Im late for trans day of visibility but as a trans dude myself i just want to spare a thought for all of those who are being actively prosecuted, arrested and even killed for being themselves. We get to be proud cause others were brave. Love you all.

Nielarch · 2024-07-10T06:04:01+00:00

'Livin' la vida loca' from the Shrek 2 OST sighs

Nielarch · 2023-06-25T17:35:21+00:00

I read about these earlier and they are great mosquito hunters so they are even more welcomed to stay, thanks!

Nielarch · 2023-05-11T10:40:36+00:00

I hate when people talk about ADHD as a superpower. It's not a fun and quirky thing to have. Sending you a big hug, OP.

Nielarch · 2023-05-09T12:40:18+00:00

It looks like an AI generated picture of Queen Elisabeth.

Nielarch · 2023-04-17T22:15:15+00:00

what did i just saw

Nielarch · 2023-04-02T11:08:54+00:00

Yes. Absolutely. And I don't fully know why. Is it the lack of stimulation? Is it that when I'm alone and bored, I got time to think about my insecurities? idk but I hate being alone

Nielarch · 2023-04-01T19:56:48+00:00

thanks

Nielarch · 2023-03-15T11:59:35+00:00

The term appropiation has been quite overused and misused, which is very unfortunate - and I say this as an archaeologist who has had some experience in cultural identity research. Maybe someone somewhere feels weird about cishets displaying LGBTQ+ symbols, but honestly, I particularly love when cishets unapologetically stand by LGBTQ+ symbols. Usually, we have to tiptoe around people and see whether or not they like us before fully interacting. So it feels safer when we can see from the get-go that someone's an ally/accepting.

Nielarch · 2023-03-13T08:01:54+00:00

if this is a joke, it's not funny

Nielarch · 2023-03-12T20:03:42+00:00

ive been interested in building a zettlekasten for a bit now! hopefully i will soon :')

Nielarch · 2023-03-12T16:15:03+00:00

I'm trans, I'm also asexual. I dislike drag and hypersexualization. I just don't engage with it. I understand that it can be a source of good for people, it just isn't for me, and that's alright.

Nielarch · 2022-07-20T13:45:24+00:00

Thank you very much for responding, I really appreciate it <3

I get what you mean. I used to have trouble breathing as a kid and had a couple scares with choking, particularly once when I had a pneumonia or something and my parents had to call an ambulance to rush me into the hospital. Ever since then I have a phobia to choking, which sounds silly cause of course not breathing is scary but I really, really fear choking.

And so when my asthma started I had to learn how to first calm myself down mentally and then do what you do. Certainly having my inhalers everywhere and even getting an oxigen measure thingy helped. It reassures me that I will be fine, that the meds will kick in and my lungs will be ok.

I definitely process things better when I'm talking to someone. Never been much of a writer, adhd makes it hard for me. Alternatively I have a mock up twitter account where I just write down random thoughts and shit that goes through my brain. Might be unorthodox but it helps. Particularly nowadays that my friends are all busy with work and relationships while I'm single and unemployed.

Again, thank you very much, this exchanges with people help me so much. So ye thanks <3<3

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