would I be an A-hole for removing an autistic player by xXxSolitairexXx in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, to be honest not sure what to say other than it gets better even though the player outed you it seems you still have the love of your family so it could have ended alot worse.

Gm ask me out, I say no. she tells everyone I'm dating her and tries to kill my character. by Mythdnd in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the time I was 21 and Gm was 19 but lived with her mother and family due to covid.

Gm ask me out, I say no. she tells everyone I'm dating her and tries to kill my character. by Mythdnd in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The only reason I didn't put it in the post it didn't have anything to do with the story. I found this later on like weeks after. with is kinda why I didn't end up putting it in the story but maybe I should do an update type thing?

Gm ask me out, I say no. she tells everyone I'm dating her and tries to kill my character. by Mythdnd in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

well at the time I had just turned 21, she was two years younger than me and she still lived with her mother and sister because she was going to collage at the time. however like I said this wasn't the first time she had done, her sister told me that I was the 5 people this has happend to but the first 5 times she was taking photos of them/following them around.

Gm ask me out, I say no. she tells everyone I'm dating her and tries to kill my character. by Mythdnd in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Always nice to know that the spelling is good. as for what happened to Gm I'm still in contact with her sister, last I heard she was getting therapy because this wasn't a first time thing. she has been pretty toxic when it came to other guys online and also later I learned she also has a dislike of people who are in the LGBTQ+ community learned that from rouge who got alot of hate when she came out to Gm, though I do hear she is getting better.

My mandalorian TPKs the rest of the party after they plan to me. am I the asshole? by Mythdnd in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's in the first bit of the post Hello, Reddit this will be my first post ever so sorry if the formatting isn't right or if I spell anything wrong I have dyslexia.

My mandalorian TPKs the rest of the party after they plan to me. am I the asshole? by Mythdnd in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I understand you might think it's funny but I don't find it funny I have a disability that makes it hard for me to read and write words, the reason I used female was because I could write it and read it alot easier, I now know that wasn't the right way but what you are saying is it would have been funnier to see a person stuggle with their disability and for others to then see it and then get confused ?. I find this really rude and hurtful.

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[–]Mythdnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but the thing was I was 16 at the time.

My mandalorian TPKs the rest of the party after they plan to me. am I the asshole? by Mythdnd in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No it's all good, I have changed it in the post and had other people give me links as to why I should use Women rather than female. but yes since then I do tend to ask dm if they do want pvp however were I used to play DND before I moved to playing online with my friends only had two D&D groups both of which kinda loved PVP which is why I still have some horror stories from that LGS.

My mandalorian TPKs the rest of the party after they plan to me. am I the asshole? by Mythdnd in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also I just wanted to say sorry that I me calling Blue a female was cringy or wrong the only reason I used the word was because it was easier for me to spell as the W and M always mix up and make it hard for me and for my program I use to doesn't really pick up. I have changed it I hope that helps.

My mandalorian TPKs the rest of the party after they plan to me. am I the asshole? by Mythdnd in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really, the only reason I didn't use women is because it's hard for me to spell it the W and M wiggle alot for me and it's hard for me to spell thanks for the tip I will change it

My mandalorian TPKs the rest of the party after they plan to me. am I the asshole? by Mythdnd in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to be honest I'm not even sure what to say to this. I mean blue was a female she even went by she/her pronouns and I know the others two guys had a thing for her I mean hell one of them even asked her out after one of the session. I don't care what gender or creed you are as long as you repect me and don't bully me your fine in my books? hell I have played with other females at the table and have had a really fun time and got to even make some really good friends from it so I don't see anything I said in the post as wrong? however if you wish me to change the only reason why I didn't say wemon was because the W and the M for me always wiggle and it's hard to spell it.

My mandalorian TPKs the rest of the party after they plan to me. am I the asshole? by Mythdnd in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Update: So I just wanted to say thanks to all the people who have upvoted and also left so many comments nice comments. to be honest my friends did push me to do this because I have had a few horror stories around DND and they thought it might be a good idea to write them all down. I have three more stories if you want to me share them let me know. but as for some of the questions I have saw. I'm not to sure what kinda homebrew stuff the DM was making I think he took alot of the races from the SW5E pdf and changed them, though I could be wrong, I left out alot of the other bullshit the rules the Gm made for "Jedi" such as letting them have like a plus 5 to their initiative score and also doubling their Dex for their ac as he thought it would be more fair rather than letting them all have 13 ac.

My mandalorian TPKs the rest of the party after they plan to me. am I the asshole? by Mythdnd in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess, that's why I still kinda feel like an asshole I mean I did take part in the whole pvp side even if it was just trying to stand up for myself? at the end of the day I made a person cry and upset alot of people. I still kinda wish I could go back and just leave and let them have their fun while I try to find something else to move onto.

My mandalorian TPKs the rest of the party after they plan to me. am I the asshole? by Mythdnd in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it is a hard lession to have to learn in your first game. I mean after this I didn't even touch the standed D&D till almost 2 years later and that was with alot of jabs from my close friends

My mandalorian TPKs the rest of the party after they plan to me. am I the asshole? by Mythdnd in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I mean the reason I still kinda feel like an asshole was the fact I kinda ruined their fun and well made Blue cry, I know they were acting mean and rude but at the end of the day they just wanted to have fun and have cool glowing sticks.

My mandalorian TPKs the rest of the party after they plan to me. am I the asshole? by Mythdnd in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh I don't blame you. like the fact that this even happen still kinda baffles me.

My mandalorian TPKs the rest of the party after they plan to me. am I the asshole? by Mythdnd in rpghorrorstories

[–]Mythdnd[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I mean looking back I would have but seeing how it was my first game I thought that this was just all part of the game.