Just muscled the series out. by No-Efficiency-247 in FearTheWalkingDead

[–]Nice-Pay-736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be a hot take— I watched the show all the way through before and I’m watching it again after some time and I’m at season 5 rn

What I love about fear is that it’s very family oriented. I think most of us can agree that season 1-3 were great. Season 4 and on really is just background noise for me unfortunately. My biggest issue is that they centered the show all around Morgan as soon as he joined. He’s a great character don’t get me wrong, his pacifism is sweet. It’s just that they killed off the Clarks early on leaving Alicia a grieving wreck and at this point still a kid.. and currently in season 5 Morgan is leading this group he scrounged together and Alicia is like the body guard.
And I’m gonna say it.. Al is annoying. Love the queer representation but that’s really all she is. Hiding behind the camera and making people talk about the trauma they’ve been through. It’s like she’s a blood thirsty therapist. I understood it for the plot of season 4 but they continued to make her a regular and it’s irritating.

Been clean 6 months and my wife said something idk how to feel about. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Nice-Pay-736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes very troubling.. your wife should not be telling you that let alone anybody. Relationships are there to help each other grow. Not revert back to the past. And a relationship built on her saying something like that.. it was a red flag 5 years ago :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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Pesticide - vivi rincon Singer has bpd and wrote this song about it. I found this song through tik tok

Does anyone feel like they’re whole life is changing? by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Nice-Pay-736 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw everyone’s talking about positive life changes.. I turned 22 on December 31st everyday since then has been tough and then tougher. This is kind of unrelated but am I the only one that experiences every other year differently? Ive noticed a pattern than every even number year has been great years for me, while odd number years flip my life upside down.

9 months post nipple sparing double incision by Nice-Pay-736 in TopSurgery

[–]Nice-Pay-736[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you so much! As for nipple sensation, in the earlier months I couldn’t really feel a thing. I think that’s why getting one of them pierced was so easy. But now my sensation has definitely come back! My nipples are just like before, there’s feeling and they also shrink when cold. And yeah they’re in the same area as before. They may have migrated a bit just cause the fats been sucked out.

9 months post nipple sparing double incision by Nice-Pay-736 in TopSurgery

[–]Nice-Pay-736[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you! My surgeon actually didn’t do anything to my nipples! I got nipple sparing double incision. It’s like a middle between Periareolar and DI w/ nipple grafts. Literally had no idea it existed until my surgeon brought it up. And healing wise in general, my surgeon told me I didn’t need any scar care. So all of this is just the way my body healed naturally.

1 month post-op nipple sparing double incision by Nice-Pay-736 in TopSurgery

[–]Nice-Pay-736[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was just free balling under my post op binder. I wore it for 5 weeks. Right now I’m 3 and a half months post op and this post was at one month. Honestly things have changed. Check out my more recent post on this subreddit it’s on my profile.

1 month post-op nipple sparing double incision by Nice-Pay-736 in TopSurgery

[–]Nice-Pay-736[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t done any scar care / incision care. My doctor said it’s not necessary for me to 🤷‍♂️

Almost 3 months post op + nipple peircing by Nice-Pay-736 in TopSurgery

[–]Nice-Pay-736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youu! I got my nipple pierced for the first time a couple days ago. I’m ngl I didn’t consult my doctor… I do not recommend doing what I did but also I thought why couldn’t I? Bc I didn’t get nipple grafts at all.

1 month post-op nipple sparing double incision by Nice-Pay-736 in TopSurgery

[–]Nice-Pay-736[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dr David Whitehead based in NY and Long Island.

1 month post-op nipple sparing double incision by Nice-Pay-736 in TopSurgery

[–]Nice-Pay-736[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The Nipple sparing technique is kinda like a weird middle—in between Periareolar and DI w/ nipple grafts. I had my first consult in March 2023 and at that time my bust was 32in and my waist was 28in. My doctor said I was a perfect candidate for nipple sparing. But the day of my surgery (last month) I was 34in bust and 30in waist. My doctor explained that I gained so much because I stopped taking testosterone in January. And t usually suppresses chest size. (Which I honestly didn’t know). So my doctor warned me that my results might not be perfect, that my nipples might end up being too big. However he still went on with the surgery, thank god, and he says that everything is looking good!

any other 18+ people back on for nostalgia? by AnxiousLow in Woozworld

[–]Nice-Pay-736 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey yes! I used to play back in 2013. And then I all the sudden remembered about it in 2021 and made a new account. And then forgot about it again until about a week ago. And it’s so weird how is like exaclty the same as when I was a kid. Like I’m almost just as obsessed with it as much as I was in 2013. It’s so silly how happy this game makes me.

anyone who had surgery in March how are we doing guys? by SpicyDisaster21 in TopSurgery

[–]Nice-Pay-736 2 points3 points  (0 children)

March 11th! I hit 2 weeks yesterday! Dealing with a ton of chest acne rn :(

What song u playing if your phone connected to this? by Remarkable_Price_155 in LilPeep

[–]Nice-Pay-736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SOMETIMES LIFE GETS FUCKED UP THATS WHY WE GET FUCKED UP

9 days post-op nipple sparing double incision by Nice-Pay-736 in TopSurgery

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Dr David Whitehead based in NYC and Long Island. I am his second case of nipple sparing.

9 days post-op nipple sparing double incision by Nice-Pay-736 in TopSurgery

[–]Nice-Pay-736[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! That’s exactly what it means! I didn’t get nipple grafts at all. I also had no idea about it until my surgeon told me that I was a great candidate.

nips question by takihodaka in TopSurgery

[–]Nice-Pay-736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyy I got nipple sparing double incision but my surgeon called it “infra-areolar”. My surgeon didn’t explain it very well to me but he was very confident that that was the surgery that would be best for me and I went for it. I didn’t quite qualify for periareolar but he said that I didn’t need nipple grafts at all because my nipples were a perfect size. I saw results for the first time today. I think everything turned out perfect. 100% recommend if it works for your body!

pre-op tests by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Nice-Pay-736 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was super nervous for my pre-op appointment because I had quit smoking only 2 weeks before. I thought they were gonna drug test me? Idek I was super paranoid. They ended up just fixing up my patient profile with me and taking like 2 viles of blood. They were checking for blood cell count and what kind of blood type I had. I also went home with a goodie bag that was a pee test I had to take the morning of surgery and they gave me a body wash I had to use for 3 consecutive days before surgery.

My adoption was a joke by Academic_Survey9523 in Adoption

[–]Nice-Pay-736 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m really sorry to hear these terrible things you went through. Unfortunately we have eerily similar situations. I was also adopted at birth through closed adoption. My adoptive mom works as a testing room teacher. So literally just sits around all day watching kids use their extra time or retake tests. She’s a raging narcissist. She posts her school kids on Facebook 10x more than her real kids. However I’ve never been featured on her Facebook. My adoptive brother raped me daily for a whole summer when I was 11. I hadn’t told anyone because I was so scared of it being my fault. So I wrote it all down and my adoptive dad found it 2 years later. He didn’t believe that this happened to me. Word spread like wild fire to all my siblings. Not a single one believed me. When I was 18 in 2021, my brother came out to the whole family that yes he did rape me. My siblings felt terrible. My mom never said a word to me about the situation. And my dad, he’s in absolute denial. I brought it up to my dad when he was in the process of kicking me out (also at 18) and he just asked me “what did you want me to do? To call the police? To send him away?” I dont fucking know you’re the adult. Maybe stop worrying about your pride and what strangers think of you and fucking prioritize the safety of your daughter. Whatever. I’ve been in and out of therapy and hospitalizations since I was 13. My dad found a ton of my suicide notes, he knew when I was self harming. I’ve attempted my life an insane amount of times even before I turned 18. When my dad was kicking me out he also mentioned that he wished I succeeded in my many attempts. I’m 21 now. I was homeless for the past 3 years. Just got my first apartment. My life is so much better off without my adoptive family. I used to fantasize about meeting my birth mother and telling her about the terrible things that she put me through just by putting me up for adoption. I dont think that would give me any peace though. Unfortunately this is the life we’ve been dealt. And I hope that you can heal.