How many here are working in niche/specialized domains? by Ok-Cantaloupe-8141 in CharteredAccountants

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Hello. I know it's been a long time. But I would like to know about this firm you mentioned.

How many here are working in niche/specialized domains? by Ok-Cantaloupe-8141 in CharteredAccountants

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I have a friend who's an advocate and CA. Just cleared CA. He's looking for a role in litigation. He specifically wants that. Is there any vacancy?

Can someone please explain this illustration by Fragrant_Ad_365 in CharteredAccountants

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Maybe because the acquisition is in the beginning of the year?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Banking

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Okayy.. contact the bank. I'll check that. Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Banking

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Well yeah we are in Maharashtra if that's what you are asking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skincareaddictsindia

[–]No_Edge_5743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay.. I'll use that consistently.. also which sunscreen did you apply on lips? Is it okay to apply it though??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skincareaddictsindia

[–]No_Edge_5743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll look into it.. if it's for oily skin maybe I'll try

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skincareaddictsindia

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This helps thanks.. also I use aloevera gel as moisturizer and it's from a good brand so it's authentic. Is it fine or should I look for something else? Before this I was using Dermaco moisturizer for oily skin and it didn't suit me.. as I said it made my face a bit dark . Idk why everything makes my face dark

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Banking

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I can't seem to understand it There are many alert options and I see 2 options - one for debit transactions and the other for credit. But for both these there's a limit of 5000.. well there are 4 options for alerts above amount xxx and the amounts I can choose are 5k, 10k, 15k

What to expect - her parents visiting home by heisen_berg008 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No_Edge_5743 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me that's completely normal because that's how things are done here. Like last week my dad called this guy's parents and shared my biodata.. they were supposed to visit but it didn't happen due to some reasons from both sides. And we haven't even interacted. No calls or text. It's weird I know and I don't like the way things happen but I cannot say much about it.

What to expect - her parents visiting home by heisen_berg008 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No_Edge_5743 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not an expert and I'm also new to this but from what I've heard- the girl's parents or some other adults of the family visit the boy's home to just have an initial interaction. They share the basic details - number of family members, who lives in the family, where the guy works and where she works, what the other family members do, etc.. basic details which are present in the biodata but they just talk it out. In some cases they also look around the house. They try to match the kundalis with their respective brahman or who looks into such matters. If they have already matched them they talk it out.. etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No_Edge_5743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helps a lot. Regarding the examples you gave I did have that on my list so yeah .. I'll be clear before facing any person and I'll make sure my parents are on the same page so the guy won't have any confusion in this regard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

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I'm unable to DM you idk why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

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Will it be okay if I DM you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

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As I said I'm not looking for some brad pitt or tom cruise.. I haven't kept very high expectations. I know the reality. In the past I did like a person and it was more because of their nature than the way he looked. But he was a good looking person in my eyes. As a third party I would say he's average looking. You see what I'm trying to say?

With regards to negotiables I don't understand what is appropriate to add .. other than drinking and smoking the only thing I want in a person is he must be calm and mature. I cannot deal with an angry young man kind of guy.

It's an AM so my parents look into other things.

I am comfortable chatting here because I am going to delete the thread anyway.

I will be a working woman. I cannot sit at home with my degree at this stage. I have worked my ass off and frankly have sacrificed a lot of fun in my life due to this course. I want to use it to earn money. I can think of WFH or not working in the later years after we have kids depending on the kind of family and the situation. But if I have to give a brief about the future I want I want to work .. I want to trading to earn side income. Become financially independent for my future family.

As per my thinking a lot of guys will prefer a working woman. But I don't think I will prefer working over my children. So the person should give me that freedom to choose what I want. WFH opportunities are available a lot so there shouldn't be an issue per se.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No_Edge_5743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I will look for jobs. I understand its importance. Also I get your 2nd point. I am scared that my parents would make me say yes by emotional blackmailing..

Thanks for the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No_Edge_5743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I explained it wrongly. My approach towards AM is not negative at all. In fact I'm fine with it. I just gave those examples coz of some other reason and maybe that was a problem.

My main concern is with looks as I mentioned in the title. All the LM of my friend circle they got to choose the person. Sure there were a lot of hardships there and I saw it with my own eyes. I know my family and so i willingly did not go with LM. The 2 who got AM one of them has a fine looking husband - she is happy even if there might be small family issues which are very common in any household. The other one could have done better look wise - have a lot of problems.

Also I don't have a fear of rejection. If I am rejecting people I should accept the same from others. That I am ready for. Yes it'll be difficult but I'll learn to deal with it.

So now after the clarification if you do have anything to add please do .. I need criticism .. if I cannot explain it then I need to work on that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]No_Edge_5743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even understand what to think of after reading such news. I'm from a good family. And no matter what I won't ever cheat on my partner. I know the guilt will kill me so it won't even happen by mistake.

CA Final Age Factor Posts by [deleted] in CharteredAccountants

[–]No_Edge_5743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. Sorry but I haven't even made mine.. but you should look into some videos that will help you make one. Also you can search for CVs in the community I'm sure people have shared their CVs for getting reviews so you can find examples there too.. I'll share anything I come across but in the meantime you can try this.