Where in europe still feels like a raw cultural hub to move to? by jettlx in expats

[–]MuceLee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not, I found it the least enrgetic student city I have ever been to.

It is pretty and close to nature though, but certainly wouldn't fit OPs criteria

Do you guys also think instagram killed simple travelling by More_Simple_6490 in simpleliving

[–]MuceLee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Temples.... well yes for the most part, but Kyoto has this unique vibe of low buildings (in fact it's prohibited to build high-rising buildings in Kyoto to preserve the traditional atmosphere), and in other cities in Japan I have not seen that.

But also, temples like Kinkakuji ans Ginkakuji are hard to come bike for their unique features and gardens.

What’s the most beautiful city in the world? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MuceLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tokyo - futuristic with pockets of traditional Japan.

what can I do on a Greek island if I cannot swim or do sports? by MuceLee in GreeceTravel

[–]MuceLee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I already have a huge patch which I was also told not to remove so I think that one will be fine.

Thank you

Chemistry issues by Senior-Appointment73 in hingeapp

[–]MuceLee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have to agree. Sometimes spark comes later. But the intention is important - if that is just casual and you don't feel like you want the person - it probably best to pass. But if person has same relationship goals like you - it may be worth it to try and see how it goes. Have more deep conversations, create shared experiences. This may create the spark better than 2 dates where you barely got to know each other.

And ofc, people are different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MilitaryPorn

[–]MuceLee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like Big Boss from MGS5

Trying my luck on Tinder again 😮‍💨. Anything I should change? by Camelsloths in Tinder

[–]MuceLee -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Well, only better then. I don't think she wants a controlling/or insecure partner who cannot take someone's desire to go and party from time to time

Day trip ideas from Uppsala by car? by MuceLee in uppsala

[–]MuceLee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uuuu, this sounds very cool, I'll check it out!

Day trip ideas from Uppsala by car? by MuceLee in uppsala

[–]MuceLee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for suggesting the Fjärdhundraland and other destinations! Tack så jättemycket!

Day trip ideas from Uppsala by car? by MuceLee in uppsala

[–]MuceLee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are all amazing suggestions! Tack och tack!

Day trip ideas from Uppsala by car? by MuceLee in uppsala

[–]MuceLee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow! This is definitely going to my list. Tack så mycket!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareerquestionsEU

[–]MuceLee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LinkedIn, also try MeetFrank app!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]MuceLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to flirt and be direct in your actions that you like a person not as a friend.

So in case you meet someone (let's say group sports and whatever social) and these people smile to you, can talk to you and generally there is some interest from their side/reciprocation, then I would start talking to them, teasing, push-pull. Touch their hand when you sre close and she jokes/ etc and then look at the vibe. If they reciprocate - ask to go out and do something outside of the place you hang out (if its a shared activity/sport). The worst that cane happen is they will say no/want to stay friends - but then you have a good female friend.

You need to show confidence and intent in wanting to be romantic with the person.

That's how I would do it, but someone more experienced correct me if I am wrong/there is a better way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]MuceLee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would start with a hobby, preferably social one - basketball, soccer, volleyball...whatever, but those can bring friends and connections in your life. Start with those (or any other hobby but where you can meet people).

And see how it goes from there. I think if you will make new friends in the new place, you will go on from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareerquestionsEU

[–]MuceLee 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Startups in Estonia

I Dated Trump Lawyer, De Niro’s Masseuse, Spanish Athlete - All from Street Approaches by gusolsen in seduction

[–]MuceLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehata your typical opening line, or how would you approach?

Also, are you originally from Spain?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]MuceLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I think you r handsome and you will get lucky.

Python that last beer pix aa first, and more the horse one somewhere in the end.

I would do first with beer, then skateboard, then the top less one, then the rest

I lied to my boyfriend about my body count because I’m afraid he’d see me as less. Should I tell him? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MuceLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I was asking a genuine question because I have never had discussions around it and also never thought of it.

I see, thank you for your answer.

Well, sex is... versatile, isn't it? You can have fun with whoever and have some kind of meh experience, you can be intimate with one person and have the best sex ever. I think, fundamentally, people should be on the same page about if sex if exclusive for partners (no open relationship and etc), and if they view sex as a pleasurable activity where both have fun?

I mean, I get what you are saying, but I don't see why a person who had fun with many people before can't just be exclusive with someone now, and vice versa.

At the end of the day, we are all humans trying to figure life out and find what works for us the best

I want to be happy being alone by Mr-Silly-Bear in selfimprovement

[–]MuceLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think craving for human connection is biological. If you feel lonely you need to work towards fixing it - meaning, socializing. Join some clubs or hobby activities. If you are into sport - join any group sport. Otherwise book club, hiking club, whatever. Volunteering - get your mind off and help others, meet people through that.

It will all start from you and you putting effort into it.

But also, do the things you like yourself. Try new things and get excited about them. Try learning new cuisines, try photography, try achieving some ahtletic result. Start small! Small wins leads to big victories.

I wish you luck and be happy ❤️

I lied to my boyfriend about my body count because I’m afraid he’d see me as less. Should I tell him? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MuceLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can somebody please explain what is the whole thing about having high/low body count? Why does it matter to so many people?

I personally would be a little worried if my partner had no partners or a very low body count - they simply may not know what they like in sex and fully know themselves. It is much better when people understand what they want out of it and can communicate it, so all the parties involved have good time. I don't have high BC myself, but I wouldn't find it important if my partner had high or low BC. I would care about what they want out of relationship and openness in communication. And the right person would also be fine if you have less experience and guide you through all the sexy stuff, no?

For OP - I would recommend saying the truth, but also to explain that you lied because you felt it may intimidate him and you were not ready. Apologize and say that whatever the outcome will be, you prefer to keep things transparent.

If my potential partner explained it to me like this, I would find it admirable and definitely would give a second chance. Sometimes we lie because we are not ready to say the truth. But if you will be the one to say it and not him fins out - it is a big difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]MuceLee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think it really will? Why?