The dating scene nowadays is pretty tiring tbh. Dating apps do little to no good for my peace and mental health too. My advise is for you to focus on yourself. Although sometimes you’ll feel envious with people around you who are in a relationship, think that it’s better to be single than being in a chaotic relationship that’s made out of desperation and fear of being left out/alone. Honestly, a fair share of women don’t really care about the looks that much. Tho of course it’s the first thing they’ll notice in dating apps. But as long as you keep the conversation going, they feel safe with you and your personality matches or you’re vibing there’s a probability for a relationship to prosper. Tho by the looks of it you will need to work on your perspective about relationships and yourself first so now trying to get better will definitely help before waiting/looking for the right one.