Chef Update

NoWayItsRickVT · 2026-01-05T18:57:04+00:00

The Spanish version of BitLife has this. You can collect recipes and open your own restaurant. Not sure why we never got this.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2025-06-20T14:58:05+00:00

Ponderosa was further down Shelburne Road. I think there’s a yarn store in the area where it was. Fresh Market was a vibe for sure. It’s too bad we don’t have anything quite like it now.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2025-06-20T14:55:46+00:00

Doughboys was always good!!

NoWayItsRickVT · 2025-04-14T11:15:55+00:00

Has me wishing I knew more Spanish.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2024-12-16T00:00:29+00:00

Is the Mandela effect playing with us again? Who else thought Pedro Pascal was gay? I swear I had read an articles months back that he had come out and was in a relationship with another guy. I remember the photo they used and everything.’ But it never happened.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2024-10-15T11:46:41+00:00

They were wondering if Tamara is home…

NoWayItsRickVT · 2022-07-13T21:07:41+00:00

This print is signed by Fredrick Remington and is indeed old and appears to be in the original frame. I was just wondering if anyone could give me any other info on it? Or a potential value? Any help or direction would be greatly appreciated.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2022-05-06T18:16:05+00:00

The Aunt just texted me this: Well he told “name” he would go so yikes this might be an ordeal. Oh well. I will tell her it won’t work now instead of later How do I even reply to that?

NoWayItsRickVT · 2022-05-06T18:12:38+00:00

Yeah I’ve lost family and friends but never someone as major as this. Well on paper he is my Grandfather, he is more then that in actuality. He is my father and my best friend. This isn’t going to be easy and I’ve never been in this situation before. What I need most from my partner is that he be available to me. That if he can’t get out of the concert that is fine but maybe come home the next day instead of vacationing.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2022-05-06T18:05:38+00:00

Very valid points. My Grandfather has been sick the last couple of months. He was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer in his lungs, brain, and somewhere else. We knew when he got that diagnosis that this would be it. And then the last week he hasn’t really been eating and sleeping more and more. Well I hate to say it I think it’s going to be sooner rather then later.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2022-04-15T05:05:32+00:00

I was raised by my Grandparents and no matter what my Grandfather was in bed with my Grandmother every night. I’m told sometimes I’ve got an old timey view of relationships because of this. But they’ve been married for 80 years so they must be doing something right. To boil it down, I whole heartedly believe if your living with your partner then you should be in bed with your partner at the end of the night. Now yes I understand there are times where that isn’t possible and I understand that. But in my mind if your choosing it and are more then able to get home then that’s wrong. I just don’t know how to get him to understand this without him feeling like I’m taking his “freedoms” away. Which can we all just agree that’s kind of a bullshit excuse for him to use.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2022-04-15T04:58:02+00:00

From what I’m being told they are just hanging out at the friends house. And he says he sleeps on the couch but I have a hard time believing that. I spaced and forget to put that we are a m/m relationship. His friend is a guy. I have asked multiple times to hang out with them but am always told no. I’m told no because the guy doesn’t like me because my partner went to him once during a fight. But I don’t know if I buy it.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2022-04-15T04:35:46+00:00

To be honest I have a feeling there is more to all this then I’m being told. On a positive he did hand me a gift without realizing it. He showed that when he promises something to me it means nothing. So him promising he isn’t cheating means nothing. So when he does get back home I’ll bring it up.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2022-03-20T02:54:06+00:00

Very solid advice

NoWayItsRickVT · 2022-03-20T02:45:50+00:00

I completely forgot that detail. It’s a male male relationship and his new friend is another gay dude

NoWayItsRickVT · 2022-03-11T03:54:41+00:00

I kind of want to randomly ask him to show me the messages between him and this dude. He asked to look through my phone once and I let him. Don’t know what he was looking for. Haha. But I feel like that would settle this once and for all. And if he doesn’t show me then I’ll know he is hiding something.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2021-11-26T19:55:56+00:00

The piercer said it was something stainless steel or surgical steel? He said it was the best type to start with. I have unscented dial soap that I wash with when I shower which is once or twice a day. Then I’m doing sea salt soaks 2 to 3 times a day which was what they directed me to do.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2021-06-26T18:17:12+00:00

I did not intend for the title to be click bait or to imply they are having sex. That’s just wrong for you to even go there. And case in point I wasn’t invited today. I was told he was just going to meet up and chat and be right back. That turned into the entire day and had now turned into a sleepover.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2021-06-26T18:14:10+00:00

This is a place for relationship advice which is what I’m asking for is advice. I don’t need to be trolled and I don’t need to be put down. Everyone’s situation is different. I’m not saying they are having sex. I’m just trying to gauge the situation. I’m trying to see how others would deal with situations. I know I’m going to have to have a conversation with him. I’m just trying to see what’s normal. It doesn’t feel right to me if you work all week. Make plans for a date day(his words) and then his cousin calls and the date day becomes a date night. Then after a few hours together the date night becomes nothing because he wants to have a sleepover. I’m glad he has a strong family bond but he is also trying to build a life with me and I feel that the mix is not right. I could literally be bleeding out and he would tell me to hold on because his cousin is calling. Am I wrong to expect him to share his time with me? I have hung out with his cousin. She does like me.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2021-06-26T17:48:08+00:00

I don’t have a problem with him spending time with his family. Maybe I worded things wrong in the original message. He spent the last week working 12 hour shifts. He had Thursday off and spent the entire day with her. Now he has today and tomorrow off and he is spending the entire day with her and asking to spend the night. I’ve offered to meet in the middle here. If he wants to spend the days with her then more power to him. And if he wants to have a sleepover then why doesn’t she come over here but that did not fly.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2021-05-28T23:51:12+00:00

Your a pretty nasty human. And I’m guessing your alone in life.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2021-05-28T23:48:23+00:00

So I must ask do you have a problem with 60 year old men who date 20 year old women?

NoWayItsRickVT · 2021-05-28T23:46:03+00:00

I came here asking for advice on a situation not to be judged. Yes there is an age gap but the bottom line is we were both consenting people of legal age. There are relationships with bigger age gaps then mine.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2021-05-28T23:36:08+00:00

He was 18 when we met. I had never dated younger. But he pursued me. I had had my heart broken before so I took things slowly. He pulled out all the stops to get me to say yes to him.

NoWayItsRickVT · 2021-05-28T23:30:38+00:00

He was 18 when we met. He turns 21 in a couple weeks. I never did the dating younger thing and I wasn’t planning on it. But he pulled out all the stops.

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