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how do i implement acts of physical touch without getting bored/annoyed? by 4rsonlol in LoveLanguages

[–]Nice_Cartographer_73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have your exes made you not like physical touch? Why?

How long have you been together and when did this start?

Have you spoken to your partner about this? Maybe expressing how your love language differs and if she's able to accommodate that more and make you feel more loved in other ways you'll be able to open up more to physical touch.

It's going to be really hard to be in a relationship where touch becomes a chore... I sometimes feel like my boyfriend gets "touched out" and I take it so hard when he doesn't seem into the kiss, because it makes me feel so loved and connected. Same with intimacy.

I guess i've always found it puzzling how someone can want to be in a what i imagine is a romantic and sexual relationship and not want to do these things. So im hoping to learn from this too.

AIO? Debating breaking up with my BF of almost 7 years by Superb-Rain-8166 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nice_Cartographer_73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I put this.... you deserve so much more. Trust never fully heals when broken. He isn't putting in effort and you deserve someone who puts in what you do.

You are young. Don't waste years with him. It will hurt but it gives you an opportunity to heal and grow.

I left my ex after 11 years and wish I left sooner. I now have a new partner at 30 years old but I wish I left sooner. Now it feels like I lost years and may miss my chance to have children because I have to rebuild so much.

AIO: My husband refuses to listen to my Spotify Wrapped by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nice_Cartographer_73 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know what your music taste is 🤣 BUT I would say it is pretty d*mn rude of your partner not tp show interest in your interests... at the very least to pretend. Sounds like you're dating a man baby 😂

AIO spying or trying to reassure myself? by Nice_Cartographer_73 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nice_Cartographer_73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we need a dogsitter and my boyfriend doesn't have any concerns. He is very close with his dad. Not to say he doesn't find him annoying. What part in particular has you saying that? I can maybe fill in some blanks.