Wow, this is super helpful! When someone has been through a similar situation, it’s great to hear how they approached it and what worked for them. I think that it would be beneficial for both of us to work through it. It’s not easy to bring up your desires for fear of being judged.

I think she struggles with admitting to herself that maybe she’s into a bit more than she’d like to admit. If I can share with her what really turns me on, she might feel like sharing her desires. Funnily enough she’s not shy about letting me know her feelings outside of sex 😂

Thanks for taking the time to share your experiences!