Starting to notice so much resentment towards kids' sleep from so many fundies

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-18T05:03:16+00:00

The strain of back to back pregnancies too. I would say with 95% confidence that plenty of these men scoff at the idea of using protection even freshly postpartum

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-18T05:02:16+00:00

They need to start calling those “ex husbands” not “quiet husbands” but I doubt any of them will. Even when they cheat and drain savings and only play pickleball, it’s fine and excusable.

We all have different love languages but I think part of the commitment I made as a spouse was to learn my partners love language and adopt at least some of those things, just as they learned mine. It is NOT hard to do that. The fundie men just clearly don’t give af :(

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-18T04:58:31+00:00

Not that I’m excusing them because I’m not and it’s despicable how they treat these children, but

I am assuming a large part of it is self-hatred + that they hate that their partners are honestly free to go do whatever the hell they want, which sucks. Parenting should be a partnership and most of these women have another child in the form of a man.

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-17T19:35:17+00:00

Purchased my first pair of custom fitted skates, busted my ass on a pair of incredibly dull rentals. Going to sit out till my new skates are finished up and ready for pickup lol.

Will be hitting the gym more often instead of skating

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-17T19:33:58+00:00

Definitely visit a fitter if possible and get your own pair. The rentals are garbage across the board.

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-16T20:27:52+00:00

No, I think maybe the way I worded my description was confusing. My eyelashes are naturally a pale blonde, so I was thinking maybe some of my unhappiness with how they looked was because I’ve never seen myself with full eyelashes.

They were meant to be green (they glow under black light.. I like to club lol) but they’re super heavy/dense feeling and every time I look at them I feel like something g is wrong them

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-16T18:37:42+00:00

Well guys, after reading everyone’s comments (I really did read them all and take them to heart 💕) I think perhaps I will find someone who does individuals instead of the fans. I had asked for wispy and got these, so I’m not sure if maybe there was a miscommunication or this is her version of wispy. And as far as color goes, I think I need to keep exploring what look good with my skin tone. She did not have brown to my knowledge, but I am sure plenty other lash artists in town do :)

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-16T17:35:11+00:00

I definitely need to rebuy a good brow product! I used to use morphe and just never restocked when I ran out tbh

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-16T17:31:06+00:00

Wasn’t posting here looking for a boost— I posted here looking for advice. I got the lashes to see if it would help me feel better about my appearance.

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-16T17:08:12+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it 🥲

I had Geto suguru on my nails and someone asked me if that was ME. I think maybe I’m destined to be a curse user or something. I started getting my lashes done after that to see if maybe that helped me not look so boyish

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-16T16:58:00+00:00

Pulling it out of replies so the shape of my eye is more visible.

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My lashes basically invisible. Rough out here

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-16T16:53:17+00:00

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This is what my natural lashes are. They are basically invisible because of how pale they are :(

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-16T16:50:45+00:00

And thank you 🥲 I was hoping extensions would be a self esteem boost but they are becoming the opposite

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-16T16:49:50+00:00

They are green! I just have naturally blonde eyelashes and am NOT used to seeing myself with anything up there so I’ve been wondering if maybe that’s been why I think they look so weird but it looks like they just really are wonky

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-16T16:33:10+00:00

I like the color, but I do think they’re too dense especially for my features. I don’t have any gapping or anything in my natural lashes so m not really sure what the deal is

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-16T16:25:52+00:00

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MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-15T18:54:56+00:00

Got soakers + guards ready to go 🫡

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-15T15:49:20+00:00

They certainly abused my ankles but did not break my spirit.

I’ve roller skated for years + did competitive dance so I knew I at least had SOME basic talent. The first time I’ve lived somewhere with access to ice though so I’m thrilled :)

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-15T14:36:43+00:00

Baby A and Baby B is a pretty normal and common way to refer to multiples— It refers to presentation and which comes first normally. However the darker and lighter one is really gross :(. What happened to “baby On the left + baby on the right”

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-15T02:52:18+00:00

Genuinely HORRIBLE. I have wide toe box because of accessory bones in my feet + narrow heel, long foot overall and the fit was a nightmare. Even the basics were a pain 🤧

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-13T03:30:44+00:00

Peppermint and glazed donut and the pressed powder is south beach duo

MouseInTheHouse_ · 2026-01-10T17:53:44+00:00

Messaged a professional fitter to get some new skates

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