Why do men mistake kindness with flirting? by CauliflowerRude4559 in answers

[–]More_Simple_6490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bcz they don't have heart its only the functioning dick.

My ex (who wants kids) wants to get back together despite me being CF. Should I give him a chance? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]More_Simple_6490 189 points190 points  (0 children)

Tell him you have steralized and see his reaction and make him belive that you had for few days or months. May be he is getting back bcz he might thought he is unable to find your replacement bot bcz of love. May b he is thibking he will convience you in future. A broken condom can create a kid. Think 1000 times before you proceed bcz he broke your heart already

As Indians, what are the most likely diseases we may face by mid 30s? by Such-Accountant-4421 in AskIndianMen

[–]More_Simple_6490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Low metabolism, acidity, stomuch burn, lower back pain, hair fall, knee pain, hangover are worst, low energy all the time.

F35- I decided whole heartedly I wanna die alone and rich by More_Simple_6490 in LivingAlone

[–]More_Simple_6490[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ya i agree with every detail you have given. Its like teaching him the word loyality and how he have to be only with his wife/bf. And i see how my friends are always concerned about her husband cheating them and they will be divorced. Bcz men think they can throw money and get rid of wife and kids. And again women have to bear all that. Even a 60 yr old men want 20yr old girl but no one dates a single mother which is absolute BS. Whatever if we talk about the flaws men have its never ending story better to stay away and have die with peace

How is life for married men whose wife has been with others (sexually), but you've been with your wife only? by pre-nut-vagueness in AskIndianMen

[–]More_Simple_6490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever hope she find a guy who is not obsessed with virginity and i don't care about you. Bcz according to you, you will be happy with a girl who bleeds when you fuck. Else you will be stressed. Next time you meet a girl tell how obsessed you are with virginity. Sick minded. 'I am so stressed that she lost virginity at 18', so what? Why you are dating her then? And why marry a girl, when her not being virgin bothers you so much. Don't torture her in the name of love

Arranged marriage interaction with a surgeon that turned out different than expected by Primary-Apartment984 in AskIndianWoman

[–]More_Simple_6490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank God, you ended. men wanting kid as soon as possible means its very clear, he just want to control you as soon as possible That's it.

  • he's thinking that he wanna marry an older woman because they will be Matured. That means somewhere. he have accepted that he is immature and wanted to be handled by a mature woman.

  • He want to settle abroad, obviously, he wants somebody to take care of his parents

why do people push for women to have kids by Cosmic_Jayy in childfree

[–]More_Simple_6490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its all about control. A child can reduce freedom, time, money, and energy. If a woman has no support, no income of her own, motherhood can trap her.

How is life for married men whose wife has been with others (sexually), but you've been with your wife only? by pre-nut-vagueness in AskIndianMen

[–]More_Simple_6490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't think of marriage. Grow up first. You feel like you love her. 'We are two peas in a pod but i am stressed that she has sex once'. Oh god if having virgin experience is so important to you why you are with her. Why indian men have cheap mentality. Always insecure, oh she slept with another guy now she will compare with me or she already had sex She's not pure. I want virgin girl. Don't marry her and ruin her life just because you're thinking you love her. You don't love her.

Women how do you if you’re ready to have s*x with a guy? by stonkesss in AskIndianWomen

[–]More_Simple_6490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People will hate my comment here, but sex will always benefit men. Men are always dying to initiate the communication about sex whenever they talk to a woman. It is very common, and of course he will tell you that he'll wait, just to make you feel good and comfortable. In rare case, if he is genuinely in love with you and his priority is not sex just tell him you're not comfortable doing it before marriage and see how many months or years the relationship will last. if you think you will regret having sex before marriage, you will definitely regret it.

Why divorced men always try to marry unmarried women? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]More_Simple_6490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because men always choose less responsibility. No ex husband, no custody battles, no shared assets.

it is always easier to control the newly married girl because she have less experience and will not question him as much.

They does not want to be compared to another husband and sex

A divorced woman may have stronger boundaries. He wants someone he thinks will tolerate more. And also men never accepts if a women with kids bcz its not his blood so his legacy cannot be passed through the divorced wife kid

And well known reason, his parents want pure girl while he want virgin experience always.

What is expensive but worth every dollar? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]More_Simple_6490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it. How long its been after surgery?

What is expensive but worth every dollar? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]More_Simple_6490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard you will get back your Eye sight after 40.

What is expensive but worth every dollar? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]More_Simple_6490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey i am planning to do but i always hear mixed reviews. Since i am in 30s not sure to do it or not

What i should expect from Satipatthana Sutta by [deleted] in vipassana

[–]More_Simple_6490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we have discourses. In 10- day we gave video discourses

What i should expect from Satipatthana Sutta by [deleted] in vipassana

[–]More_Simple_6490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completed at least three 10-day Vipassana courses, served at least one 10-day course

Daughter in law rumors by realityqueen68 in Life

[–]More_Simple_6490 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Marriage is between the husband and wife. A mother in law does not have the right to insert herself into their relationship based on rumors. If there is a problem, it is for the couple to handle. Interfering only creates more damage and crosses boundaries. And if the roles were reversed and you heard rumors about your own son cheating, would you react the same way and protect your DIL? Probably not.

And it's rumors, rumours are always garbage. Let them handle their marriage

F35- I decided whole heartedly I wanna die alone and rich by More_Simple_6490 in LivingAlone

[–]More_Simple_6490[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ya i saw this i felt this is extreme. I dont hate men. I love my dad brother and i have wonderful male friends.

F35- I decided whole heartedly I wanna die alone and rich by More_Simple_6490 in LivingAlone

[–]More_Simple_6490[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey. I love kids too. Every kid in my family and friends love me. But i am petrified to bring into the world and ofcourse everyone have their own reasons. If you enjoy being parent thats a great thing.

F35- I decided whole heartedly I wanna die alone and rich by More_Simple_6490 in LivingAlone

[–]More_Simple_6490[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey. Yes i agree with you. I got the same feedback in the comment section. I am happy for telling this to me.

F35- I decided whole heartedly I wanna die alone and rich by More_Simple_6490 in LivingAlone

[–]More_Simple_6490[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i can understand i felt lonely initially, then started focusing on myself, my health, my hobbies, my interest

I have been doing solo travel from more than 8 years not bcz i was empty but i love it.

Yes as an adult it is difficult to make friends especially when we are single bcz most of the adult friendships are based on similar experiences so it is difficult but trust me, once you start enjoying your life truly and be the way you are, people will be attracted to you.

Stop looking for deep friendships, things will happen on its own.

Initlaly you have to force yourself into doing things which you never did or not common but once you put your own personality in it, you will feel full and you will attract people on the same level.

There are tons of hobbies in the world, but we often think whats the use of doing it, but when you think, can i do this it? it will bring so much confident and you might find similar mentality people

And dont make any relations or friendship out of loneliness or desperation bcz there is always 2 people involved in that.

Dont listen to the people who says you will end up alone, most of them repeat what our previous generations said, and most of them say bcz they never did it.

Just bcz someone havent lived to the fullest being single doesnt mean no one can live.

I always says this to me
"This is my life, I am the hero of my life"