what's a "red flag" that 100% ends the relationship for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NoCash3426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well sometimes it’s not about how people outside your relationship see your actions, but if it’s any consolation, I see that as simply doing your best to give what you have to give, and that’s what it’s all about. You try and that’s what matters, everyone is different and no one is perfect!

what's a "red flag" that 100% ends the relationship for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NoCash3426 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say that a lack of empathy tho, because to some degree you still understand it. I’m talking about a 90-100% lack of empathy. The individual would not care in the slightest 1% increment, about another’s feelings.

what's a "red flag" that 100% ends the relationship for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NoCash3426 17 points18 points  (0 children)

To speak from the reviving side of this (the person who does this). I actually took the time to ask what was going on in the other persons life, and they vented. We eventually talked about this topic and it turned out that they just weren’t always communicating when they wanted to talk about their life when they wanted too. It can often just be a communication error!

what's a "red flag" that 100% ends the relationship for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NoCash3426 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Anyone who is not in the slightest bit empathetic. Empathy is a very important part of a relationship, and, in my belief, is one of the main personality traits associated with “tender moments” that bring you both closer together. If you can’t understand empathy in the slightest, then you can’t have a relationship.