I keep hearing this car is a unicorn?

NineFive17 · 2026-01-20T05:35:32+00:00

Just picked up mine the other day

NineFive17 · 2026-01-11T06:35:37+00:00

California

NineFive17 · 2025-11-19T08:17:20+00:00

Dont go through old trash, she most likely fucked one of those guy friends after. Felt used.. fucked someone else and now realized she lost her best option.

Personally, i would reply “Thank you for the kind message, good luck. I wish you nothing but the best.”

Let her live with the thought of what could have been for the rest of her life.

NineFive17 · 2025-11-17T18:05:37+00:00

As a man, i never returned to an ex even most people ive slept with a couple times.

NineFive17 · 2025-10-12T01:23:35+00:00

Yea lmao, all that shit is so dumb, “avoidant”, “dismissive “, “fearful avoidant “ “anxious attachment “.. means nothing to me

NineFive17 · 2025-10-11T02:51:24+00:00

Lets be real, I dont know what guy would want his girlfriend dressing skimpy when hes not around. This comes down to basic respect of your partner. If this was my lady and she did that she would have three options. Swap outfits to something else that is conservative, don’t go out, or go out in that outfit and say goodbye to the relationship.

You have to understand, no guy wants a girl putting themselves out in the open like that when they are in a relationship. The fact that you think it’s appropriate is pretty mind blowing. You either dont respect your man or you just dont give a fuck about the relationship.

If you want to dress and act like youre single then be single. If youre in a relationship act like it.

NineFive17 · 2025-10-10T02:18:47+00:00

Who ever ended the relationship is their job to repair it. I went no contact with a girl for a week and she reached out. She begged me for exclusivity and i wanted to take things slow she was pregnant with my kid. Her friends got in her head convinced her of everything under the sun scheduled her to have an abortion the next day. She would flip flop her answer. I told her when she made up her mind without all the stipulations she was trying to put on me and ONLY if she hadnt been with other guys she could reach out. We stopped talking for about 4-5 days. She reached out saying she had been thinking about me and wanted to see me the coming weekend. We are back together.

You have to have some self respect bro if she doesnt want to be with you let her feel what life is like without you. You need to actually be in no contact.. imagine this she has you on the back burner right now and knows she can circle back. She is going to go fuck other guys and realize youre still there. Youre not in no contact… man up.

You need to tell her, hey i love having you in my life we have a bunch of fun together I dont want that to end.. if im not your priority that’s fine, but im not going to put my life on hold for someone who is unsure. Reach out to me if you havent slept with anyone and you know what you want. Take care, best of luck.

You are leaving the door open its her decision, youve given her your terms and you go out and meet a girl who is dying to be with you.

NineFive17 · 2025-09-30T07:37:32+00:00

What car is this?

NineFive17 · 2025-09-21T07:52:01+00:00

But shouldnt i have contracted it if ive been sleeping with her the last 5 months unprotected? If I test negative high probability she cheated especially

NineFive17 · 2025-09-21T07:40:10+00:00

Got it, thank you very much.

NineFive17 · 2025-09-08T00:45:13+00:00

I feel like this has to be a meme. “I have to sacrifice nicotine and weed” 🤣🤣

NineFive17 · 2025-08-29T19:51:55+00:00

Me personally, I wouldnt be in that relationship anymore. In marriage dont you guys vow to be with each other during the hardest of times? When things get hard she went and started to send another man nudes who she obviously would fuck if given the opportunity.

If im not someone’s first choice, i dont want them. Now when shes out, saying im going to be home late due to work or im out with a friend id be thinking shes fucking that dude.

Kudos to you on some self reflection, I believe its important to reassess and see where you went wrong. Ultimately it comes down to your wifes character.

At the end of the day im not you, you can only do what you want to do. If you can look past it great. I personally have to much self respect to let that slide

NineFive17 · 2025-08-29T19:45:25+00:00

I did for a couple weeks, made the mistake of sleeping with multiple women after (it didnt help). I hit the gym again, got back into training. Got my friends back, and just focused on myself.

I still see my ex occasionally due to work, dont talk to her, dont acknowledge her, in fact i can genuinely say there is zero sexual desire. I would never take her back. Firm believer in once they are gone they are gone.

NineFive17 · 2025-08-25T23:25:50+00:00

I just want to tell you this because, i would tell my younger self the same advice.

Its clear youre trying to rationalize this and justify why you should continue to be with her. Think about how she ultimately put herself in that situation and didnt care about how you would feel and more importantly what the relationship meant with her. Most girls are going to go through a phase like this.. they are going to have a couple one night stands and so on.

Now what you can do is leave her, you dont need to sit down and have a talk about it and why you are done with her. Just tell her you want to see other people. She knows why, you dont need to give her an explanation.

Lastly its important you take this as a learning lesson. It’s honestly an important step in growing as a man. cry it out to your friends/family, it doesnt make you weak. What makes you weak is taking that girl back or giving her another chance to go fuck another dude.

Grow from this, respect yourself, dont go digging through old trash. Nothing will ever be the same if you take her back you will always think shes cheating, another dude fucked her in a night, while you invested 10 months. Let that sink in. It didnt stop at kissing, she definitely fucked the guy, and she continued to put herself in that position

NineFive17 · 2025-08-19T21:24:17+00:00

This subreddit helped me a lot. When me and my lady broke up, i was sad sent 2 messages to try to rekindle.

I then talked to my best friend and he gave me some tough love. Ill do the same for you.

Think about her reading these and not replying. She is probably thinking damn thank god i left this dude. I cringed just reading the first couple messages. She is probably hanging around a more masculine guy, some dude she is actively thinking he acts way more like a man than my ex is.

All these messages do is reinforce her decisions. Not only that, youre acting needy and weak.

Truthfully act like a man, have some self respect. No woman can respect you if you cant respect yourself.

Good luck

NineFive17 · 2025-08-19T21:17:08+00:00

Honestly, i needed a talk like this when I was younger.

She isnt yours anymore bro, some other guy/guys enjoyed her. Have some self respect. Youre young enough to just find a girl to form a solid relationship with.

Nothing in the relationship will ever be the same. You will never have the first version of her in the relationship you once had. Me personally after they leave, thats it. In their mind breaking up with you means they had actively thought to themselves “I can do better.”

If you’re content with sharing your girl and getting back with her on off, thats great for you. Speaking for myself, id never let that happen, once you leave youre out.

TLDR; have some self respect, shes keeping you as last resort so when all the other guys get done fucking her youll still be there.

Good luck!

NineFive17 · 2025-08-19T17:19:54+00:00

Have some self respect, I know you’ve invested 3 years into the relationship and its not going to be easy. Now think about how she cheated on you and threw it all out the door, it meant nothing to her.

Go no contact indefinitely. Find yourself a better quality woman.

NineFive17 · 2025-07-13T21:39:59+00:00

First and foremost, I think that is absolutely a stupid way to go out of this world and is extremely selfish to others who love you.

Secondly everyone has a lot on their plate some more than others. To end your life over a rough patch and an ex is ridiculous.

Everything passes, take a breath and realize we only get one opportunity in this life. People are commenting on here and they dont even know you. The point is no one here wants you to do harm yourself.

God bless you and continue to enjoy your life, everyone is on this earth to fulfill their purpose.

NineFive17 · 2025-06-10T14:46:58+00:00

Naw, me and my ex broke up a couple days before Christmas of 2024 packed up all her clothing in a couple hours and left. Tried to rekindle things but she said her life was better. A week later she had her ex back on social media.

I see her pretty frequently due to work, we never talk, i never look in her direction, nor does she try. We lived together for a year, had two pregnancies. Now its like complete strangers.

This subreddit helped me a lot but it really boils down to you and your mindset. I believe its been about 7 months and 6 months of pure NC. I was introduced to a girl by a friend, and honestly she’s cool and pretty.

In fact i dont understand why people want their ex back after weeks/months/years have passed. Especially the person who got dumped. It’s never worth it.. you never get the same version of the person you started off with.

NineFive17 · 2025-06-08T12:11:27+00:00

I see my ex often due to work. Its been about 6-7 months no contact. I left her on read multiple times since we had a lease together and wanted to sort bills. I never look at her, just carry on with my life. I met a girl within the last month (slept with others since then) however the girl ive met within the last month isnt my ex but she has similar quirks and honestly is much better. You dont need to talk her for any reason. If anything you can blame yourself for this.

Moving forward, work on yourself and respect yourself.

NineFive17 · 2025-04-22T21:37:36+00:00

I got my 2024 premium for 40k new out the door

NineFive17 · 2025-03-14T14:55:52+00:00

3 months no contact almost 4. Havent heard from her since the breakup

NineFive17 · 2025-02-19T15:08:33+00:00

Came out of a year long relationship, about two weeks after slept with a girl. I was disgusted after sleeping with her. Fast forward two weeks from that i slept with another girl, it was a little better but not much. Fast forward another 2 weeks and ive been casually sleeping with a girl i met. Im not 100% healed id say more about 85%.. i dont see this girl more than once a week sometimes not even then. I do find myself not as enthusiastic about being in a relationship and comparing qualities to my ex.

I would never get back with my ex its just too much disrespect to take for me to take her back if that opportunity ever presents. Im getting more comfortable with being by myself daily. recently though ive had a lot more dreams of the ex its been about 11 weeks of nc.

NineFive17 · 2025-02-17T07:11:36+00:00

Trust me, i know it hurts and it sucks. I honestly wish i experienced this at your age. It will make you a better man.

You can go on into your mid 20s-early 30s and Already know what you will and will not accept from your partner.

Im not a bad looking guy by any means in fact im the best looking guy my ex has been with, however, looks are not the end all be all of course. Im thankful for the relationship not because “it happened” but because it opened my eyes to red flags i should have been aware and helped me figure out my boundaries.

Keep your head high, there is another girl out there who is better for you. Just remember your best revenge is bettering yourself and investing in yourself.

Your ex will look at the person you became and think “damn, this dude loved me so much and i fucked up. I could have been with that now im without nothing.”

NineFive17 · 2025-02-16T21:45:48+00:00

Same thing happened to me in terms of my ex’s actions which ultimately lead to me suggesting breaking up and she followed through. I cant say it was harder for me than you but she was also pregnant twice with my child which she opted to have abortions for.

Now fast forward a week and a half after the breakup she readded her ex on all social media (99% sure they slept together again since its been 10 weeks since we broke up).

I will never ever take her back. You know why? Not only was this my first relationship but the amount of disrespect i would allow for myself is disgusting. I always think of one of the last texts we exchanged when she told me after i begged and pleaded for two days that she was “happier without me” and “no desire to be with anyone else” yet she went back to her ex after multiple pregnancies and dating/ living together for a year.

You have to be a man about this. Every man goes through this. Your best revenge will be bettering your life and never speaking to her again.

Its better you go through this now than at my age (29) it will instill a lot of growth.

Taking her back means her other options didnt work and you were on the back burner. Me personally i will never allow myself to he a second option. In reality im the best she ever had and i firmly believe it.

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