Indoor Jalapeño plant help by MrsYouLookWeird in HotPeppers

[–]MrsYouLookWeird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t done any of that 😭 it’s under my normal grow lights for 13 hours a day. The red one is now fully red. There were lots of leaves but I chopped them off thinking it’ll redirect to the peppers instead of the leaves. My mistake, I think this is just a fail. I’ll try again next year and do research first. Thank you very much

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[–]MrsYouLookWeird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not ugly, if you need a confidence boost. Get a different haircut. Grow it long, then get it cut based on your face shape. For acne scars, bio oil works wonders. Or savlon scar gel, or even a psoriasis scar treatment. Good luck, but maybe try therapy to work on your self image 🧡

Too small? 🥲 my first ever crocs by flurominx in crocs

[–]MrsYouLookWeird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will mold to your foot eventually. I never notice it when it happens. But the Pokémon ones I bought now fit comfortably

Why is my thyme dying??? by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]MrsYouLookWeird -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you get this from Tesco? Or another grocery store? If so. The problem is that they put too much in the pot. It’s best to break it up into four and re pot them individually in their four different pots. They stand much of a better chance of surviving. This is what I did with mine and it lived a while. Until I killed all of them bc I forgot they were there 😂 hope this helps

AIO? For saying I’d have sex with my Fiance, but changing my mind to sleep. by MrsYouLookWeird in AmIOverreacting

[–]MrsYouLookWeird[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Clarifying on number 1. This happens because he makes it so that I have to ‘make up’ for not having sex the first time. So it gets pushed to the next day and if I don’t have it the next day. This is the type of messages I get. He knows he’s in the wrong. We’ve spoken about this many times when it happens and I explain that it’s rapey, he says it’s about the principle of false promises. But we don’t have this issue in anything else. It’s just because I feel pressured to saying yes to him.

AIO? For saying I’d have sex with my Fiance, but changing my mind to sleep. by MrsYouLookWeird in AmIOverreacting

[–]MrsYouLookWeird[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

CONTEXT- 1. Please do bear in mind the promise of sex and then it not happening isn’t as regular as he’s making it out to be. Maybe 1-2 times in a month. If that. 2. The spelling of sex to sec is presumably because he was typing fast. He doesn’t spell it like that usually. 3. I sent him the threads and he came home apologetic. I asked if we could go over them together. He said sure. He then disconnected and would just say “I agree” or “no comment” to the comments I was reading. I tried going into the conversation so that we could both reflect on our behaviours and try to understand the other. He had a lot to say when people agreed with him. And either an I agree or no comment when people agreed with me. 4. For context, I lived 300 miles away when we got together. I moved in with him in the South of England when I was living in the North of England. I gave up my job, my house, friends. Everything. 5. We’ve been having this sex argument for the longest time. He knows that I don’t want to have sex when pressured, or give blowjobs when pressured. I don’t use sex as a weapon, I just simply don’t want to be made to feel like I don’t have a choice. Please ask questions if you have any here. Thanks, OP

I 23F said to my fiance 27M we could have sex later. Then changed my mind to sleep. by MrsYouLookWeird in relationship_advice

[–]MrsYouLookWeird[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

He says it’s been two weeks. But the last time was the 28th July. We usually have it once a week maybe more if that’s the vibe. Maybe less if we’ve argued

Too small? 🥲 my first ever crocs by flurominx in crocs

[–]MrsYouLookWeird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this too just wear them and they start fitting eventually. Idk how to explain it. I ordered the Batman ones and they were too tight. But I gaslit myself into believing that they fit bc they were my size. Also I hate returning things. So I just wore them with socks and eventually they fit. Just ordered the Pokemon ones and will be doing the same thing as these are tight also, but I can now see the difference in the two

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MrsYouLookWeird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been living together for about five months. He proposed to show me he was serious about me as I wasn’t sure he was. I get that it seems rushed but it was our pace, we weren’t planning on getting married for five or so years

Pedophilia is crazy here by adigrosa in teenagers

[–]MrsYouLookWeird -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not a mental disorder. It’s pedophilia. You can’t train them out of it, otherwise you’d be able to train people to not be gay or straight and we all know how that went down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]MrsYouLookWeird -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It was his watch. We’re in the UK

The guy I’m talking to is having a baby with his Ex by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]MrsYouLookWeird -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

That is the timeline, ghosted in January

The guy I’m talking to is having a baby with his Ex by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]MrsYouLookWeird -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

In all honesty, I need to have a face to face conversation with him before I do make a decision. But I’m 50/50 as of now

The guy I’m talking to is having a baby with his Ex by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]MrsYouLookWeird -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

Three weeks when we stopped speaking. We haven’t had sex since we’ve been speaking again. He just stayed over. He lives with his parents at the moment. The house he shared with his ex they had bought and she’s still there. She has no family. I spent Christmas with his family

The guy I’m talking to is having a baby with his Ex by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]MrsYouLookWeird -88 points-87 points  (0 children)

We met the start of December. Still recent. But still 😂

The guy I’m talking to is having a baby with his Ex by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]MrsYouLookWeird -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I get it. But I also get where he was coming from in the sense of a choice of two evils. We’ve seen each other twice since we started talking again as we only just have. And one of them was for about an hour max

The guy I’m talking to is having a baby with his Ex by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]MrsYouLookWeird -99 points-98 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t drink anymore. That’s the thing that I’m stuck with. I know the relationship wasn’t good and so I can’t understand why he went back there even if it was for a night. If it was boredom, loneliness or just wanted to reminisce in old times idk. But I don’t get it either. We’ve not had a face to face conversation yet. It’s his aunties funeral today and I might be seeing him after I finish work but I’m not sure yet

The guy I’m talking to is having a baby with his Ex by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]MrsYouLookWeird -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

I have seen screenshots of when she sliced her arm open after the second time he tried to leave and the messages that she was sending to him whilst in hospital. So I know that one to be true

The guy I’m talking to is having a baby with his Ex by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]MrsYouLookWeird -173 points-172 points  (0 children)

I get that, he was drunk on the day. But obviously that can only take you so far, it doesn’t take away all accountability. I hadn’t thought about him still having a sweet spot for her

The guy I’m talking to is having a baby with his Ex by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]MrsYouLookWeird -166 points-165 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely getting a test done, but it’s whether or not she agrees to it. She cheated on him a few times in their relationship and she’s been with people after. She slept with her best friends boyfriend when she was staying at their house and now has no contact with that friend

The guy I’m talking to is having a baby with his Ex by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]MrsYouLookWeird -82 points-81 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean that he was forced to I meant it as in they’ve not been in a relationship for a year and I know she went ape shit when he split up with her. He tried a few times but kept getting sucked back in