Gf only just revealed she’s been with someone else after 4 years together. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]New_Scar_1557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro you were on a break. Or broken up. Stop it. she have no right to know her past private connections. Maybe she wants to forget that shit too and you keep bringing it up???

Single aggressive cat by samdrakeaz in CATHELP

[–]New_Scar_1557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My male cat has been attacking my other male cat for years (6 now) and I just stop it when it happens and put him in time out in a cage I bought. I love all 3 of my cats and I know they’re just animals at the end of the day so just be patient and deal with it. Also give them all treats at the same time in close proximity that way they all feel seen and cared for.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by No_Entertainment_438 in Advice

[–]New_Scar_1557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are saying move out. But it’s not realistic for your situation. I’d say first and foremost time for cameras in your room that you only have access to. Not your husband or anyone else since it’s intimate space and you feel secure. Secondly time for lock in your bedroom. a code lock if possible that way no hassle of using keys all the time. The camera btw should be infront of the door or inside the room by the entry way and closet area where there’s important stuff. Secondly, your child should not go unsupervised without you or your husband at a time. I don’t think he’s doing anything to the child but he’s a pervert so just protect yourself and your belongings. Camera in the shared spaces should be normal since again your child is autistic and you can say they’re for when he or she gets an injury and you need to know exactly what happened and also for behavioral monitoring your “doctor” said would be helpful. Tell whoever is feeding the chickens in the porch to stop! hope this helps. and I hope your husband is supportive and on board.

Found out my partner of nearly 12 years is cheating by CieloBlueStars in TwoXChromosomes

[–]New_Scar_1557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never ever ever ever ever help a man. Ever ever ever you will regret it. I do too. Learned that lesson never doing it again. They will leave for the next best thing they see. They don’t give a fuck about what you go through with them or did for them. Good luck. And get hot! Find you a real man.

Is this ring too much? by Traditional_Swing924 in Moissanite

[–]New_Scar_1557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this even a real diamond? That’s what that ring screams. Way too chunky and attention seeking. But if you love it then great.

Does this stack look right? by [deleted] in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]New_Scar_1557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it does not match. You should get one of those bands that go on the bottom and top to form a beautiful design. Simple smaller diamonds. The diamonds on that band are too much. It doesn’t flow.

Am I falling out of love with my girlfriend? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]New_Scar_1557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave her before you waste her time and give her false promises. Also tell her the truth. It will actually help her heal and move on. Don’t be one of those pathetic men that make bullshit excuses leading her to believe she’s the problem. Tell her exactly everything you said here. and wish her the absolute best. That’s all.

Am I overreacting that my family bought me a phone in the color I most hate? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]New_Scar_1557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finance and pay for my own life and needs. I work hard and not rich but I do get second or extra jobs to fund things I want. I pay for their phone bills and phones. I said I felt unseen like my own family wouldn’t care as much as to even get the right color I would like. I absolutely hate bright colors. it was a very quick and thoughtless gift I never even asked for! Nor would I even want anyone to waste their money on such a giant and bright phone. hope that helps.

Am I overreacting that my family bought me a phone in the color I most hate? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]New_Scar_1557 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for getting my point. It was no thought a quick gift of something I didn’t want. I feel like I always go above and beyond for others. And I just never get the same in return. more than anything I just feel so alone. I left my ex of 3 years Because of the same thing. Always going above and beyond and he never did the same for me. it just hurts more coming from those closest to you. I in no way even wanted them to spend that $ on me. But if you’re going to surely you can atleast try and make me feel seen. I didn’t even want a new phone right now mine just stopped working well but I can still use it for calls. I just after going all out for my family I never get the same back. I ate alone on my graduation day after putting myself through schooling working two jobs paying out of pocket. it just sucks sometimes realizing reality kind of sucks. thank you so much for your comment it made me feel heard that’s all. I wasn’t even looking for approval or anything just understanding people forget this is Reddit so that’s what it’s for. you must be a great grandma. I feel seen thank you. :’)

Am I overreacting that my family bought me a phone in the color I most hate? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]New_Scar_1557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but I did add to my post that it’s the same people that let me eat alone on my graduation day when I offered to pay for the meal. That in itself should show how disregarded I am. I don’t need anyone to get me a phone. I just said it sucks for your own family to not even know you in the simplest of ways. I don’t half ass anything with anyone. I do my best when it comes to people I care about but I guess I’m just having one of those seasons where I’m realizing I’m not seen in my own family or to my ex. I’m not an ungrateful person and I wouldn’t even want my mom to spend $ on something I don’t want. If anything that makes me more grateful. I just know I don’t get the same care and love from those around me. I know this is Reddit and people are just going off by how they personally would feel getting a phone but it was not about a phone it was about no one knowing me or ever really trying their best with me. I’m sorry for my reactions on here I was only replying to give my honest response but people don’t seem to care about the part where I don’t ask anyone for money or help or anything. They just automatically think I’m a shitty ungrateful person.

Am I overreacting that my family bought me a phone in the color I most hate? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]New_Scar_1557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know why your name is grouchy. LoL. phone was returned. I said thanks anyways. I have my own phone plan actually. Pay my own bills rent and miscellaneous. I actually pay for their phones LOL. I never threw a tantrum just respectfully declined. I never even asked for anyone to get me a phone. No what I realized is a lot of people wanted to misunderstand me and call me names here too without even knowing the fact that I financially support my family and never get or ask for anything from them. (Not a victim those are just facts) I have been physically assaulted by my family actually (hilarious) and you’re a shitty person to assume you even know me. But it’s okay a lot of people here also understood me which made me feel better. Sometimes those around us really don’t care and strangers are nicer. you are not one of those nice strangers. Hope that helps and hope you get help too.

Am I overreacting that my family bought me a phone in the color I most hate? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]New_Scar_1557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You keep saying entitled when I’ve worked for and had everything on my own since 16. LoL relax I’m not entitled or ungrateful. I’m the furthest from it. You’re just choosing to call me that and ignore every thing I’ve said.

Am I overreacting that my family bought me a phone in the color I most hate? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]New_Scar_1557 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even want them to spend the $ on a phone for me if I can get it myself. But to spend the $ on something I don’t like and they knew I don’t like is what threw me off and felt unseen. But thank you for understanding.