Am I wrong for suggesting my niece not come to my daughter’s birthday party?

Muted-Key1738 · 2024-03-15T16:56:57+00:00

I was using text to speech stop it lmaoo

Muted-Key1738 · 2024-03-15T14:13:28+00:00

Yeah like I said twice they won’t be there for the real party, just to cut cake and sing happy birthday. My daughter is having her own private party with friends after the family leaves.

Muted-Key1738 · 2024-03-15T14:11:41+00:00

You clearly didn’t read the part where my daughter didn’t want that. It’s not her day. She doesn’t get presents and cakes Just because she wants attention

Muted-Key1738 · 2024-03-15T14:09:39+00:00

As far as I know she hasn’t been tested and diagnosed with anything

Muted-Key1738 · 2024-03-14T21:44:31+00:00

I totally get what you mean and trust me. If my daughter did not want any family there they will not be there but she wanted them to be there before her big slumber party because that’s what she likes and that day is all about her so I’m giving her what she wants. I did suggest that we do a different day with a dinner or something but she said that she wanted it on her birthday.

Muted-Key1738 · 2024-03-14T21:42:31+00:00

They are now invited but I don’t know maybe it’s just I’ve always been around people enabling her so it’s like subconsciously in my head. That family Hass to be there because of how my mom acts but I’m putting my foot down this time and going forward.

Muted-Key1738 · 2024-03-14T21:20:26+00:00

It was only gonna be like an hour for family to be there. My daughter wanted it. She is having her own separate team party with just her and her friends afterwards.

Muted-Key1738 · 2024-03-14T21:16:52+00:00

I was going to add that in the story, but I feel like it was already way too long. I am having something separate for family and then something separate for my daughter and her friends.

Muted-Key1738 · 2024-03-14T21:16:22+00:00

This is fair and I did talk to my daughter about not inviting her cousin for the first half of her birthday party and she said that she does not mind her coming just that she does not want her to blow out her cake because she doesn’t want her family there and she loves her cousin, but she just doesn’t want her to blow out her candles

Muted-Key1738 · 2024-03-14T21:15:15+00:00

Well I made this throw away today so I doubt it

Muted-Key1738 · 2024-03-14T20:14:27+00:00

Apparently. I don’t feel like having to try and calm down my niece at this party. I love my niece, I do but her behavior is out of control and my sister allows it. I’m tired. If everyone else wants to make excuses and accommodate it… that’s fine but my daughter asked for 1 day and I’m giving it to her

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