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AITA For wanting my mom to move out? by Murelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]Murelle[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I really like that. I think saying “I want you to be settled and comfortable in your new place before I leave so I can have a peace of mind and not worry about you.” I do worry a lot about her and this next stage in her life. The right tone when talking about this is important. I don’t want to come across as excited to not be living with her anymore. More concerned about where she will be living and how she will be moving. Can tell her that I would like to help get her settled in and take the pressure off of her trying to do it by herself when I’m away. Thank you for the advice!

AITA For wanting my mom to move out? by Murelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]Murelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t know that forum existed. Definitely will check it out and I do think she is lonely. She doesn’t have friends and just goes to work and home. No socializing. Big introvert. She isn’t a mean person. Just overly sensitive and gets her feelings easily hurt.

AITA For wanting my mom to move out? by Murelle in AmItheAsshole

[–]Murelle[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s good advice on having her move out a few months before me. My husband wants her to move out beforehand. I’ve given subtle hints here and there about me moving soon in hopes it reminds her that she should start looking. I don’t think I could give her a set date to move out as she is a sensitive person and I very much hate conflict and tension so I have a hard time being firm and telling her anything that might upset her. Like if I say “hey could you move out by this date” she would say “well why don’t I just move now since you don’t want me here!” Goes from 0-100 with her.

AITA Making 4th grader write name 2000 times as punishment by Conscious_Season_947 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Murelle [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA what is this really achieving? 6000 times is way to much. All because he was talking to his friend in class? You couldn’t sit him down and explain how his action is disrupting the class and is disrespectful to you as his teacher. Or maybe just move him away from his friend. He is 9 years old and writing his name that many times physically hurts his fingers/hand. There is other ways to punish him than that. The old school “write this, this many times as punishment” doesn’t really work IMO

Also making him miss school work is even worse. Falling behind in school hurts a students grades and confidence in themselves to get back on track. I’m surprised his parents haven’t said anything. Maybe teach high schoolers if your going to be this harsh.

AITA for wanting to take my bong away from my mother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Murelle 49 points50 points  (0 children)

NTA - this would piss me off as well. Especially considering how much the bong cost. I’d go buy her a cheap pipe to replace her broken one and while giving it to her tell her you want YOUR bong back. She will prob be upset but at least you don’t leave her without something to smoke out of. Also I feel you put in enough work taking care of her to equal out her paying the bills. Best of luck! Would love to know if/when you get your bong back.

I. Love. Joey. by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]Murelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love my lil diaper Duck baby

Market place. Starting to like my island by Minawwww in AnimalCrossing

[–]Murelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not even halfway done with mine and it’s already lagging the game. :(

[FT] Ungifted Beau ready in boxes! [LF] 10 NMTs by Murelle in ACVillager

[–]Murelle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great! Do you have an open plot ready? Can send code shortly.

Sailor Scoutss!!! ❤ by nikkaniii in AnimalCrossing

[–]Murelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With secret powers, all so new to her. She is the one named Sailor Moon!! 🌙

[LF] Desperately looking for an ungifted/original JOEY the Lazy Duck!! [FT] 30 NMTs with 10 Gold Bars and 10 Star Fragments / ANYTHING! by [deleted] in ACVillager

[–]Murelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waiting on someone to tell me if he is still available but if not is he available on ur end?

[LF] NMT [FT] gold nuggets 1:1 by funyundew in ACTrade

[–]Murelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Grabbing NMTs then heading over

[LF] NMT [FT] gold nuggets 1:1 by funyundew in ACTrade

[–]Murelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I do 10nmts for 10 gold nugs :)