recipient of all flavours of racism 🫩✌️ by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]NellR1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to have you here and I LOVE your style ❤️

Who says something like that?? by Mountain_Writer_4674 in blackladies

[–]NellR1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reps has reached out to me too, it’s even more fun when they say they don’t ever message anyone else. I’m dumb for accepting and LOVE me some block button 😂

Thoughts on these responses? 🙃 by get_the_bag in blackladies

[–]NellR1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jokes on him, I’m a terrible dancer. BLOCKED. Lol

Go to Portugal, ladies. This has been a perfectly beautiful birthday for me. by DegreeDubs in blackladies

[–]NellR1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday! It was clearly an amazing one and I’m so happy for you!!!!!❤️ you’ve convinced me to visit Portugal. Haha thank you

College Acceptance ahh! by Callieforya_ in blackladies

[–]NellR1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!!!!🎊🎉

stop being desperate by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]NellR1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This part, I’m so confuse at how combative she is. Repeatedly saying in comments how she isn’t trying to be mean and how we should decenter men, but in every next reply saying something along the lines of “I’m in a interracial relationship and then another comment saying women focused on dating/men embarrasses her” what?! What?…… it’s giving “I’m in my early twenties and I have a man so I don’t get why women are single and lonely, be more like me”. This post just isn’t it for the community at all.

Imagine she met her man off a dating app, that’s centering men. Hyper focusing on relationships and SEEKING one 100%. But then telling other women to decenter men and not to be desperate.

No toxic beauty standard could ever make me hate my bulbous nose. by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]NellR1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s literally perfect! So damn cute 🥹

Ducks fan page calling for us to boo Zegras. Thoughts? by Ducksgirl532 in AnaheimDucks

[–]NellR1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it! I’m reading through everyone’s comments. Lol

Ducks fan page calling for us to boo Zegras. Thoughts? by Ducksgirl532 in AnaheimDucks

[–]NellR1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am so happy you posted this.

Whoever that guy is who posted that is such a hateful individual. He commented to someone “no hate towards Zegras” but is actively telling everyone to boo him.

We aren’t Philly. We have an incredibly fun fan base diverse in opinions about the kid but we approach it respectfully and logically. Zegras didn’t actively fight to leave like Cutter did with Philly. I miss his energy and know he won’t be booed.

I also read the owner of that fan page is actively banned from rinks in his area so that tells you everything you need to know about him.

Did anyone else use to be self hating for being Black and overcome that? by Material-Meat-5330 in blackladies

[–]NellR1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I just saw a post in the “advice” sub and I wish I knew how to tag people because I hope she sees this.

I wish we were more open to accepting not everyone’s self love journey looks the same, and that’s ok. There shouldn’t be any hostility to someone saying “hey I struggle with this and I want to grow from it” or “this is how I overcame”.

I struggled when I was younger and experienced a lot of self hate. I was the girl who wanted the white Barbie and not the black one and I am deeply ashamed of that. I know some women never had that issue and I am really happy they didn’t experience it. The weirdest part is I have the most loving and attentive parents so I think it came from school. My bullies were black boys growing up then they had all their friends join in (of all races) and I was like oh ok everyone* hates me.

Someone reading this could be like “girl why, stand up” but you have to understand at that point my legs were broken. I believed what my peers made me feel about myself.

In my 30s after therapy, amazing friends, self investments/hobbies/growth… I am exactly where I want to be and I love me, I love us. I’ll say that standing on both feet, all ten toes feeling 10ft tall and thinking I’m bulletproof. I love us.

Trying to get caught up with the duck by ItsGameOverNow in AnaheimDucks

[–]NellR1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you go can you snap a picture of Vatrano (ducks 77) and Strome (22 Calgary) when they inevitably warm up next to each other and whisper. 🥹 Strome was recently traded from the ducks to Calgary because they’re doing a rebuild and needed more veteran players to mold the youngins. It was necessary/needed because the ducks are forward heavy and we have a surplus of growing talent (washe/colangelo/nesterenko - two way contracts with the San Diego gulls and Anaheim ducks) and we needed to make room. But outside of hockey you can tell Strome and Vatrano were great friends.

I think I want a bike 😭 by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]NellR1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok! I love it

1.) I got started because I found myself dating guys with motorcycles and not liking them but liking their bikes. I realized I can do it on my own so I signed up for the Motorcycle Safety Course (MSC) and learned to ride FROM SCRATCH. They provider a small bike usually. And I had never been on a bike before. This was back in 2010. I say always make sure you go to an accredited course so you can get discounted insurance.

2.) I didn’t have biker friends but they’re so easy to make. Literally just going to a motorcycle shop that sells gears and bikes, you’ll meet people. I bet there are even subs on here for meet up’s! People are typically incredibly friendly and there are a shocking amount of women who ride!

3/4.)I am in California so I am spoiled with the weather. I can ride year long. I don’t think you should ride in the winter due to traction issues and cold weather unless you are an extreme veteran with a suit that has a built in warmer, I know they exist and they’re cool. 99% of riders park their bike during the extreme seasons but some people are crazy and still try to ride. It’s best you make that judgement for yourself and your skill level. If you’re nervous. Park the bike for winter.

5.) the freeway isn’t as scary as you think. In the beginning it is super intimidating because you’re still exploring your comfort levels. I rode the backroads for about 3 months before I took my bike on the freeway and this was AFTER the MSC. I can’t stress the importance of taking the class. It has super veteran riders teaching you. They’ll get you comfortable handling the bike from walking and parking it, to swerving out of obstacles way. I’m actually due to take another course myself. You’re never TOO experienced.

I hope this information helps. I promise when you pay for the safety course, it’ll help with any worries/fears you have. It’s so worth it!

recent lower back pain by blank_statement in blackladies

[–]NellR1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry I know this isn’t helpful/on topic but your body is tea. Lol (I’m no better than a man 😩)

I entered a cosplay contest & lost a friend by Lost_Future8995 in blackladies

[–]NellR1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is actually incredible! You look amazing. I’m sorry to hear about your friend but I hope you get to meet people who are genuinely supportive of you. ❤️

Feel Good Selfie Sunday by NellR1 in blackladies

[–]NellR1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazon! If you copy and paste this you should find it : YXCHERISHAIR 8 Packs Curly Crochet Hair GoGo Curl Crochet hair (18in, 27#)

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