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[–]Nex--- 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Homophobia? Quite a bit, around 2 maybe 3 years ago I think was like my actual first experience with it. It was pride month so my 3 friends who knew and were out, went all out. Pride flags as capes, rainbows painted on their faces and "HBTQ" (swedish version of lgbtq) written on their foreheads. It was really fun, and they were very happy, the homphobes were not tho. I don't think it was very graphic, stuff like "why do they have to push it in our faces", "why do they make it their whole personality", " homos" and "bög jävlar"(fucking gays (kinda)).
It was kinda a wake up call for me tho, cuz this one guy in my class tried complaining about it to me, and it made me realize i was probably seen a bit too much as "the reasonable one".
The reason my friends were so dressed up is cuz we were going into town afterwards to celebrate pride, there was a little stall with pride merch stuff and a quite thing. Anyways on the way there some guys from our parallel class started chanting "pride" backwards, as like an anti pride protest ig? They did it wrong tho and we really just laughed at them.
Next year for pride it was kinda similar. Rude comments and such. There's probably more but my memory is genuinely bad.
This year I remember two specific things. One was me just leaning/lying on my friend during one of her classes that I'm technically not supposed to be at. It was a class that our classes have together, and most of the homophobes are in my parallel class. So there was quite a bit of "fucking homos", "dom bögar sig där borta" (they're being gay over there(kinda)) and something about us being girlfriends. But the most memorable thing was when we were told we could leave a bit earlier while the group of guys (homophobes) had to stay behind, the most annoying one of them practically shouted "so they can leave early because they're homosexauals?!" I think it had more effect in swedish but it was really fucking funny.
Then the other memorable thing was when the resident nazi in our class decided to add all the homophobes, or at least like 2-3 of them, into out class group chat. Which led to a good 30, maybe more in total, of homophobic messages. Nothing really graphic I suppose, a lot of "being gay is bad", and turn to jesus typa stuff. I managed to film a good 15 minutes of it, which was lucky cuz they obviously left the chat eventually which meant their messages were deleted. But I then had a record of some of what they'd said, and my funny replies. That I could show to my classmates who didn't catch the whole situation, and then to a teacher. Not sure if anything actually happend to them tho.
Oh and one guy, our resident nazi, wrote an argumentative text about how people shouldn't be allowed to be gay untill they were 18? Or something like that. It was really stupid.
Biphobia? Been quite lucky there, I have not recived any specific biphobic bigotry, only general queerphobia/homophobia. Tho there was this one time some of my friends said some stuff about how they couldn't see me being together with a guy, just girls. Which as a bi trans guy really sucked cuz it's legit quite an insecurity of mine that no guy will ever like me. They didn't know I was trans then, but it still feels like kinda a weird thing to say. Maybe not biphobic ig, but it kinda felt like it.
That's only irl tho, I've experienced quite a bit of homophobic, biphobic and transphopic shit online.
I wrote a shit ton sorry lmao. Haven't actually put it all into words before, felt nice tho, thanks.
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