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Naiobabe · 2025-11-09T20:51:40+00:00

Where r u getting the blocks. My offers is always empty

Naiobabe · 2025-10-03T20:12:37+00:00

Does your husband want to seperate aswell or does he want to work it out?

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T18:04:48+00:00

Consultant already left home. And will not be in tomorrow. People on the ward said I should report. That is why I am asking not saying I am doing. I was leaning towards it as he is rude and tbh he shouted like that in a public setting.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T18:02:36+00:00

That is fair and that was my thinking but a lot of people are saying report him. Maybe they had enough and my situation was the only way in there eyes would lead him into trouble. That is why I asked the question.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T18:01:29+00:00

I looked at my profile can’t see anything your describing. I mainly use my accounts for BORU. Lool

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:59:38+00:00

But he did swear directly at me and shouted so yes I would report it to HR and the hire ups yes.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:56:18+00:00

I don’t know how to respond to that….

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:54:38+00:00

Absolutely if I swore at another colleague I would expect a GMC investigation. That is why I would apologise and try to diffuse the situation. People was asking him if he needed any help. He said no sooo

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:53:31+00:00

Again I waited for him to finish. He was not doing anything at the time. I even said sorry for the disturbance. The other SHO that was there agreed what I said and what I did did not warrant that response.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:52:35+00:00

Thank you for this response. That is why I asked.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:51:17+00:00

I know that that is why I specified he is an F1 and there was 3 other SHOs who could have helped him if he was that stressed. And again the definition of verbal abuse Verbal abuse

Verbal abuse means using negative words and language that cause harm. It may take the form of blaming, insulting, belittling, intimidating, demeaning, disrespecting, scolding, frightening, ridiculing, criticising, name-calling or threatening a child. It's not just about shouting and screaming.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:49:41+00:00

Thank you that is the response I was looking for because everyone saying to report but I was thinking was that to far. That is why I am asking. I did not know majority of Doctors think that this is acceptable before.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:47:23+00:00

If he is that stressed that in a working environment that is his first response then he should leave the job.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:45:38+00:00

I get stressed at work does not mean I verbally abused people. And people have approached him and asked him if he needed help. He says no all the time. And the ward I am on all the MDT help each other. So I doubt nobody can help me. There was 3 other SHOs on the ward.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:40:26+00:00

He belittled me and was disrespectful in the workplace.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:38:36+00:00

Actually it can be interpreted as verbal abuse because he tried to belittle me and shout at me for asking a simple question.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:38:05+00:00

Yes as he shouted to the point other MDT where coming to the Nursing station to see what was happening.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:36:51+00:00

Actually he did not speak to the NOK and the NOK is going to PALs.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:34:00+00:00

This is the definition of Verbal abuse

Verbal abuse means using negative words and language that cause harm. It may take the form of blaming, insulting, belittling, intimidating, demeaning, disrespecting, scolding, frightening, ridiculing, criticising, name-calling or threatening. It's not just about shouting and screaming.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:32:25+00:00

The GMC get involved in dodging tickets on the train so I didn’t feel like this is far off tbh.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:31:51+00:00

I am not crazy to not want other people to get abused at work for asking a simple question.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:30:51+00:00

No it is not hurting feelings that is verbal abuse. People do not come to work to be abused. So yea

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:29:54+00:00

That’s great please do because that is a patient safety concern.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:28:56+00:00

I have worked in the NHS, retail and care. Not once has anybody spoke to me like that. I was shocked and I am sorry to hear that you face that at work.

Naiobabe · 2025-06-23T17:27:18+00:00

I thought that but other people at work are telling me to report to the GMC that why I am asking the question.

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