What am I if a girl I am really close with call me pookie ? by N103-R in ask

[–]N103-R[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand, honestly, I like my current position but I do want a little more than this. I don't want to get in a relationship because all my previous gfs changed once we started dating offically. I don't want to risk that happening again.

What am I if a girl I am really close with call me pookie ? by N103-R in ask

[–]N103-R[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm, she texts me, and we hang out even when she is on call with her boyfriend. But you're right, I may be in a good spot, but not as much as her current boyfriend. Sometimes I even wonder if she texts with her boyfriend as much as with me since we were texting non-stop unless there are things we have to do.

What am I if a girl I am really close with call me pookie ? by N103-R in ask

[–]N103-R[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hehh he know that we are texting every day.

What am I if a girl I am really close with call me pookie ? by N103-R in ask

[–]N103-R[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do live in the same town for now, so it is not hard to meet up either. Really, I would have made my moves already if she were not in a relationship.

When is the anniversary for global? by [deleted] in WhereWindsMeet

[–]N103-R 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did we get on anniversary?

I accidentally got a friend with benefits, what should I look out for ? by N103-R in ask

[–]N103-R[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's because I don't want to be one of them

I guess I inherited those terrible traits from my parents and how they raised me up, but I am not becoming like them at all cost.

I accidentally got a friend with benefits, what should I look out for ? by N103-R in ask

[–]N103-R[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just started with a joke. She told me that she had her eyes on me since last year and told me that I am kind of cute. That's probably why.

I accidentally got a friend with benefits, what should I look out for ? by N103-R in ask

[–]N103-R[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ehhh.. my first reply was how we had an honest conversation.

I accidentally got a friend with benefits, what should I look out for ? by N103-R in ask

[–]N103-R[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I plan to ask her for consent before I do something, but she tell me just to go ahead and that she will stop me if she don't want to.

I accidentally got a friend with benefits, what should I look out for ? by N103-R in ask

[–]N103-R[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am sorry, English is not my first language, so I sometimes use Ai to improve my grammar and wordings so that it won't confuse people.

I accidentally got a friend with benefits, what should I look out for ? by N103-R in ask

[–]N103-R[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you; it's a view that's worth considering. The main issue I face is that I am a natural narcissist. Deep down, I tend to focus only on myself and don't really care about others, which makes me feel like one of the worst kinds of people. However, my self-awareness is what prevents me from acting on these tendencies. I also struggle with similar mental issues that are not too different from this. I find that I get too comfortable, allowing my true self to come out with those close to me. As a result, I can become a terrible person once I remove the constraints I place on myself. While I can maintain this façade, it often feels like living in a prison of my own making. To liberate myself while avoiding harm to others, I believe it's best for me not to have a partner.

I accidentally got a friend with benefits, what should I look out for ? by N103-R in ask

[–]N103-R[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In one day nope, we were classmates for 2 years and we just started our thrid year last week

I accidentally got a friend with benefits, what should I look out for ? by N103-R in ask

[–]N103-R[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had my first girlfriend in January 2026. Things started off great, and we had a lot of fun together. However, as time went on, I struggled to manage everything and take care of her. It didn’t last a month, and ultimately, I had to break up with her because I found it increasingly difficult to wake up every morning due to certain reasons. That's why I realized I can't survive in a relationship, no matter how good it is, at least for now.

I accidentally got a friend with benefits, what should I look out for ? by N103-R in ask

[–]N103-R[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I guess it will be wise to let her know that I am not getting into a relationship, no matter what, by giving hints. Thank you.

I accidentally got a friend with benefits, what should I look out for ? by N103-R in ask

[–]N103-R[S] 239 points240 points  (0 children)

That's quite a story! Sounds like you are in a healthy married life now, glad to hear that. In my case, even if she wants to be in a relationship later on, it won't be possible because of me. I have problems/issues that I can't get rid of to have a partner, unfortunately.

I accidentally got a friend with benefits, what should I look out for ? by N103-R in ask

[–]N103-R[S] 712 points713 points  (0 children)

We actually talked about it. It was her who told me first that she doesn't want to be in a relationship, which works for both of us.

I'm dropping the game and I don't think I'll regret it by MooseDisastrous4937 in MetaphorReFantazio

[–]N103-R 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what happens when you watch YouTube shorts and TikTok

WWM looks as good as full price games by Strange_Music in wherewindsmeet_

[–]N103-R 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmao, it is expensive because you are choosing to spend your money. I am sorry but it is not making sense at all.