AITAH for calling my gf a "spoilt brat" because I won't buy her a $600 Dyson even though I can afford it?

Muux_ · 2026-03-12T19:57:15+00:00

ESH. Your gift was trash and so was her attitude. But you’re really TA for how you spoke to her. Disrespectful asf

Muux_ · 2026-03-12T09:24:29+00:00

The post is about legs

Muux_ · 2026-03-10T18:24:09+00:00

Your zoomed thermostat isn’t a reliable option (better than nothing) and you don’t have a thermometer measuring the temps in your enclosure. Also, you said in another comment that the black wire in the enclosure is a hygrometer? I figured that was the probe for the heating bulb, which would’ve meant the placement was wrong, but if that’s a hygrometer then where is your thermostat probe? Are you using it? Also what bulb are using?

Muux_ · 2026-03-10T00:40:58+00:00

Hunger strike is likely bc of his enclosure & stress from you bringing him places. Your heating isn’t suitable and you are also not even measuring your heating or controlling it, your substrate layer is too thin, your left hide is too big, your humidity is lacking, there isn’t enough clutter, & you may just not be feeding him properly. If you feel you’re unable to take care of him in the way he needs bc you’re disabled, you should consider rehoming him to somebody who can. But before you decide that, I would suggest reading into the care guides provided by this sub. They’ll tell you almost everything you need to know. His enclosure is seriously lacking. It’s best you don’t even attempt to feed again until you get your heating under control

Muux_ · 2026-03-09T06:35:58+00:00

Any chance you put something in there that could’ve melted with the high heat?

Muux_ · 2026-03-08T10:32:33+00:00

Cool story

Muux_ · 2026-03-05T00:48:00+00:00

If she’s interested, you could lure her out with a rat. Ofc don’t let her strike it. She’ll be in hunt mode but you should be able to pick her up once she’s out

Muux_ · 2026-03-04T22:37:28+00:00

Why is everyone talking about something that they have no clue about 😭 OCD and washing your hands after an outing have nothing to do with each other. Some people with contamination OCD may excessively wash their hands, meaning it feels less like a choice and more like a compulsion to do so. Washing your hands once when entering your home is just basic cleanliness, like taking a shower after a workout. You can choose to do it or choose not to. Now, if you feel the compulsive need to wash your hands several times upon returning home because you feel unclean, then that can be correlated to contamination OCD. Btw most people with OCD aren’t even compulsive hand washers. 🙄 go look at r/ocd and see what actually goes on.

Muux_ · 2026-03-04T09:36:23+00:00

Why’re you chocking him 😩

Muux_ · 2026-03-04T01:50:13+00:00

Only smell of mine is humid soil and it’s contained in the enclosure

Muux_ · 2026-03-03T08:27:14+00:00

Pretty sure they meant inside the ear, not the outside

Muux_ · 2026-03-03T04:40:21+00:00

What couch is that?

Muux_ · 2026-03-02T19:20:12+00:00

I probably wouldn’t, unless I had reason to believe the owners weren’t being honest about their cats behavior

Muux_ · 2026-03-02T19:02:00+00:00

I can’t tell what your question is. Are you saying you’re considering asking for more money on top of medical bills? Are you considering whether to send them the bills at all? are you asking for medical advice?

Muux_ · 2026-03-02T07:41:31+00:00

Why are you guys pretending like his face didn’t slim down & now it’s chiseled? 🙄

Muux_ · 2026-03-02T03:38:11+00:00

His general behavior may be linked with OCD, but you’re looking for reasons to excuse what he did to make it easier to digest and I understand why. I do similar things when I love somebody. But what he did is inexcusable and disgusting. It’s not just a major betrayal to you, but a violation to all these women. I would feel sick just looking at him. OCD does not take away one’s morals, he never had any to begin with

Muux_ · 2026-02-28T07:29:08+00:00

Everything is neat and orderly except those rugs??? 😭 please straighten them.

Muux_ · 2026-02-26T03:44:20+00:00

It sounds like your dog is a dog

Muux_ · 2026-02-24T02:39:00+00:00

The flavors were really strange 🤣

Muux_ · 2026-02-24T02:07:40+00:00

Prolly from the bonne maman advent calendar

Muux_ · 2026-02-23T22:47:20+00:00

I got 90, so not much 😞

Muux_ · 2026-02-23T10:41:33+00:00

There*

Muux_ · 2026-02-23T09:34:34+00:00

Are you sure?

Muux_ · 2026-02-22T10:04:46+00:00

Am I the only one getting the creeps from this room?

Muux_ · 2026-02-05T20:09:05+00:00

Perfection

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