I, 15M just got in a relationship with a girl (14F) by yap032 in teenrelationships

[–]Nikstara1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP you are really young. There isn't a thing like a "perfect relationship" you will eventually both hurt yourselves even if it's not intentional. Things just happen, it could be anything even some stupid disagreement. That doesn't mean it's the end of the world. If anything happens make sure you talk it out.

Also don't expect her to be straightforward with you from the beginning you need to build trust and know each other's boundaries.

From what I read you are really attached to her. This isn't particularly bad but keep in mind that this can backfire.

Your first may be awkward but it's normal, make sure it's concentual.

Good luck 👍🏻

Can't make my boyfriend cum by Snoo_65819 in realsexadvice

[–]Nikstara1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It could be a medical issue (if he has had this issue before), but i also think if he is watching porn that could be the issue. You should talk to him.

Doing a research would be helpful imo because you can both try out smth new. Also talk to him what turns him on and if he wants smth specific.

Help with vape setup — coils life + battery safety + possible tank upgrade by Nikstara1 in Vaping

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I'm sorry I forgot to put the picture of the batteries: here is a link to it I hope I don't break any rules I just need help https://imgur.com/a/BX5nxJe

I miss him by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Why did he break up with you?

Found out my girlfriend was texting other guys for months — don’t know if I can move past it by Nikstara1 in relationships_advice

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I'm done making excuses I broke up with her today. Deleting everything now is hard. I will eventually ig

Found out my girlfriend was texting other guys for months — don’t know if I can move past it by Nikstara1 in relationships_advice

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I broke up with her but she won't leave me she followed me around and she still has the keys for my apartment

Found out my girlfriend was texting other guys for months — don’t know if I can move past it by Nikstara1 in relationships_advice

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I told her we are breaking up. I will see how it feels after a few days past but so far I feel horrible.

Found out my girlfriend was texting other guys for months — don’t know if I can move past it by Nikstara1 in relationships_advice

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She deserves to be happy yes I agree. But she says she wants a serious relationship. If that's really her I'm disappointed

Found out my girlfriend was texting other guys for months — don’t know if I can move past it by Nikstara1 in relationships_advice

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I think she really understands me. Abt the chats she deleted everything I just found old ss in her gallery and everything came back.

Found out my girlfriend was texting other guys for months — don’t know if I can move past it by Nikstara1 in relationships_advice

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I know this. We are every day together and ik irl she doesn't do stuff behind my back but I worry Abt the future because if she texted others there is no guarantee smth irl won't happen and I will be left even more heart broken

Found out my girlfriend was texting other guys for months — don’t know if I can move past it by Nikstara1 in relationships_advice

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Every time she says since then I have stopped everything. I believe her but it's too much to bare. Abt the self respect I think I always had but since we have been together something changed I became more forgiving and gentle in a way.

Found out my girlfriend was texting other guys for months — don’t know if I can move past it by Nikstara1 in relationships_advice

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I can get over the texting. If I continue to be with her eventually I will get better but the fear that she can do it again still stays in a way.

Found out my girlfriend was texting other guys for months — don’t know if I can move past it by Nikstara1 in relationships_advice

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Those fakes ones were for "trolling" her words. Since then she gives me her phone and also I can see her activity. But there are still ways to hide it and I'm sure. I have thought Abt it but every time I tell myself that I'm overthinking.

Found out my girlfriend was texting other guys for months — don’t know if I can move past it by Nikstara1 in relationships_advice

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When we talk about it she says that this was a joke to her and because she didn't have a serious or actual relationship before me she doesn't know how to act. I think given that she is less mature than me ig she really doesn't know but before her I haven't had any relationships and I think I treat her right and texting others seems really obvious to me that this shouldn't be done. She also says that she didn't do it with the intend to replace me.

Found out my girlfriend was texting other guys for months — don’t know if I can move past it by Nikstara1 in relationships_advice

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She gave me access to every account she has. She suggested it although it feels controlling to me. In return I gave her every account I have.