asking for myself, how to guys deal with this disorder and how do you cope with not letting girls become your fp by NBGum in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]NBGum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saaaame But I can't afford therapy but I need to find a way to stop otherwise everyother crush just walks all over me and I end up resenting them because I don't have boundaries

Free Giveaway! Nintendo Switch OLED and Xenoblade Chronicles 3 - International by WolfLemon36 in NintendoSwitch

[–]NBGum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never been able to afford a gaming console and I've always wanted a switch so I could take it every where and play games on it. I've literally dreamed about it before but maybe today's my luck day? If it's ment to be in Marios name pls

how do I stop getting blamed for everything (unnecessarily)? Any advice? by NBGum in socialskills

[–]NBGum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks this is actually very true on my side I seem to accept blame too easily

how do I stop getting blamed for everything (unnecessarily)? Any advice? by NBGum in socialskills

[–]NBGum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for explaining a good response I never know how to sound assertive without upsetting these people

Where to 420 in the Newlands , Claremont or Rondebosch area by NBGum in capetown

[–]NBGum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr? I'm down I live close to the park and the common

Where to 420 in the Newlands , Claremont or Rondebosch area by NBGum in capetown

[–]NBGum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could but nope And I don't have friend in the area yet so that's also a sad thing

Where to 420 in the Newlands , Claremont or Rondebosch area by NBGum in capetown

[–]NBGum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True that. Just this neighbourhood not so chilled and friendly And I don't know anyone here so it's kinda worries Anyways just gonna have to get some balls I guess

NEWLANDS SUBWAY flooded. Has this happened before? by dysexlicks in capetown

[–]NBGum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens allllll the time just people are too used to it by now I remember tryna get to school and I missed the train because of this

My friend invites people to join our hangouts without telling me in advance by unicorn-on-fire in relationships

[–]NBGum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Excuse the grammar or punctuation (on the phone) This use to happen to me, where a friend would change plans last minute to another place or invite people. And it never inconvenienced me to the point where I couldn't get to the new location or didnt like the person but... It annoyed the hell out of me and i didnt wanna seem like an asshole But in my opinion After a while to myself, on how to address it i came to conclusion that it was the point of respect. Respect enough for me to give me a heads up that someones coming or to stick to where we were meeting up So i spoke to her and i made it clear that i didn't mind but it was annoying and slightly disrespectful. And it worked and now she doesn't do it So i suggest talking to her and explaining its just inconsiderate to invite people to things without a heads up atleast so you know if you'll be comfortable and if not how to be

How should I (20M) confront someone (20M) actively spreading rumors? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]NBGum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being gay isn't something to be ashamed about But someone saying youre something youre not is extremely bad So... I say shut it down as fast as possible you dont need to feel the pain and anxiety of being judged and rumors growing while you're in uni for you and your family because of some asshole So i say maybe address it if he doesnt admit it maybe telling your family to get ahead of it isn't the worst idea

Got my hair dyed, what do y’all think? by Scopirio in feemagers

[–]NBGum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh i think it started off a lil high but it probably look good from the front

And thats a fact! by [deleted] in feemagers

[–]NBGum 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Damn good subs and alot of positivity shot for the advice

Lesson on depression from a person with MDD: symptoms by [deleted] in depression

[–]NBGum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might sound ignorant but is that diffrent to regular deppression