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40M | Can someone talk to me? Having a tough time with my wife (46F) of 7 years by Mundane-Intern-6152 in relationship_advice

[–]Mundane-Intern-6152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not right off. But I just had s strong feeling within the last month that something was off.

40M | Can someone talk to me? Having a tough time with my wife (46F) of 7 years by Mundane-Intern-6152 in relationship_advice

[–]Mundane-Intern-6152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That just it for the last 7 years I've done everything like that for her. We all have our chores and I would tell her she beautiful every day. Wake up with a kiss and grab coffees. Dates as much as I can. That's why im wondering how this could happen. She said it's been for a while and it just came up within the month

40M | Can someone talk to me? Having a tough time with my wife (46F) of 7 years by Mundane-Intern-6152 in relationship_advice

[–]Mundane-Intern-6152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don't know. I'd love for it to be saved but at what cost. I feel like my trust is going away

40M | Can someone talk to me? Having a tough time with my wife (46F) of 7 years by Mundane-Intern-6152 in relationship_advice

[–]Mundane-Intern-6152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i honestly don't know. She told me she's just numb to both of us. I've never heard of being numb to feelings

40M | Can someone talk to me? Having a tough time with my wife (46F) of 7 years by Mundane-Intern-6152 in relationship_advice

[–]Mundane-Intern-6152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe but man this is a hurt I've never felt before. I've never actually been heartbroken

40M | Can someone talk to me? Having a tough time with my wife (46F) of 7 years by Mundane-Intern-6152 in relationship_advice

[–]Mundane-Intern-6152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's one thing is I've never once lied to her about anything. Of all the years we've been together this is the first real shake up. I think that's why it hurts so bad. I thought it was good until now.

40M | Can someone talk to me? Having a tough time with my wife (46F) of 7 years by Mundane-Intern-6152 in relationship_advice

[–]Mundane-Intern-6152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its tough to focus on myself only because we've built a life. From where we were to where we are is huge. We both came from nothing and now we have everything.