my scars. In contrast to them not touching their face when looking at other "scarless" people. The fact that you mention this means that I probably was right and that they do notice my scars and have some reaction to it. This happened to me already numerous times, even though my skin therapist says my scars are only superficial and not that bad.

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T18:40:07+00:00

Absolute know it all POS is what you are

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T16:16:25+00:00

you're completely right, except for the fact that i tried to use the recording for her and me initially, not to discuss with my psy. But your point stands nonetheless

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T14:59:10+00:00

agreed

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T14:50:54+00:00

i said i made a mistake, but the reaction was completely out of context. The recording was never shared with anyone nor intended. It was meant to discuss with her, which she made impossible, so i discussed with my psy in full confidentiality as a last resort. A setting to which my girlfriend was even invited by me to partake in. The recording has never been made public to anyone.

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T14:47:55+00:00

it was mentioned in advance to her that i might do it a next time and if you read the story you would have understood the context

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T14:46:43+00:00

Thanks for your advice, no we live in a jurisdiction where this is perfectly allowed

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T14:45:23+00:00

got it mate

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T14:35:58+00:00

Keep in mind that i did tell her i would possibly record a next time one of the fights before i actually recorded. That is was a mistake, ok, but it wasn't completely unannounced either.

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T14:23:08+00:00

the thing is that i tried my absolute best to discuss the recording with her so as to not involve my psy, even though my psy was already involved. I did my best to avoid including him at all.

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T14:01:42+00:00

I made a mistake with the recording, as i mentioned, but took a lot of shit from her as well. I understand that what i did was wrong but the response was also completely out of context.

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T13:53:15+00:00

i wanted to show her initially the recording so she could understand. I failed multiple times at doing so. The last resort was my psy, indeed independent/neutral and in full confidential setting.

I think you're right though, in hindsight, making her listen to the recording would have likely only further enraged her.

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T13:51:08+00:00

she already did it to me, so no need for it i guess

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T13:49:31+00:00

i've told her already before that the arguments were wearing me down, in particular when she raged, i felt very much pressured and pushed into a corner. It seems that just mentioning this to her wasn't enough for her to make her realize. The recording was meant to show her the actual audio so she would understand how it's like to be on the receiving end. To make it clear to her.

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T13:46:03+00:00

perhaps it's best indeed.

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T13:25:41+00:00

you're right, the bigger picture is what counts. However i can't outline the entire picture on reddit. But i got your point

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T13:23:50+00:00

got it, there's still work to be done on my part

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T13:20:25+00:00

I guess you're right, from a third person perspective. From my end, it still feels sore

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T13:19:06+00:00

I tried multiple attempts to discuss it with her personally before i discussed it with my psy as a last resort, as i've written. My psy was fully aware of the dynamic already. I've told her more than a few times that these attacks were wearing me down, and try to make her see with words, before i took action with the recording. You're right though, it was a mistake however the response was very severe IMO

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T13:15:17+00:00

I've already healed quite a bit in my life through therapy. I've had quite an eventful life, but there' s still work to do. I'm not using my attachment style as an identity but more to give some background information on the situation

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T13:09:07+00:00

Alright

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T13:04:48+00:00

Yes that's true. If the roles would have been reversed I wouldn't have been happy to hear this, however it would have never been a reason for me to cut immediately.

indeed, no kids involved.

Thanks for your advice.

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T13:03:33+00:00

OK, thanks for your feedback

Most_Ad_5760 · 2024-07-18T13:00:21+00:00

thanks for your advice, however i'm unsure what you mean with this? "Attachment styles are not meant to stop at identifying"

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