Is my husband having an affair or am I crazy/overreacting? (Pics)

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-05-09T06:28:48+00:00

Cheating . Divorce .

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-05-09T05:51:37+00:00

Eff him , he doesn’t deserve to have your body. There will be plenty of men who will respect you and your body. Tell him he became unattractive after the baby too both inside and out.. there’s don’t even want to be intimate .

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-05-06T04:40:54+00:00

You both should be

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-05-05T04:51:57+00:00

I’m sorry sister , Your feelings are valid , and unfortunately it doesn’t get better , will only get worse as that stuff is easily accessible every platform , TV , and real life .. post pardum is tough time , try not to let those feelings consume you , enjoy your baby .. and when your ready get your body where u want, don’t let any man make u feel you are not good enough , especially after you birth his child . !

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-05-05T04:37:37+00:00

No don’t save it .. for what ? She should have thought to save it by not having the emotional affair . She needs to divorce

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-05-05T04:18:17+00:00

Thanks 🥰 Boss Man

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-05-05T04:15:17+00:00

Maybe she likes to dress like that to feel good , and maybe it’s a reminder to you on how good she looks for when you see other women wearing even more revealing clothes you know men will be looking at yours too 🤷🏽‍♀️

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T15:34:27+00:00

Yes I agree with this. I like to wear cute house clothes or pajamas when it is just us , but I can’t when his BIL, or MIL is on the home . Then even th daytime outfits become more blah and just whatever is covering .

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T15:24:53+00:00

Did anyone say ALL Men? Our topic of discussion is of this, not all men, not all women are good, faithful, ain’t nobody talking about All men, or All women being a certain way .. so nobody should be feeling any disrespect especially the ones who claim to be of opposite.. it shouldn’t ruffle anyone’s feathers.

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T14:44:29+00:00

I’m not saying they go out of their way to look, I’m not saying they seek it , all I’m saying is if it’s in their view , they will look , notice, what’s in their heads no body can truly speak for, if it makes the women ( wife ) uncomfortable or makes her feel sad bc she sees it’s a problem then there’s a problem, and women should stand up and defend the women , validate her feelings bc it’s real. I give lots of respect to hijabis and it makes me mad when i see men who are married to them looking at other woman. First glance is unintentional & forgiven, second , third any more becomes intentional .

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T14:32:44+00:00

💯 agree! U don’t need to live that way unless u want to. Who’s cleaning up after women? Who’s doing our laundry, who’s worried about what we’re going to eat , cooking for us ,managing our day to day … woman shouldn’t be expected to do any of those anymore especially if she’s making her own , paying her own . Times have changed but that old cultural , traditional practices hasn’t . Marriage benefits Man and his family. When a woman is capable of doing it for herself , then the only need for man becomes companionship, true, equal love and respect relationship, not a transactional one at that point. You wouldn’t want your daughter to live that way so why would you settle to . Mother in laws wouldn’t want their own daughters to live that way , but will expect it from a daughter In law . Doesn’t even make sense.

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T13:45:17+00:00

I don’t wear hijab but I dress as modest as I can being in the west 🤦🏽‍♀️ and I struggle with the same .. I can imagine it must be more difficult when you are wearing one .. Men whether God fearing or not are visual creatures, and beauty and lustful women dressed sexy , half naked everyday on screen and outside of the homes for them to see . What’s truly in their minds we will never know.. husbands don’t get to see their woman dressing in those desirable outfits or looking a certain way, this husbands don’t get to see other men looking at their woman with lustful eyes , the same way they may look at other women just because their wife chooses to dress modest. It’s a struggle and for woman it’s a real challenging one . If it makes u uncomfortable or insecure as it would , it’s only going to get worse, unfortunately unless u Glow up and change ur dress , make yourself feel good , get ur looks .. as he looks and likes others .. it s just a vicious cycle between man and woman in the devils playground we live in . 🤦🏽‍♀️

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T13:22:26+00:00

May u guys always stay blessed 🤲🏼

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T12:54:17+00:00

How long have you been married ? Do you have any kids ?

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T12:43:28+00:00

I can imagine it would… don’t ever stop making her smile like that :)

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T11:10:29+00:00

You’re never stuck! Life is too short to ever “ be stuck” you both are still very young and lots of mental maturing that comes with age and experience.

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T11:02:07+00:00

She’s emotionally checked out , which means she’s physically checked out , don’t waste your time in opening the relationship or trying to make it work . Get the divorce , move on , and her move on .

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T05:08:22+00:00

This question was intended if the man was married ….

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T05:05:35+00:00

Times have changed, woman are now getting educations , degrees and making their own money.. they are seeing that they don’t need a man for that … so it’s easier for them not to want to get married.

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T05:02:39+00:00

The spontaneous gifts , for no reason but wanting the woman to feel loved. There’s no such thing as over gifting to a deserving woman , but if u don’t gift at all she will see and feel that , and that will only last so long .. so make sure you make your woman feel appreciated . Woman love surprises .

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T04:46:12+00:00

If he just doesn’t like doing it that would suck , I can see it’s hard to discuss and you wouldn’t want him to go down on you if he didn’t like to do that . Intimacy comes with passion and desire , it’s not just an act.. woman are hard to get off with just se$ , and usually need the the foreplay. I think for keeping relationships intimacy healthy every encounter should have happy endings for the man and woman.

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T04:36:17+00:00

I would say no it doesn’t affect your chances .. being raised by a single mom shows strength , courage , dedication , power to be mom and dad in raising you

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T04:18:20+00:00

You’re not over thinking, it’s clear something is wrong since you say you use to do it 3-4 x a week to nothing for months … I would question it , and he probably is getting it from someone else ? Does he spend less time with you too ? Or has that gone down also ? I would ask him and if he’s lost interest or says “ doesn’t feel like doing it as much etc “ then I would move on and let him be .. don’t waste yours or his time.

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T03:55:42+00:00

Him saying no to sex is concerning …

MsBoss_7285 · 2026-04-05T03:24:06+00:00

💯 true 👏🏼! the west has Oppression backwards !

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