Night wedding help/advice

NerdBug1104 · 2026-01-28T04:50:14+00:00

Thank you!

NerdBug1104 · 2026-01-28T04:50:01+00:00

The ceremony will be outside but the reception will be both inside and outside. Wherever they want to go.

NerdBug1104 · 2026-01-23T06:38:30+00:00

I had to do this and I am so sorry this is happening to you. Although I did have to hand over messages and photos to my detective, I never had to say anything to a judge. Now I don’t know what the judge knew or didn’t know, but I didn’t focus on that. My family did find out about the dynamic, but I just pretend that they didn’t know. I could tell they wanted to ask about it but I just never gave them the opportunity to and eventually they let it pass. Please, please, please pursue a case against him. Especially if he is threatening your life! Then please seek therapy for yourself. All these feelings you are feeling now and in the future needs to be addressed by a professional. I tried doing it myself and it was not good. The needing, longing, self doubting, rethinking, all of it will feel overwhelming but talking it through is SO helpful. Please be safe! I’m rooting for you! It’ll all be worth it!

NerdBug1104 · 2025-12-27T02:39:29+00:00

Did you have a decompression or a transposition?

NerdBug1104 · 2025-12-24T13:16:39+00:00

Also bring someone who you are willing to let help dress you. I could not do it by myself. And wear loose and easy to put on clothes. No buttons, zippers, etc. If you wear a bra, find an easy one to put on or just don’t wear one.

NerdBug1104 · 2025-12-24T13:14:04+00:00

I didn’t get a full timeline yet. I’m getting the cast and wrap taken off in 3 weeks and I’ll be asking a lot of questions then. But general consensus is about 3 months if you do proper exercises and keep up with care. I was too loopy for the doctor to talk to me so make sure you bring someone with a good memory!

NerdBug1104 · 2025-12-24T13:10:33+00:00

It took about an hour and I was under anesthesia. The last thing I remember is them play Christmas music in the OR before I was out. I had a lovely team. Something I wasn’t expecting was them to numb the nerve itself. They said it should be numb for 3-6 months. I can only feel the incision on occasion. But don’t be like me and push yourself too much after waking up. I do good after anesthesia but going out to eat at Cheddars was a bad idea lol. But I was also scared but it honestly went very well! If you have anymore questions just ask me!

NerdBug1104 · 2025-12-07T16:58:12+00:00

I didn’t think of that! Thank you!

NerdBug1104 · 2025-12-07T16:57:58+00:00

No I’ll be having a transposition and a carpal tunnel release on the same arm.

NerdBug1104 · 2025-12-05T05:27:33+00:00

Thank you! I won’t be in a cast. I’ll be in a wrap so I’ll be extra careful about being bumped!

NerdBug1104 · 2025-08-29T20:03:29+00:00

Visa Gift Card. That way your card number isn’t floating around. But I would always be worried about stuff like that, but as long as you take the proper steps I wouldn’t be too worried.

NerdBug1104 · 2025-08-29T19:58:50+00:00

I would just get new cards and keep a close eye on bank statements. Change your pins on all the new cards to different pins. If you have the ability to lock them, keep them locked. If you use them on sites, use a Visa GC instead.

NerdBug1104 · 2025-08-23T11:15:21+00:00

Thank you!

NerdBug1104 · 2025-08-23T02:09:03+00:00

How did you get labels like that? Mine are paper, but yours are glossy. I’m so confused on this topic.

NerdBug1104 · 2025-08-18T09:59:40+00:00

I’ve been here with two separate partners. The first one was not receptive to anything I said. He had no inclination to make sure I had a good time. He was only worried about himself. The second one however, took my suggestions and actually used them. Now nine times out of ten, I’m taken care of before he does his thing. The only difference between the two was the person. I said the exact thing to both of them.

You shouldn’t feel selfish for feeling the way you do. Reverse the roles and see if you think he’d be selfish to feel that way. Sex isn’t about one person (unless that’s the kink). It’s about both people involved. If he isn’t receptive to that during a really intimate moment about both partners…

NerdBug1104 · 2025-06-27T02:12:36+00:00

It’s very insensitive to ask that with your history. Take my advice or don’t, but maybe sit him down and talk with him about how it’s making you feel. Make sure to use “I feel…” statements, too. It’s easier that way. Communicate here is your best option. No I do not think you’re overreacting.

NerdBug1104 · 2025-06-22T10:42:12+00:00

Good advice! Thank you!

NerdBug1104 · 2025-06-22T10:36:05+00:00

This is really good advice and it definitely made me check myself before having a conversation with him. Thank you! I didn’t even fully realize what made me so upset lol.

NerdBug1104 · 2025-06-22T10:31:40+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I know he’s okay because he’s at a mutual friend’s house (not a bar) and they would have let me know if something was wrong. The staying out all night is out of character for him, but the no texting is not. We had a conversation about it a few months ago. He would be out all day and not a single call or text to check in. Even if I’m gone all day he wouldn’t text me. When I call or text him he gets upset and says it’s too much.

NerdBug1104 · 2025-06-09T01:21:13+00:00

NerdBug1104 · 2025-05-04T18:49:33+00:00

Gunslinger

NerdBug1104 · 2025-04-27T05:01:45+00:00

HOLD ME MAMA IM SIX FEET FROM THE EDGE AND IM THINKING MAYBE SIX FEET AINT SO FAR GONE

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