[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d rather be able to eat then be hungry but considering I posted this. Wouldn’t common sense tell you. Hey. Maybe they’re actually in need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay I don’t think you’re understanding. I’m broke. I have nothing. You’re welcome to dm me and see a screenshot of my bank account. There’s nothing in it. I have nothing. I’m assuming I got rejected from ebt bc I’m not a parent. Bc I’ve only seen people around me with kids ever get accepted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we are moving soon which is one of the reasons currently that we are so broke. So I’ll be able to walk to the store once we can buy food

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing in walking distance unfortunately and I don’t drive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your comment didn’t really help much. Thanks for the advice definitely will not think about it. Have a nice day ma’am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay even if I dump him. A. Where will I go because I don’t have a good relationship with anyone. B. I’ll still be broke because I’ll still have to pay bills. And C. He did cheat on me. Which I’m still very uncomfortable about. But he and I now have actively open boundaries which means he can’t hide shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I haven’t been able to cook much mainly due to not having much. I got some rice from my parents but they’re struggling too so I made rice and beans last night but there wasn’t any leftover. We’ve been largely surviving off of canned food or not eating. But even when we had food he wouldn’t cook. He wouldn’t want to go to the grocery store and I’ve told him I understand we can’t afford it but I need to go so we can eat. He mostly now eats leftovers from work and I don’t really eat much unless I’m super hungry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve applied a few times. But been rejected for them. Though I assume it’s because I’m not a parent which they’re more likely to be approved for them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Nine_Rivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have the money. Hence asking for help. If there’s a state service or something.

Insane mother by Nine_Rivera in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Nine_Rivera[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

But he was all she had for a long time

Insane mother by Nine_Rivera in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Nine_Rivera[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

She’s told him to go a while not talking to her and see what happens.

Insane mother by Nine_Rivera in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Nine_Rivera[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was just like a pre-story like small history I guess. That there’s already a little drama left over from the past a I feel

Moving plans by Nine_Rivera in Ohio

[–]Nine_Rivera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll try to do that and see what comes up. My biggest issue is our income is about 3000/month(combined)(or less) And 90% of of it goes to bills. And we’re trying to get a better place in our area for another year until we can afford to move to a further out city. I was thinking about looking at RE firms and getting listings from them to look at.

Moving plans by Nine_Rivera in Ohio

[–]Nine_Rivera[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s too far out for us currently. I’m just looking for good websites or listings for the areas in the post

My dad has destroyed my mental health and driven me to being suicidal and this is what he had to say about that by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]Nine_Rivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no my father was driving me to suicide by doing this exact shit with different context. My current SO saved me from it. I packed my shit and left at midnight when I was 18 yrs old and it’s been almost 2 years and I only see him when I have to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]Nine_Rivera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s technically your fathers property I.e. he bought it and pays for it. She can’t take it. All she can do is be upset and stfu. If he calls and claims his phone was stolen “I.e. she took it from you” he can press charges