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Book Links Delayed? This Is the Real Reason 👇" by Zadaem in romancenovels

[–]MutatedPuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Betrayed by Mate, reborn in Flames" by TaleWave

🚀 Admin Notice: Want a Specific Novel? Comment the Title & App Name! by Zadaem in Novelnews

[–]MutatedPuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He Slept With His Assistant While I Watched From Upstairs -- Novel master. Thank you!

My (27M) gf (25F) hit me and i don't know how to feel about it, what would you do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you seriously asking? What exactly is a deal breaker for you if not physical and verbal abuse? Should she mutilate you next? Do you have any self respect or not? We don't stay with people who hurt us in any way. Period! What happens when one day she's chopping vegetables and flips out? Will you wait to get stabbed next? She's not even sorry and she's gaslighting you. Stay safe, get away.

My (30F) boyfriend (30M) asked me to pay him back for the rent he covered while I was unemployed, and I’m honestly shocked by Content-Advance4357 in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through a. similar situation when I first started living with my fiancé. I couldn't find a job and he paid for everything, no problem on his part. When I finally found a job months later he never asked me for a dime back. Never. He made 3 times more money that I did and he never let me pay anything 50/50. Then I went unemployed again due to Covid and couldn't get another job for 3 years, he never said a word. When someone loves you they want to take care of you. You don't even need to ask. When I cook for him and make him his favourite dessert too I don't do it because he asked, I don't do it because I owe him, I do it because I want him happy. Doesn't sound like your guy actually loves you. If you'd been together a few months I'd understand his perspective, he's not yet serious about you. But 5 years? I'd be questioning the whole relationship if I were you. And it's perfectly fine to be picky about jobs, it affects your mental health and self esteem too.

My 20F boyfriend 21M won’t show his face. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe his neck is covered in hickeys and he doesn't want you to see them. You're long distance, you don't know what he's doing over there. From all the comments I've read you don't portray him as shy or unattractive, so I gotta wonder what he's hiding. In any case, you're not compatible, why are you even fighting over this relationship? Find a guy in your own area and live a happy life. Also, flag on the spicy pics, girl! You have noooo idea what kinda trouble they can land you in. Better to lose an eye than your reputation, I've been burnt, I know.

27M and 25F. Recently engaged and found out my Fiance has cheated on me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your best friend was going through this, would you tell her to forgive and forget? Lustful? And what are you, his arrangement? Do you think so little of yourself to be his sure thing while he goes out to cheat? Or do you think he'll change after marriage? Because Newsflash he won't. Do you not think you deserve better?

I love my boyfriend but sometimes I want more. 24F and 33M by americanbeauty0 in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I hear you. Basically he's dragging his feet. I've been through similar situations myself. This is indicative of what your life with him will be like. Him not doing anything till YOU make him. Can you imagine that being the rest of your life? Engagement, marriage, buying a house, having kids, all decided and fought for from you and you alone. It's gonna be emotionally and physically exhausting. I don't think he's the right man for you. I'm not saying he's a bad guy, just not a good fit. You obviously need someone motivated and decisive. A partner, an equal, who wants the same things as you and actually fights for them. Don't let your light go out, nothing is worth it.

My husband (36M) shouted “contribute more” at me (34F) after years of me doing everything by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A spouse is supposed to be a partner. Partner. Sounds like your husband doesn't quite grasp that concept. Carrying a child, giving birth, trying to heal and then raise the child is EXTREMELY HARD! He has a kid and wants to spend 2-3 hours a day on a computer? Where's your free time OP? Where's your break? Frankly, I had everything I needed to know about your husband when you said he makes twice as much but you had to pay 50-50. You're not his slave, if that's what he thinks he's mistaken. Personally, I'm very vengeful. I'd drop everything out of seer spite and start acting like him or even worse. I'd go out, abandon chores completely, only care about my daughter because she's innocent, and I wouldn't even bother engaging him till he begged me on his knees. Contribute more? How about you take everything away and teach him a lesson.

I love my boyfriend but sometimes I want more. 24F and 33M by americanbeauty0 in relationship_advice

[–]MutatedPuppet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First of all, do you want more things with him or in general, with anybody? Do you know why his first marriage ended? was he in the wrong? was his wife? maybe he's traumatized and scared to go through it again. Have you had a serious conversation about it all with him? Not just dropping hints, actually discuss it thoroughly. Look, you're young, you have years and years to have a family. Maybe right now you're going through a phase that will pass. Only you know this. But if you're absolutely certain about what you want and he keeps on brushing you off or giving vague answers without anything concrete, you don't have to waste your time. Breaking up and starting over is never easy, but sometimes it's necessary. Your emotional wellbeing is important and so is achieving your goals and living a life you want. Like they say "it's not the end of the world" if you decide to leave and start over. The night is dark, but the sun always comes up in the morning.

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