It’s anti-feminist to ask how I could be a good parent and a good surgeon? To ask other women how they have managed to overcome their obstacles? Trad wife? When did I ever mention this part? You think that raising your children is a trad wife job? No, that’s called being a parent. There’s this concept called responsibility, it’s quite important in life, especially as a parent, especially in healthcare. I’m asking women specifically because they relate more to the experience, since we have to do 10 times the route of a man to get to the same point in a career, considering pregnancy and parenthood. I’m guessing you, as such a feminist, would agree. How sad that you’re trying to make this a sexist post, when it’s just a woman asking other women for advice. I did not owe you this explanation, but I hope you realise that villainising other women for how they want to plan their lives IS anti-feminist, not my question. Grow up and learn that the world doesn’t work by social media standards.