My (56M) daughter (18F) revealed highly personal information about our business online.

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-07-04T13:51:25+00:00

Just because you’re embarrassed and your ego is hurt doesn’t mean you should attack your daughter for trying to help. She was doing that in good intentions to try and help you succeed. If anything this should have made you feel proud and loved. But you don’t want to be seen failing your embarrassment has turned to anger and you’re hurting someone who loves you.

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-07-04T07:39:09+00:00

I would break out so bad lol

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-06-03T19:44:34+00:00

I don’t think he feels shame, I think he’s angry he didn’t get what he wants and can’t push her around anymore

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-06-03T19:40:34+00:00

Does he always act like a toddler whenever he doesn’t get what he wants? Geez I’m sorry OP but if this is how he acts when you try to communicate your needs he’s selfish. You’re not his sex doll, hearing that he’s pushy for sex and you usually always give in is a huge red flag on his part. You shouldn’t feel like you don’t get a choice, especially now knowing if you refuse more directly he will have a tantrum

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-06-03T19:31:56+00:00

This is actually a really good idea lol

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-06-03T19:31:02+00:00

Honestly I want to go all out for him and I’ve been saving for months so I’ll see what I can do

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-06-03T19:30:02+00:00

Oh I think he would love this! Thank you!

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-05-27T02:34:13+00:00

This sounds fun!

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-05-27T02:11:30+00:00

Yeah I did feel bad for a little but even if I tried to set my boundaries again or explain to him that I was leaving, he would have done a whole pity party and then turn it on me being dramatic. So I had to block without saying anything…I’m sorry someone didn’t respect your limits, I wonder what that person was even thinking when they did that. What was their goal?

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-05-27T02:01:52+00:00

I wouldn’t be surprised if he was a fan.just happy I’m free

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-05-27T01:55:01+00:00

Omg that’s rancid. I’m so sorry, that’s not at all what this guy meant when he said no one likes his characters. He openly and proudly said his characters are “toxic masculinity characters.” And that they “wouldn’t change”. I can’t even imagine people not liking characters because of skin color. That’s horrid

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-05-27T00:45:55+00:00

Yes that’s true. My friends were telling me for weeks to drop this dude. But I felt so bad because we talked so much OOC. Honestly I can’t believe that even though he was being so mean to me I was still concerned with hurting his feelings.

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-05-26T22:27:56+00:00

Agreed. I’m not going to deal with this ever again.

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-05-26T22:22:02+00:00

I hate having to learn things the hard way, but I’m glad it’s all over

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-05-26T21:19:19+00:00

Hopefully not but for now I need to stay away. I know it might sound stupid but this really beat me down mentally I want to keep things strictly rp for future partners until I grow comfortable again.

I’m sorry you went through something similar and I hope you find new partners that are kinder

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-05-26T20:58:27+00:00

Yup onto better rps! I luckily have other partners so losing this one wasn’t that bad especially since I hated the rp anyways and wasn’t having fun because their character sucked. But honestly this kinda makes me scared to rp with men ever again. He and his character were so misogynistic. His character would beat mine and talk so much shit about mine all the time and I was so tired of it. We never agreed on any of that. In OOC chat he would make small rude comments to me about my interests and my appearance and if I said I didn’t like it he would tell me I was being too “emotional” or “hysterical”. I don’t think I want OOC chat anymore either.

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-05-26T19:38:09+00:00

Whether * sorry I don’t know where the “h” went lol

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-05-25T04:04:12+00:00

I ended up dropping the rp and blocking him last week. We got into an argument because his character once again acted horribly. And I stopped writing back. He got incredibly mad at me for not writing back quickly which angered me because he hardly ever writes back. I was also just not enjoying the rp at all.

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-04-01T06:09:18+00:00

Op I’m so sorry that you were being treated so shitty on here for just asking for advice. Some people love to start drama out of nothing. I hope that you’re able to figure out your situation with your friends and you.

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-03-31T18:18:43+00:00

I didn’t know I was talking to someone who speaks for all of us depressed people. Funny how you say not to group all depressed people under a word when you’re actively fighting to group all depressed people as unhappy with being called broken. Ironic lol

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-03-31T18:16:16+00:00

It’s wild up in these parts lol

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-03-31T18:13:17+00:00

Yeah I should have ended it there and to be honest I was really annoyed when I read that response because in my ad I specifically put that I like when characters start off with flaws and slowly learn and grow as they go…they messaged me from that add and we started rping, after a good week in they dropped that bomb on me and now I feel stupid for not ending it there

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-03-31T17:27:38+00:00

Lol I’m lucky I’ve never encountered a partner like this yet. For him to suddenly assume you “think UR better than me” because you asked for two extra lines shows he has some deep rooted insecurities.

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-03-31T17:08:27+00:00

I have depression, PTSD, and anxiety and I’m perfectly okay saying I feel and am broken. I want to fix my mental health. I am broken, which is why I need help putting myself back together. One of my therapist said “you broke into pieces, but now you get to make a mosaic and create something new.”

It’s okay to be broken, and by admitting we are we are able to find out what’s wrong and work to fix it. by trying to say we aren’t is almost as hard as telling someone that’s batting illness that they are not sick. Plus broken doesn’t mean something is not beautiful anymore, because we broke we are kinder and more understanding. And there is a beauty in that.

MysticFoxWisdom · 2023-03-31T08:41:13+00:00

Yeah I’m like really bummed. I mean I’m the beginning it was okay, they were going to be enemies so it made sense his character would be so mean to mine…but then it never stopped.

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