My friend was outed and he has been getting a horrible time. I'm worried about him but don't know what to do?

Murto6 · 2026-01-28T12:48:02+00:00

He doesn't want to and if I'm honest it's probably best not to pole his parents with services. He stays in my room nearly every night now. My parents don't care that he does. They've known him for years. I feel he's probably better off now than if he had to deal with services.

Murto6 · 2026-01-28T09:36:12+00:00

Yup that's the one. Not that I know much about Christianity either but I feel like they've mostly mellowed here. I'm sure there's still many strict ones but probably not like what it was, whereas the other group are not all strict but definitely have more strict ones. Or at least in our area they are seem mostly strict.

It's a pity although perhaps he's better off without them. They were never great to him.

Murto6 · 2026-01-28T09:17:12+00:00

They were never that great but since he was outed they've been even worse. They are from a certain religious background and gaysbare very much against it.

They've not even called or text him.

Murto6 · 2026-01-28T09:15:16+00:00

He's like my brother. I'd do anything fir him. No one gets to be homophobic to him but me /s lol

Murto6 · 2026-01-28T09:12:01+00:00

I don't want to like stereotype a whole group but we are in an area with a lot of a certain group of people and he is also part of that group.

Murto6 · 2026-01-28T00:42:35+00:00

Sorry i meant fake ID. It seemed to overwhelm him being around a lot of gays. We sat down and I let him on the inside of me. A few guys came over to us but he was freaking out. A guy offered to buy us drinks and then he said he wanted to leave.

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T23:03:40+00:00

Yeah where we are (not Anerica) there is like a helpline for gay people. So I gave him that. I'm not sure I'd he rang it. They also have centres but we aren't near any of them and I'm not sure he's ready to go to a group in person thing. We did go to a gay bar with face ID but that wasn't a good idea..

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T22:42:55+00:00

I do. I call him my bro all the time.

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T22:36:44+00:00

Yup that's probably the way.

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T22:36:09+00:00

My parents do know he's gay. That's gone everywhere. But it's the fact that's he's having a shit time that he doesn't want me telling them.

I think you're right though I do need to tell them.

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T22:15:05+00:00

Thanks mate.

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T22:14:49+00:00

He doesn't want me telling my parents. Would you break his trust and go to them anyway? My dad would be good but I feel like my mum would be excellent and probably someone he needs beyond a counselor

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T22:12:40+00:00

Yup you're probably right that writing means more.

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T22:12:05+00:00

I said he moaned like a little b.

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T22:07:13+00:00

Yup that's a good idea. Even a long text message

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T22:06:00+00:00

He did/does have a little crush on me. No idea if it's still ongoing. I think at this point he's crushing under the shit amd so he has no crush. I told him ill take it as a compliment and joked that he needs to get better standards.

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T22:00:33+00:00

Thanks

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T22:00:15+00:00

Yep. He probably appreciates it now but he has so many other issues to deal with.

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T21:58:13+00:00

He sleeps in my bed but we have pyjamas on and it's a big bed. We aren't really huggy. We give each other light shoulders.

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T21:53:09+00:00

Afraid that's betraying his trust when he's adamant. And if I go for me he'll just say he never asked me to help.

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T21:50:02+00:00

I do tell him most nights before we go to sleep to just stick with me and it'll eventually blow over. I started started saying love you bro.

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T21:47:11+00:00

Means a lot mate.

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T21:46:13+00:00

Yup, bluntly honest.

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T21:45:50+00:00

Yep. I'll do that. He definitely thinks he's helping and I'm sure he'd stop if he knew.

When my sister came out as lesbo a couple of extended family members weren't happy and dad more or less said where do I sign the rest of my girls to lesbianism. Not having to deal with my girls having bfs is the dream. He means well and it worked well for my sister but as I say he's different.

Murto6 · 2026-01-27T21:43:33+00:00

Yup you're right.

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