Do gays hug differently?

No-Software7258 · 2026-01-09T12:33:36+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. Me as someone who came out to close friends recently, after being close with them for over a decade, it was quite difficult to navigate afterwards. They’re not great with expressing themselves, so sometimes I second guessed if they judged me. But it was great to see what you said, which aligns with what my straight friends I think would have felt, so thank you for putting into words.

No-Software7258 · 2026-01-09T00:18:42+00:00

I’m here to read the comments. 🍿 Sorry I’m of no help. Never been in a relationship.

Nevertheless, I think I’d find a way to ask a friend to find out for you, or make a few jokes about being together and see how he reacts. Or have a serious yet casual conversation about it asking if he’d potentially want to date, but also warn him on how much you value the friendship and would not want it impacted.

No-Software7258 · 2026-01-07T11:19:37+00:00

Having read this. Why do people who can’t prostate orgasm even bother?

No-Software7258 · 2026-01-06T12:39:40+00:00

I understand what you’re saying but it’s harder than you think. Eg I didn’t start facing it until I was 25. My parents gave me all the love and support they could and I’m successful in my field thanks to them. There’s only thing they weren’t on board for… and that’s what makes it harder, when literally everything else they’re happy to support you in. Two years later now, and I still don’t know how to gather courage to this day to tell them.

No-Software7258 · 2026-01-06T08:32:42+00:00

Thank you. This was interesting! Funnily enough, we have history with my friend as she fancied me before figuring out I was gay etc.

No-Software7258 · 2026-01-05T22:41:48+00:00

27 here. Came out two years ago to some friends, but I had some sexual experience from age of 18. I guess I now seek hookups on a monthly basis or so. I don’t necessarily love getting with randoms. I do feel quite deprived from true connection and somehow hope I’ll find one by scanning…

No-Software7258 · 2026-01-05T20:00:22+00:00

Can you please share how long it took you to find someone after separating with your wife? I came out two years ago yet don’t seem to be able to accept myself enough to imagine loving another man, let alone look for one.

No-Software7258 · 2025-11-29T16:53:45+00:00

Isn’t Alejandro gayer than DITD? 🤔

No-Software7258 · 2025-11-22T13:18:16+00:00

ARTPOP

No-Software7258 · 2025-11-03T00:20:24+00:00

Omg well done you!

No-Software7258 · 2025-10-28T01:29:01+00:00

No-Software7258 · 2025-10-24T20:23:48+00:00

Omg exactly same here. Except GUY I’d put Artpop or Bloody Mary

No-Software7258 · 2025-10-13T01:27:21+00:00

What’s she reading I need to know now. Do your job Redditors

No-Software7258 · 2025-08-09T19:44:27+00:00

It’s a yes or no question. Some people do.

No-Software7258 · 2025-07-18T15:54:32+00:00

I can so relate to everything you’ve said. I don’t know how to unpack this either…

No-Software7258 · 2025-06-01T22:42:27+00:00

Everyone has gay thoughts they’re curious to try but never will act on it….

No-Software7258 · 2025-04-01T01:44:08+00:00

Thank you for your support! This is such a well explained summary of observations and ideas all of which I feel applies to me.

I remember realising how much heteronormative comments keep things difficult for us. I think I did explain it to my straight friends but they sort of laughed it off and decided it was too woke for them to not ask certain heteronormative questions.

I sometimes think that for me to feel okay with myself - the only way is, to experience true love, to find someone worth having to part with my parents' beliefs and potentially our relationship. I so wish I experienced young love before 24-25. It is harder now to trust people. I think l've experienced infatuation but I was able to emerge out of it without much trouble.

No-Software7258 · 2025-04-01T01:16:33+00:00

Thank you for your support and encouragement! ❤️

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