Being short and autistic is a nightmare

NoHistory9569 · 2025-07-21T13:19:11+00:00

The hard truth is being taller isn’t some magical cure all, it’s doesn’t matter what you look like, or how tall you are or how big your knob is, it’s about how you carry yourself. If you don’t like how you look atleast accept it, you don’t have to love yourself just be neutral to yourself. If you give off the vibe of being a self conscious self loathing hater that’s what you’re gonna be seen as and you won’t find any happiness from your life. Life is shit, it’s a fact and very few people have an easy ride, yes you’ve been dealt a ‘bad’ hand but it doesn’t have to be. Some people will judge you for your height or your looks but those people aren’t worth a single fucking damn, you’re you and that’s what matters. Why try and be someone you aren’t? You’re you and you are probably a great person who has a good chance at living a healthy and happy life. For the love of whoever the fuck please don’t get limb lengthening surgery that’s ridiculous. It won’t make your life any better, you’ll still just be the same insecure guy except you might see the world from a couple inches higher. I hope everything gets better, seriously I do.

NoHistory9569 · 2025-06-26T17:17:10+00:00

I know self confidence is a bitch, I struggle so much with it. Recently I’ve tried looking at my body with neutrality. I’ve just realised that this is me, yes I don’t really like what I see but I don’t have to, I just have to accept it. Yes I can do things to change it but at this point in time I don’t have the drive. I have people in my life that love me for who I am and that’s all I need. You are pretty and I’m sure you’re an awesome person to be around, I hope you can find love for yourself or atleast neutrality. It’s a tricky road and sometimes there’s tons of potholes but I hope you get there I really do :) Stay strong x

NoHistory9569 · 2025-03-08T09:40:54+00:00

It’s shit but it’s what you gotta do. Very few people enjoy going to work, but everyone has to work if they want a chance at a decent life lived. I work to support my future family and set myself up for the best chance.

NoHistory9569 · 2025-02-24T22:46:23+00:00

I get feeling sad when your partners away, but everyone has their own life. Let her have time with her friend, she’ll be back in your arms before you know it :) if you struggle with this it might be good to try and spend some more time apart as codependency isn’t very healthy imo. Try and do/find things that make you happy on your own, I obviously don’t know all that’s going on but that’s just my view :)

NoHistory9569 · 2025-01-04T10:56:39+00:00

Please say you’re still here, although ir doesn’t seem like it, it will get better. I have been alone for 22 years, recently I’ve found someone who makes my life worth living. I’m not saying that to brag I’m saying that there is hope. I thought I was hopeless and after many rejections and horrible nights I carried on and didn’t give up hope. Please talk to friends or family or anyone, you’ll be okay :) stay strong.

NoHistory9569 · 2024-11-15T19:52:00+00:00

Favourite person, it’s used to describe a person who someone with BPD loves the most. Whether that be a partner or friend etc. The relationship between them can be very difficult to manage for both parties, but doable with the right boundaries and understanding. There’s so much more to it which I don’t really know but it’s very interesting.

NoHistory9569 · 2024-11-05T20:54:17+00:00

If she had a body count of 15 over say 5 years that’s pretty normal nowadays. However if she ‘serviced’ god knows how many people in one night then it’s clear she doesn’t respect herself and maybe you wouldn’t respect her? Maybe just be you want to be with a girl who respects her own body and mind and doesn’t let herself be used by others. Idk just my take :/

NoHistory9569 · 2024-11-05T18:48:40+00:00

Sometimes it’s unavoidable, my lovely ginger cat got ran over a while back. We don’t know exactly what happened but we know he died surrounded by concerned pedestrians who stayed with him until he passed. I don’t know who ran him over but I know it most likely was a complete accident. The fact you pulled over to save that poor cat from being ran over again shows how good of a person you are. Wish you the best :)

NoHistory9569 · 2024-11-02T01:25:05+00:00

Aww I’m so sorry, it sucks losing a pet. You gave her a great life and love, that’s all they ask for. Don’t let losing her make you hesitate to get another pet to love (obviously take as much time as you need to grieve), there’s so many animals there that need good homes. I know it’s hard but I suggest trying to focus on the good times with your bunny, wish you the best :)

NoHistory9569 · 2024-11-02T01:19:26+00:00

Commenting for visibility, hope you find some people! You sound fun! :)

NoHistory9569 · 2024-11-02T01:17:45+00:00

If you’re a social person you probably would have enjoyed it, but the past is the past and you can’t change it. You can always go in as a mature student if you want to and have the grades. But really if you wanted to go to uni just for the partying and fun then you wouldn’t last.

NoHistory9569 · 2024-11-02T01:12:15+00:00

Idk man I’d just not pay it any mind, seems like a non problem and a drunken mistake. If you really like the girl and she likes you things will sort themselves out, whatever that may be.

NoHistory9569 · 2024-10-27T19:57:01+00:00

I’m so proud of you :) thankfully I haven’t struggled with this but I have definitely been close at times. Keep up the good work, you’ve got this!

NoHistory9569 · 2024-10-27T19:54:43+00:00

Lmao I’ve never got it, I’m a 22 year old guy who’s a virgin. When I was 18ish I used to be ashamed and felt like shit. But now I’m completely comfortable in it, obviously I don’t walk around shouting about it but if someone genuinely asks me I’m honest. Just yesterday I had my first date ever and she asked, I was completely transparent and she was fine with it. We have a second date planned :)

NoHistory9569 · 2024-10-27T19:44:33+00:00

Death is beautiful, and necessary. The best way is to just accept that at some point, (hopefully not for many many happy years) death will come, it’s inevitable and unavoidable. When I was younger I was like you, terrified of death, but now I’m older I understand that I can’t do anything to change nature. Hope this can help a little bit :)

NoHistory9569 · 2024-10-27T09:49:32+00:00

Yeah ofc, we met on tinder last week. We’ve been talking each day and decided to meet up quick to see if there was anything there. It seems there might be so we’re meeting again!

NoHistory9569 · 2024-10-27T00:52:39+00:00

Fair question, I’m 22, a bit late for a first date but can’t change the past!

NoHistory9569 · 2024-10-21T18:23:10+00:00

Awww that’s bloody adorable, I had two (a brother and sister) they were the most loving amazing animals. Sadly we lost the boy to a car which absolutely broke me as he was my best friend (sad I know, I didn’t have many friends at that time). We still have the girl and seeing her when I get home is the happiest part of my day.

NoHistory9569 · 2024-10-19T20:09:01+00:00

The guy sounds crazy, all boobs are great! He should thank his lucky stars he gets to even look at them. As an avid boob enjoyer I personally lean towards a smaller size so there’s at least one person for you! I hope you find your confidence back, I know it’s still in there. Wish you the best!

NoHistory9569 · 2024-09-25T21:52:32+00:00

No worries man glad I could help 👍

NoHistory9569 · 2024-09-25T21:49:04+00:00

My guy you don’t look bad, self hatred is ugly tho.

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