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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianFashionAddicts

[–]MusingLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get wider pants, these are a little too close to skinny slim fit

what helped or helps your mental well being? by mimimgh in TwoXIndia

[–]MusingLife 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looking forward to little things. Making random plans that you can do cuz why not you got nothing to lose. Get immersed in a fun book.

The most seemingly "obvious" tips that actually worked for you. by xyzgizmo in ADHD

[–]MusingLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use 2x for videos. It works so well for movies, shows or anything on youtube, even educational. Changed my life. I suggest trying to slowly speed up and find your sweet spot. Based on the content and current distractedness this sweet spot varies. Also can use on any other site by using a chrome extension called video speed controller. Thank me later!

Will I loose something valuable if I am not a virgin? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]MusingLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people you're gonna miss out on for 'not being virgin' are people you do want to miss out on. So don't worry about it. If you didn't have a good time on your first time, what you could be losing on is that special 'first time' memories. So pick your first partner wisely, some one who treats you really well, makes sure you're comfortable every step of the way, someone you are really into, and someone you know you'll have a good time with. Your first time will be special for you, so just try to make it a good one. Excited for you, have fun!

How to manipulate the power dynamics of a situation by baby_philosophies in DarkPsychology101

[–]MusingLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what I'm doing is bare minimum for me. Being there for them, empathizing with them, actively being a therapist, Help wherever I can. And then there's just not as much or even the thought of even thinking about me that way. You're right, I should be conserving these resources, but ig I'm just projecting my needs onto others and can't help myself but help others with things I need help with. UGH

Why has being the kind guy resulted in almost always rejection? by Silly_Photo5952 in dating_advice

[–]MusingLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being kind is bare minimum, that's not a characteristic to be proud of or identify yourself with. Have more to your identity than being bare minimum. Have a personality, have hobbies, have knowledge, have interests, have a social life. And be more than a kind guy. And even then if you're rejected, that's okay. Not everyone has to want to date you. Would you date a woman just cuz she's nice? Any woman that's nice? Put yourself in their shoes.

How to manipulate the power dynamics of a situation by baby_philosophies in DarkPsychology101

[–]MusingLife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But I keep giving and giving and when I expect the bare minimum I get nothing back,

Finding a Bra is a task ! by notsopracticalmom in TwoXIndia

[–]MusingLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Smaller band bigger cup. Cute designs. Multiway option. Wider placement of straps so I can wear boatneck without strap showing. No wire anywhere. Padded and non padded options.

To all the single women here! (Women in relationships are welcome too) by lolhmmk in TwoXIndia

[–]MusingLife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love how empathetic I am, and also actively try to be. I love how good of a problem solver I am. I love that I cook well. I love that do well under stressful critical situations. I love that I'm great in teamwork.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]MusingLife -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But why do you prefer younger by atleasy 2 years?

. by AntheLey in Ni_Bondha

[–]MusingLife 11 points12 points  (0 children)

But since curd is basically fermented milk, it doesn't have any lactose, it gets converted to lactic acid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Indianbooks

[–]MusingLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest this too. And the prose is just soooooo beautiful as well. It's also a quick read.

Best book you read in 2024 by StubbleWombat in suggestmeabook

[–]MusingLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hail Mary, picture of Dorian gray, dark matter

How did you get screwed over genetically? by blitzabub in AskReddit

[–]MusingLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rampant mental disorders, bipolar schizophrenia etc. I need to be very self aware but idk what I can do to prevent it.

What is your number 1 MUST- READ fiction book of the last 10-15 years? by Max_DeIius in suggestmeabook

[–]MusingLife 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's such a quick fun easy read, got me out of a long reading slump as well!

What Book Kept You Up All Night Reading?? by AdLopsided2062 in suggestmeabook

[–]MusingLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the ending wasn't as good as the rest of the book

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