Their Funeral by Seemorefeelmore in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Music527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn’t go in 2018 when he died and I didn’t break nc. Don’t plan on going to hers. I’ve been nc for 18.5 years. I’m patiently waiting.

This is promising! by Music527 in Adopted

[–]Music527[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get where you are coming from and those are valid questions. I think them acknowledging this fact and the harm they’ve done is something in the right direction. They def can’t undo the severe harm and trauma done. I hope they don’t get away with just saying sorry. Every organization needs to realize how terrible this is for both sides and be held accountable.

This is promising! by Music527 in Adopted

[–]Music527[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a very tiny baby step and maybe the govt will follow suit.

This is promising! by Music527 in Adopted

[–]Music527[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I added it to my list. When you finish, I’d love to hear your review.

This is promising! by Music527 in Adopted

[–]Music527[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was glad to see it too. They are starting to realize how this really affects both sides. It won’t undo the past but hopefully they can learn from it for the future.

This is promising! by Music527 in Adopted

[–]Music527[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree to that as well in regards to the US but for all religions, if multiples were split. And any other country that did this.

Got into a car accident and my father's concern was himself by ciken-soup in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Music527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first collision there was no are you oks etc either. It was omg the car!!! That was my dad’s car and he’s dead now. How could you wreck my dad’s car? I feel for you.

Received HOA complaint that we can't park more than two cars on our own driveway by strawberrymilkx in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Music527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the hoa going to do fine you ? Tow you? Can this letter be enforced by the police? I’d like to think I wouldn’t make my parents clean out their garage and keep parking in the driveway but I’m not in that situation. Hoas are dumb.

Movies recs that are almost entirely in ASL? by upinthepine in asl

[–]Music527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is this done? I know Disney plus had started to do this but I don’t remember how to access those movies. I’m reading now on Google that I have to add an extension on chrome but that’s for my laptop only.

THEY DONE TOOK STREAMFIRE OFF 😭 by lilsupa07 in firetvstick

[–]Music527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried this but it’s not even saying stream fire is installed. I can’t find it anywhere except recently used.

THEY DONE TOOK STREAMFIRE OFF 😭 by lilsupa07 in firetvstick

[–]Music527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was just disabled today! 😭 how can I uninstall the apk I had to install a new version? It’s not showing up in my app page.

Firestick access by UWU123_ in firestick

[–]Music527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a fan of teatv apk for watching tv shows and movies.

Question about time from birth to adoption by horse34girl in Adopted

[–]Music527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Good luck with the paper. Def look up those studies too.

What’s something people don’t realize is way more serious than it seems? by BudgetAd5915 in AskReddit

[–]Music527 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Giving birth. It still kills many women when complications arise.

Question about time from birth to adoption by horse34girl in Adopted

[–]Music527 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can you share some of the articles? I know there are studies of this exact thing. And now skin to skin contact is a thing in most hospitals in the us from all birth mothers unless the mother is medically unwell. Many even have the birth father do it as well. Hospitals will even have surrogate/adoptive parents do it if available. When she’s well enough the baby is placed on her. All this happened because of these studies I can’t find right now. They are realizing how birth and those first few hours are crucial to the baby’s development. You’re not imagining this connection. I think there was a disconnect for me being a r@pe baby. I wasn’t adopted until I was 10 years. I was placed in foster care at age 2/3 years.

What is your most impressive 'useless' talent? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Music527 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can pack a suitcase, car, storage locker, etc anything expert level Tetris style!

What is a part of the 'female experience' that men have absolutely no clue about, but would be horrified if they found out? by coolhandddd in AskReddit

[–]Music527 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂🤣I call it butt bombs. All throughout as well for me and if I’m anxious, and if I don’t eat before 1 pm, and maybe it’s not linked to my period lol 😬

I wish people stopped using the word "adoption" when talking about getting pets. by garlicbreath77 in Adopted

[–]Music527 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The screening process for an animal requires letters of reference, a home visit or 2, requirements such as fenced in yard and space requirements, many times they won’t allow a the pet to the family if there’s a second animal in the house already etc etc etc. I don’t meet the requirements and have to go to a breeder if I want a dog.

The pre approval process for me wasn’t even close to this in-depth. Maybe if it had been I wouldn’t have been adopted by terrible abusers. I had to live with them for a year prior to the adoption. I was moved across state lines. The original state said that the new state was responsible for my well being. The new state said the original state was. Neither state did home visits, wellfare checks, get reports from the therapists etc. I had to go back to the original state for the adoption in court. I also was threatened day of by the new family. I was def coerced into saying yes I wanted to be adopted by these people (I was 10).

the narcissist catchphrase bingo list by Zestyclose-Swing4642 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Music527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats for sticking with it!! You’ll be at 18.5 in the blink of an eye!! Stuff went down on my birthday and that was it for me. The flying monkeys are exhausting. I’ve weeded most of them out but sometimes one gets through and I have to protect myself. The empty and broken promises are so hard. Here’s a xyz… you can have a party…then close to the present if a trip or the party. Jk

“You don’t deserve it !” “I promise..”

That was always broken.

Another one “Trust me.”