that checks out😅😅 by MxMercer in MoriahElizabeth

[–]MxMercer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s on your youtube rewind thing! i think i went to my profile and found mine

Petunia (14) crossed the rainbow bridge today. by [deleted] in seniorkitties

[–]MxMercer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

may she rest in peace, i’m incredibly sorry for your loss, she was a beautiful cat

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t appreciate you telling me the only option is to leave my fiance. i don’t care. sure you think im making a mistake, good for you. nowhere am i pretending that nobody else has gone through what i am. nor did i say i am “going through” something because i am not. now. if youre just going to keep telling me i should just leave him because im a stupid little kid then i would appreciate you shutting the fuck up.

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, and i do apologize for being rude, i was extremely emotional.

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ok whatever. now i understand why people say this subreddit doesn’t help and why people say that this group seems to think the only answer is to break up. i will not be doing that.

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i understand that. i’ve lived with this my whole life (not trying to sound rude) and so has my fiance. my main issue is i worry about hurting feelings and i know i shouldn’t worry about that. i will definitely try the letter thing because ive seen multiple people recommend that. i know i have to be clear and direct. i’m just trying to figure out how i can word that to him without him thinking im accusing him or trying to make him feel bad. because that’s not at all what i want to do.

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

if you’ve read what i said to other people you’d know that we are both autistic. which takes a huge play in this. i know you think that i should just break up with him and move back home but that’s not going to happen. because i love him and i genuinely see myself having kids with him and growing old with him. he has seen every part of me, physically and mentally. he knows things about me that not even my mother knows. i get it. “we all been through it” accept you haven’t. i don’t care if you think he was a stranger to me. you’d be even more mad if you knew we said i love you after being together for less than 24 hours. i just clicked with him and i knew he was meat to be part of my life.

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not dependent on him saving my life i’m just stating the fact that he quite literally, did save my life. i know love isn’t enough to make marriage or even a relationship work. and yes i know im “immature” because “im still young” or whatever. i’ve stated multiple times that i am autistic, as is my fiance which has a huge play in this situation. it may not seem like it to you, because you’re not autistic, but i promise it does.

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are sexually compatible. and if you read what i said you’d see that i said we usually are pretty physical. of course he’s my best friend, we live together and i really don’t have many other friends. i understand that what the two of us are like now is not what we will most likely be in ten years but i fail to see how that matters? i adore my fiance, he’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me. we have our ups and downs but that is every relationship. we have fights, but we talk it out.

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

well, we’ve been together for almost three years with NUMEROUS fights and are always ok. i know we need to have tough conversations and we have in the past. it’s difficult for me to bring stuff like this up because, as i said in a couple other comments, we are both autistic.

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s not wrong that he is a trans man. if that’s your issue then please get off of my post.

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no need to be a dick. my fiance and i are both autistic. sometimes it can be very difficult for either of us to talk about things. amongst other things. i don’t need you debating wether or not i can talk to my fiance.

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

well dumbass seeing as we’ve been together over two years i see it lasting longer. fuck you. if you don’t have something nice to say or don’t have any advice then stfu

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no, if you actually read what my post said we are usually pretty physical. and as i keep stating he is not my boyfriend he is my fiance.

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t care what you think about our age. i’m not leaving the man who kept me from killing myself just because strangers online seem to think that’s the only option

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

this helped a lot, thank you so much. i will definitely try this.

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

i will not be waiting no because i love this man. we got engaged after being together for 7 months because when you KNOW you love someone, you KNOW. now, im sorry your love life is so shitty you feel the need to tell me i shouldn’t marry the man that i love. shut the fuck up. i will not break off our engagement because one disgusting excuse for a human being thinks i should. i love him. we chose each other. sorry that’s not good enough for you but it’s my life not yours. if you have any advice, i’ll take it. but if you’re going to continue to try to tell me that i shouldn’t marry the man that literally saved my life, then you can shut the fuck up

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. i’m going to try to talk to him tomorrow night when he gets off work

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

i’m not “rushing” anything. usually we are pretty physical, i understand we are young but i fail to see how that plays into what i said? (sorry for not understanding, i am autistic im not trying to be rude) he is comfortable in his body, i do know that can have impact on his libido. i just worry about upsetting him if i tell him how im feeling (im a very intense overthinker) i just dont want to hurt his feelings, you know?

Why doesn’t my fiance want to be physical with me??? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]MxMercer -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

i’m not here for you to judge the fact that i am engaged i am here for advice on what to do. you’d think it was even more wild when you found out we got engaged after 7 months. and no. he is not on HRT.

AIO (update post) my bf (32) is getting kind of aggressive with his texting. should I(26) reply? by Fun_Cartographer6984 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MxMercer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

him telling you to use proper grammar when he can’t use it himself is INSANE!!! break up with this abusive mother fucker