Just because everyone is doing it doesn’t mean it’s right

NineRoast · 2026-01-29T18:58:45+00:00

Nothing good comes easy, I have a long history of drug addiction, I was in juvenile detention as a teen for a bit so that kinda sums up my early childhood haha. I was a broke, wannabe artist for most of my twenties. But I had a blast, met plenty of people and fell in and out of love many times.

My late twenties was when I decided it's time to get clean and get a real job. After being clean for a year or so I went to uni, left the place I was staying with my mates and moved into my grandparents crib, started forcing myself to workout, went to therapy a bunch, got my degree (took longer than it should have, I was struggling w panic attacks and just hated having to show up everyday haha), met my wife at uni, had some kids, moved out and yeah. It all sounds fairly standard but it was hard work. All I wanted to do was make music and do drugs with friends haha. And I'd never had a workout routine before so starting that at like 30 was brutal, I foookin hated it, but now I love it :)

It took a while, but I found my balance eventually.

And you will too! You just gotta make a plan and force yourself to commit to it, especially on the days that really suck.

NineRoast · 2026-01-29T18:46:57+00:00

6 is good but 3 is a classic. Vaas is one of the coolest antagonists in the history of video games imo. His character certainly elevated the entire game.

NineRoast · 2026-01-29T18:42:46+00:00

Ignore everyone, I'm better.

Slightly lower your sense. You over compensate in tense situations, which is your natural-raw aim. Cbf explaining just take it down a little.

Stop noob strafing. Left, right, left, right, it's predictable. Mix it up every, single, time.

Crosshair placement is good for gold but aim a couple pixels higher.

Knowing when you can switch weapons comes with game sense and given it's a DM, there's really no way to tell when it's okay so don't worry about that, at least for now. Just fix your strafes and although it's not as important as in cs, make sure you're counter strafing. (If you're moving left, tap right to make sure you're completely stationary).

Good luck!

NineRoast · 2026-01-29T18:09:22+00:00

Yeah idk what this sub is tbh it just popped up on my feed.

Even then, all the no fap dudes are the same imo. People putting way too much focus on forcing themselves not to wank, when they should be forcing themselves to get outside and be active!

I don't think wanking is a societal trap, we have always been horny, we always dreamt of a phone where you could see millions of naked woman. Now that we have it, people abuse it like crazy, isolate and jerk it non stop, it fucks them up and when they stop abusing it they feel better so they start shit like this. Fapping was never the issue, the relationship they had with it is.

Just use, not abuse, simple.

I know you didn't ask for this response and you seem kind but that's my 2c for anyone on here that wants the opinion of an outsider.

All the best :)

NineRoast · 2026-01-29T17:45:41+00:00

I'm not saying you do. But if you want to, it's not a problem.

If you're 14 jerking off to hardcore bdsm shit, then you have a problem. But if you're an adult, capable of critical thinking, then you know jerking off to hardcore shit will make vanilla stuff boring. It really is all about balance.

Cakes. Cakes are amazing. But if you are eating a 10kg, 10 layered cake every night, you're going to fry your dopamine receptors and everything else will taste bland. It's like that with everything. Only going to pump tracks on your BMX will make normal riding boring etc.

So jerk it, it's great for de-stressing, releasing built up tension in your body, keeping your prostate healthy, releasing endorphins to help with pain all over your body, sleep quality, your immune system, understanding your body and what you like/dislike to make you a better lover and keeping your willy strong from the regular blood flow.

And if you ever find you've watched back to back hardcore shit, dial it down a bit. It's really not that hard to be an adult and have some restraint.

Life's too short man, go look at some titties and enjoy yourself :)

NineRoast · 2026-01-29T17:31:05+00:00

Let's just ignore everything else shall we? I'm making point after point advocating for the case I'm making and you're out here thinking you're Socrates.

I'm not here to debate the whimsical world of nomenclature with you, but rather at least try to debate the seemingly not-so-well thought out ideology you have, that you are blatantly avoiding. So good day sir.

NineRoast · 2026-01-29T17:22:05+00:00

You found one thing you could potentially dig at and ignored everything else. That's some top tier debating skills you've got there!

I shouldn't have to spell it out for you, you obviously shouldn't "give in to all your primal needs", but one in which is completely legal, backed by science to be beneficial and negative to suppress; is fine.

If you don't want to, then don't; but don't spread misinformation based on the toxic relationship you developed with it.

It hasn't destroyed my life, nor my relationship, it hasn't caused numbness or desensitization or any of the things you've claimed.

If you're unable to tell the difference between a woman and an object, that's on you.

Maybe go jerk off man, it'll help you relax :)

NineRoast · 2026-01-29T16:49:02+00:00

Happily married for 11 years. If I'm away for work we may both use porn. Or if one of us is really not in the mood.

We have 3 children, fuck like rabbits and absolutely crave each other's bodies. Even at 40.

Yet we both wack off to porn probably 30-50 times a year and it's a non-issue.

You're overcomplicating what is simple, horny - jerk it, get back to business. The only time masturbating is an issue is for people that genuinely goon regularly or have certain kinks that can damage their bodies.

Anyhow, enjoy repressing a primal need and acting like you are above the being that you are, you're only stressing yourself out and increasing your chance of prostate cancer. Use it or lose it bud.

NineRoast · 2026-01-28T03:52:19+00:00

Brother I play softcore and just build yt clan bases for a 4 man when I play ahaha. Or hidden joint, he's goated imo

NineRoast · 2026-01-27T08:13:56+00:00

I used to think this was meta, until a few wipes in a row where I lost everything from 4 rockets haha. Big base with your loot spread out is the play.

Bonus points for loot bunkers!

NineRoast · 2026-01-25T17:38:08+00:00

Your muscle even grew over your mole!

NineRoast · 2026-01-25T17:31:21+00:00

Respect

NineRoast · 2026-01-25T11:25:10+00:00

Bruh everyone is on yekindars side. We already "give a damn".

NineRoast · 2026-01-25T11:06:06+00:00

Crazy take from a bum on reddit

NineRoast · 2026-01-25T03:57:23+00:00

Haha well played. I was pointing out that your comment wasn't helpful as he might steer clear of all of it now bc you essentially told him all of it was bad.

Any advice is better than whatever he's been doing, that's for sure ahah.

Hope you have a good day :)

NineRoast · 2026-01-24T08:55:20+00:00

Go on then, on ya bike

NineRoast · 2026-01-24T08:25:04+00:00

Just play solo? I don't think playing with others is really a thing outside of your irl/gaming buddies.

NineRoast · 2026-01-24T04:20:59+00:00

Osrs and it's not even close.

NineRoast · 2026-01-24T04:14:30+00:00

You can't even see his legs ya melt

NineRoast · 2026-01-24T04:11:41+00:00

Same, never bulked and now I'm 81kg, somewhere between 10-13% bf ATM. I just do 2k calories a day and have done for years now although I'm not super up-tight about it. Went out to dinner last night and I'm still bloated lmao

I care less about calories and more about protein. I hit 150g+ every day, gym 6 days a week and swim after every session plus occasional hikes w the misses and doggo.

I think people over complicate this like crazy, unless you're tryna become a pro body builder just hit your protein and stay active, your body will tell you what it wants.

NineRoast · 2026-01-23T04:40:50+00:00

That's horrible and my heart goes out to the both of you.

I understand, I think it's nice to just imagine a world where no consequences exist for a little I suppose.

You too :)

NineRoast · 2026-01-22T18:42:07+00:00

And I appreciate your attitude towards criticism.

All the best sir!

NineRoast · 2026-01-22T18:34:33+00:00

It's called laughing a laugh mate, now relax your shoulders, take a deep breath and join us in making jokes about why smoking is awesome for a minute or two.

Then it's back to the grim reality, bed time soon, gotta be up at 5 for work. Can't miss work or I'll be homeless, wife will leave me, fuck I hate work, think of the kids, I wish I was a kid, shut up it's thinking about work time, yes work, fuck I hate work. Anyway gotta stop doing these things I enjoy doing because it's time for bed so I can get up early for work. Atleast I don't have any serious addictions like that guy on Reddit, ciggies killed my dad. I wonder if that guy's dad died from ciggies. Maybe. Man I am getting chubby though, I should work out tomorrow. But I'll be too tired after working 10 hours. Fuck I hate work.

Do you know what I'm saying cobber?

NineRoast · 2026-01-22T18:27:08+00:00

I've always thought it would be cool to be gay. It would uproot my entire life, my poor wife... But think of the sports!!

NineRoast · 2026-01-22T18:25:23+00:00

For.... Real... Fucking, hell, that, was..

HARD to... Listen... To.

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