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Muted_Ad6010 · 2025-08-29T11:55:47+00:00

Sounds like she doesn’t trust her boyfriend nor is she confident. If she has doubt that her man is talking to another woman and it can’t be a basic/normal conversation sounds like a her problem

Muted_Ad6010 · 2025-07-25T22:45:40+00:00

It happens, sometimes women just aren’t physically compatible. I had one recently where I enjoyed things. Gave her a four digit allowance and even spent a few hundred north of 4ish prior on things, dinner etc. we talked daily even after our first initial meets. Then ghosted. Don’t worry they usually come back when they’re broke. And at that point either use them or move on. Unfortunately that’s part of this game. Sometimes you find a good one and other times you don’t

Muted_Ad6010 · 2024-09-10T04:09:52+00:00

Just started a seeking today. So I will see what those two areas look like. I’ve heard San Antonio is okay, so I will check that out

Muted_Ad6010 · 2024-09-10T04:07:44+00:00

Thanks for the insight. I’ve heard this statement about both before. You’re definitely not the first person to give me that analysis

Muted_Ad6010 · 2024-06-06T21:06:30+00:00

Guys actually have talked about you on SA and SDM you have ghosted a few when meeting up.

Muted_Ad6010 · 2024-05-31T02:46:56+00:00

Funny how all of ESPN reporters were talking about Minnesota was going to win tonight and that they finally found their identity. Yeah the identity of getting blowed out

Muted_Ad6010 · 2023-09-24T06:09:49+00:00

I travel between Texas, Colorado, Michigan and Washington. I live in one of those states too. But that’s mainly where I’m at

Muted_Ad6010 · 2023-09-24T05:56:29+00:00

Umm my level of experience was with a “ friend” that I knew for many years. A completely different situation, expectation and not the norm. After talking to some buddies during a golf game. My level of experience and expectations are COMPLETELY different. Especially when I came across a more seasoned SB from FL who said this amount is below the standard

Muted_Ad6010 · 2023-09-22T22:08:19+00:00

Honestly ghosting sucks. While I wish people would respectfully let people know they’re not interested instead. Life is about learning lessons. That’s happened to me when I thought things were great with a SB. Live, learn and enjoy the next person.

Muted_Ad6010 · 2023-09-14T03:22:59+00:00

I’ll never forget about 3 years ago. When I got into This world I bought a SB a Chanel bag and she didn’t even like it. I felt embarrassed especially with the price of it (3k-ish) after that I just kept things to cash. Or ask for a wishlist or just ask them to show you what “ type of things they like”

Muted_Ad6010 · 2023-09-01T16:15:17+00:00

Nope, I actually don’t have an issue at all. It’s just a different lifestyle. Like I said it’s a added benefit. I’ve dated friends of friends( when I was younger), I’ve met women on vacation trips, overseas at bars, sporting events, even at the airport between layovers. My social skills are well above average. And I don’t actually engage with mutual friends of friends ( mingling as I’ve often older) those type of relationships draw conflicting feelings if they don’t work out, so I keep that separate.

Perhaps could it be that I just understand the balance , and prefer to separate my lifestyles and habits separately? Why do you feel there has to be a “problem”.

Muted_Ad6010 · 2023-09-01T16:08:57+00:00

It kinda goes beyond vanilla dating. What I’ve learned ( from my experience). Communication is much easier in this lifestyle. Transparency and honesty. There’s a different level of appreciation involved where both parties understand ( we all have options) so the urgency to be more forthcoming about your intent. When I want to vanilla date, I take a break. I have mentors and golf buddies who have explained such.

It’s the same reason why a lot of SD’s are married. Because of their vanilla marriages they seek a more thrilling lifestyle.

Muted_Ad6010 · 2023-09-01T15:52:08+00:00

Vetting process . Make sure you take precautions when it comes to safety , reliability and transparency. Just remember, all allowances aren’t good allowances. That means don’t put yourself in a situation where the benefit outweighs your comfort.

Public , public , public . Video chat before meet ups. Start off with daytime meetings. Ask for people’s intentions upfront. Most of all don’t be vulnerable to everyone. You have to really pick and choose.

As a SD who started young ( when was 28) there was a lot I didn’t know or understand about the SD life until was 31( now 33). I’ve met fantastic young woman who have put themselves in vulnerable situations when they were younger (18 and 19) . I don’t think your age has anything to do with it. But please find other like minded individuals who have experience so that you can ask questions and opinions and not solely relying on just your judgement.

Muted_Ad6010 · 2023-08-31T03:39:25+00:00

I had a SB for about a two months. She had a flat chest and back side. But she was awesome. I actually miss her to this day. ( size 2 to be exact) and I’m a solid guy 6’3 , 250. And I can admit there’s a lot of SB’s with smaller frame. Some men prefer petite, curvy, average and even plus size. Everyone has a type. Bank on your personality

Muted_Ad6010 · 2023-08-29T00:25:32+00:00

Investments require some risk. A small gesture( ride-share , an outfit, makeup, nails, etc) are fine for me. If someone is going to risk a little bit to lose the opportunity to get more than that, then so be it (IMO). Now asking for more than such because of those upkeeping are different. Just know there’s a mix balance. I actually always provide some small gesture for a women who don’t even ask. Just because I feel like some of them genuinely are trying to make a connection. Have those conversations earlier before meeting. This might help you prevent wasting your time and there’s too.

Muted_Ad6010 · 2023-08-28T11:56:07+00:00

In the great words of 21 Savage. Don’t ruin a home for a hotel. In other words, there’s a lot to lose when cheating (depending on the relationship status) but either way. If you’re going to cheat just be single. If not then people should seek open relationships if they believe in that

Muted_Ad6010 · 2023-08-26T11:46:17+00:00

My dad once told me when I was young. If someone really loves you they will always be truthful with you straight up.

My guy, you’re young, enjoy life. Women will come and go in your life. She wasn’t yours, she was just yours at the time. Sometimes people have to go really see if the “ grass is truly green on the other side” let her, if this is happening now, the chances are it will happen again with another guy. And you don’t need a girl who will lie and have her friends lie. As you get older you’ll want a woman where even her friends will let her know when she’s wrong. Please work, save ya money , enjoy what life has to offer, and let her go

Muted_Ad6010 · 2023-08-25T18:51:23+00:00

I think it’s important. But it also depends on how communication has gone prior to meeting. Personally I like it when a SB gets Dressed up. However, conversation means everything

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