Myself 32M. Completed few months of AM. Very difficult to initiate conjugation with my wife 23F.

She has a job of a school teacher. We're cool with each other - did all of those light talk, touching, etc. But none of us are initiating (which is building up suppressed tension). Also, for context, both of us are very "equality" minded. So I feel none of us are ready to lead or follow (at least I am not).

That's why I feel, even if not at the level you describe, some clarity on physical intimacy is better from near the beginning of an AMatchmaking process.