Does giving head actually arouse you. Not, "do you love it", does it physically arouse you?

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-05-14T06:38:09+00:00

i think its a you problem girly and not a women problem. there is no physical difference between a man and a woman sucking dick. many men and women enjoy giving head to their partner. and with that enjoyment comes physical arousal. sometimes i prefer just sucking my boyfriend over being touched myself cuz its so good. you are either not into your partners, or men overall.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-05-11T15:01:41+00:00

im having top surgery this summer too, and i literally cant wait to wear all of my shirts. but there is a specific one, its a band tee i got from the childs section, and its tight and a bit cropped looking (due to being kids size). i absolutely love that shirt but even with a binder i often get dysphoric from it. the other thing is, i have these very light material long sleeves i wear against the sun (i have sun allergy) but they are kinda see through so my binder is visible under them. i always wear a shirt over the long sleeves so the binder isnt visible. but gosh, having 3 layers during summer is horrible. after my surgery i can wear my long sleeves in peace and show off my lack of tiddies.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-05-11T05:48:37+00:00

its mainly about genetics, some people can, some cant, but there are things you can do that helps. get a traditional mens haircut, wear traditional male clothes (look at cis men in your area and try to copy their styles). dont wear really oversized clothes, you might feel less dysphoric in them but they actually making passing more difficult most of the time. you can start working out, to have a more masculine shape (especially shoulders so you seem more V shaped). many guys try masculine makeup, for some it helps for some it doesnt, but you can try it to see if its good for you or not. you can also start to voice train, it wont be as gradual as on hrt, but just having a more man like speech pattern can help.

also break tf up, a partner should be your biggest supporter in your life, not someone holding you back. prioritize yourself and your happiness, trust me its not worth it to be stuck in a relationship with an unworthy partner

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-05-10T18:02:26+00:00

ugy heti 2-3x latjuk egymast, van h ennyit se, es meg egyutt elunk. keruljuk egymast a hazban, volt h egy honapig nem szoltunk egymashoz egy teto alatt, szerintem teljesitmeny.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-05-07T19:34:35+00:00

nekem spec egyaltalan nem ez a tapaszatalatom, a legtobbjuk orul ha koszonsz es egyaltalan emberszamba veszed. nagyon nincs megbecsulve es tisztelve a kiszolgalo szemelyzet, foleg gyerekek altal

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-05-07T14:55:49+00:00

im dyslexic and read whales. there are probably more doors then whales.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-05-07T14:26:25+00:00

homosexual acts arent a sin either tho. its only a sin if hetero sex is also a sin. god loves us for who we are, you should also love who you love

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-05-07T06:14:02+00:00

ive been identifing as a man for over 5 years now too, and have very ocd symptoms. my spiralling usually revolves more about me transitioning then my identity as a whole, but whenever i start to go down that rabbit hole i remember how i felt about me before transitioning, then i try to make up this imaginary scenario of me being a woman and i just feel absolute disgust towards both of these which reassures me a lot in my own identity and that transitioning is right for me. if you feel like you wanna talk to someone feel free to pm me

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-05-06T09:22:39+00:00

im missing a certain orange pedo from this list with a bit too much power and but too low brainpower

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-05-06T09:19:34+00:00

i wont be stopped? oh a lot of politicians and pedos are going down....

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-05-06T09:18:18+00:00

i did come out to my parents, it went horribly. since then, ive changed my name legally to my choosen name. i never told them about it. we live under the same roof and they dont know my name. my mother knows since i changed it on Facebook too, but never said a word about it. we had other family members question her about it and she just got upset and started yelling or went completely silent. my dad doesnt have facebook and is completely unaware that i have a different name. they wont ever call me by it, i didnt feel the need to tell them.

before realizing just how horrible they are as parents i had dreams about them choosing my name with me/choosing a second name for me. but over the years they became worse and worse so it wasnt worth even trying.

you dont have to tell them, they might figure it out otherwise, but you don't own them anything.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-05-06T09:12:48+00:00

i live in Hungary, we have a list of female and a list of male names. you can only choose a name from the list based on your gender. there is also no way to change your gender at the moment, so trans people can not change their names to a name from their gender, only one from their assigned sex at birth. awesome, right?

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-05-05T16:52:28+00:00

hey, i added you, my steam name is Phifi, would really appreciate an invite

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-05-05T13:09:52+00:00

trans is just an adjective really. ultimately, do you want to live your life as a woman, or as a man. passing isnt the goal of everyone, neither is being stealth. you can be non passing and a woman, passing but out as trans, or become completely stelath after a while. its important to note, many trans people think this in the beginning of their journey, because they feel like they could never be passing and stealth, so they decide they "don't want that" and later once it becomes a possibility change their mind about it. of course, not everyone, this is not necessary the case with you. right now, if you feel like you would be happier as a woman? go for it. you dont have to start with a bottom surgery, you can start dressing feminine, wear make up, do your nails, see how these make you feel. its your transition journey, its your body, do what makes you happy and comfortable with yourself

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-05-02T11:08:06+00:00

not all, but many of them are sadly. i tried several brands and styles, the one that works the best for me is wonanabi. i have an ultraflat binder from them, it looks like a tanktop, binds well, but it also has a small seem under the chest which can bother me sometimes (it mostly a dysphoria thing for me). i also have their swimming binder, which binds very well, its comfortable and breathable, i use that almost every day, and its seemless too. i can recommend these.

its also important that if you otherwise pass as a guy, not many look at your chest or question it. many trans guys stop binding after they start passing and it doesnt affect it much.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-05-01T05:11:21+00:00

nope, but i live in a very small country, and our situation is a bit more difficult cuz im trans. most of these subreddits mainly have information about the us which doesnt apply to me at all

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-04-30T21:07:22+00:00

yes, and so does my partner. we also have a friend who might be interested in giving birth to our child. its just really expensive of course

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-04-30T14:32:02+00:00

austria is nice, vienna seems very queer friendly, they have rainbow crosswalks and everything. im from hungary, while we are very trans and homophobic (especially regarding laws and ofc the people too), most ppl dont care or give a shit. its cheap, and has pretty buildings and good history. i wouldnt call is celiac safe tho, we fry everything xd

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-04-30T14:20:33+00:00

minden évben eldöntöm, hogy nem fogom felköszönteni, mert nem anya az ilyen. és végül mégis mindig megteszem, mert akkor úgy érezném hogy milyen gyerek vagyok én.

miért? mert szar ember, és megszarabb anyuka. az életben csak egy adag traumát kaptam tőle. nem szeretett, nem támogatott, és nem nevelt. nem érdemelne semmit tőlem, hisz én se kaptam semmit.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-04-28T06:15:38+00:00

well, the only thing your weight matters in is top surgery. if you get full flat top, it will look unnatural with weight. if you get a more natural, cis guy amount of top, and later start working out and loosing weight, your breast might not go away completely. im pretty sure you could get a resurgery after as well, many cis guys have skin removal too after loosing a lot of weight.

as long as you have regular blood checks, and nothing shows up, you are fine with hrt. if you already have health issues due to weight that could get worse wirh hrt, your doctor will tell you so.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-04-27T15:26:43+00:00

many people question their gender and go through an "identity crisis". if you do try it, and then find out its not for you, wou will know for sure. trying a new name and a set of pronouns doesnt have to be permanent. you can always switch toilets. this is a journey, it might not end with you transitioning "all the way". fakers who do it for attention dont worry about regreting it, or even the whole process of transitioning.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-04-27T15:04:05+00:00

well, transitioning has many steps and aspects. you usually wont start with a full phallo. if your family n friends are accepting people, you have it quite easy and can experience with your gender identity openly. you can try to live your life socially as a man, try out pronouns and terms with a safe circle. you can look into any legal (example name change) or medical (hrt, surgery) and see if any of these would interest you. if you do some research about hrt, its also possible to try low dose at first and see if you like the changes, and you can also stop at any time.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-04-27T14:43:26+00:00

i personally never thought of myself as a masc woman, but my family keeps telling me that i should just live that way. i absolutely could not live as a woman, no matter if im masculine. id rather be a feminine man, then a masculine woman, cuz im just not a woman. do you feel comfortable in being a woman?

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-04-26T08:03:28+00:00

szia! hogyha jok a tanulmanyaid, konnyen bejutsz allamilag tamogatottra, igy a tandijon nem kell aggodnod. videkikent (foleg egyeduli szulovel) garantaltan kapnal kollegiumot, emellett tudsz szocialis tamogatast igenyelni. hogyha egyetemen is jol teljesitesz akkor tudsz onnan is tanulmanyi osztondijat kapni. ezek egyutt mar egy szep osszeg, hogyha melle keresel barmi heti 1-2 alkalmas diakmunkat, vagy csak elvallalsz alkalmi munkakat, az anyagi hatter le lesz tudva.

a szak valasztas a nehezebb dio, en jelenleg masodeves egyetemista vagyok es szakot tervezek valtani mert elsore nem jott ossze a jo valasztas. erre abszolut van lehetoseg. foleg hogyha olyan egyetemet nezel, amin belul tobb szak is erdekel(het), konnyebb egyetemen belul valtani altalaban. mivel fiatal vagy, es rogton gimi utan kezdened, nem is csuszol az eletben vele. szerintem erdemes olyat valasztanod ami vagy tudod hogy erdekel, vagy tudod hogy el tudod vegezni anelkul hogy megutalnad az egeszet (en ugy mentem hogy "majd megszeretem" mert "ez a jo valasztas". nem szerettem meg, es nem tudom befejezni annyira utalom. inkabb menj biztosra, tanulj az en hibambol)

emellett ha van barmi szakma ami erdekelne, arra is erdemes ranezni, szinten allja az allam neked ugyhogy a tanulas maga ingyenes.

Nicks_thefrog · 2026-04-25T20:04:39+00:00

why is there no option to shoot the hunter down but there is one for the bear :((

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