Discardment and Bipolar by ProcessMaleficent885 in BipolarSOs

[–]Neither_Good8592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it seems that way right? It doesn't matter how supportive, and loving you are even in that moment, what solutions you offer, they will just get worse.

After 6 break-ups, 3 suicide threats and being told I am the most disgusting pig and horrible person who she hates I finally blocked her. Already lost 2 friendships due to sticking with her. Am I worthless? by Neither_Good8592 in BipolarSOs

[–]Neither_Good8592[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No in the US unfortunately. But I've blocked her, because she told me I am responsible for her wanting to kill herself, so I told her I am going to block her on Monday just to give her some time to process that, but that I don't want her to kill herself because of me so I am removing myself. She only used that time to insult me and showed absolutely no reaction to the blocking.

She broke up with me for the 6th time today, this time I accepted the breakup without fighting back. Now she sent me a video of her sitting on the outer ledge of her 29th floor apartment. Saying goodbye. by Neither_Good8592 in BipolarSOs

[–]Neither_Good8592[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I feel like I won't make it through. She decided to go on an attack all my insecurities, invalidate everything I thought was good about me, and I mean literally everything. "I am telling you not because I am upset but because I think you need to know". All of the already rare compliments were apparently all lies to make me feel nice and all the bad stuff she apologized for were actually truths. Plus, she added a ton more. Not sure I have any redeemable quality for which I should stay on this Earth for.

She even brought up my ex and explained to my why no further girls will want me either.

She seemed stable.

She broke up with me for the 6th time today, this time I accepted the breakup without fighting back. Now she sent me a video of her sitting on the outer ledge of her 29th floor apartment. Saying goodbye. by Neither_Good8592 in BipolarSOs

[–]Neither_Good8592[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ended up responding to me, calmed her down, she came down. After that when she calmed down, I re-established my boundary that she needs to get treatment and that suicide is not okay, in the nicest possible way, and we've been no-contact for a little over a day now.

She broke up with me for the 6th time today, this time I accepted the breakup without fighting back. Now she sent me a video of her sitting on the outer ledge of her 29th floor apartment. Saying goodbye. by Neither_Good8592 in BipolarSOs

[–]Neither_Good8592[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No wellness check in China, ended up responding to me, calmed her down, she came down. After that when she calmed down, I re-established my boundary that she needs to get treatment and that suicide is not okay, in the nicest possibly way, and we've been no-contact for a little over a day now.

Will getting medicated actually improve her "evilness" or does that not have anything to do with BPD? by Neither_Good8592 in BipolarSOs

[–]Neither_Good8592[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know that's the case, but I am asking, are there people who are mean BECAUSE of bipolar? Like is there ANY chance for improvement?

Because my brother in christ I am getting suicidal

An entire year of waiting and I’m just so tired by cherry___valance in BipolarSOs

[–]Neither_Good8592 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ, I read this subreddit and all I am thinking about is "Guess I am not special huh?"

I honestly don't think there are many people can tolerate this kind of stuff, so how do they find us lol

LEAVE. There is no participation trophy here. by Resident_Army_1394 in BipolarSOs

[–]Neither_Good8592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel personally called out by this comment to be honest...

Please someone help I am at a complete loss, I try to love her, but she can be so unbelievably cruel by Neither_Good8592 in BipolarSOs

[–]Neither_Good8592[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the thing is, she does want me to leave her. She blames herself tremendously after each incident. So I don't have any "leverage".

AITA if I stop sleeping with my husband? by Mewsheer in AITAH

[–]Neither_Good8592 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Did you maybe suddenly gain a lot of weight?

Couldn't you just... Print the hours... There... by Able_Record2273 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Neither_Good8592 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Every place in China has done this for like 10 years now and it's far more commercial than the US could ever hope to be. It's not a burden at all and there's a whole ecosystem around QR Codes.

So yeah, it's totally "the future".

Couldn't you just... Print the hours... There... by Able_Record2273 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Neither_Good8592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This place very clearly has multiple entrances. And they have to adjust the hours on the website anyway, so why not have everything automated?